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Name: linda

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I was seperated from by husband for 7 months while our child was 2 months old, he did not call send money etc...he came back home when she was 10 months. We agreed to try. He did not change I did...I let him do what ever he wanted and when he had time he kept me company. I was going in to have my tubes tied tues. but I found out I am pregnat....she said everthing can be done one time...he is saying he wants baby...I am a baby killer....but I took care of baby first time paid sitter had very little money or time. I am broke now just cut cable...so how will I pay for another if I keep baby....I cant afford to be sick to give baby away ...I must work to pay for kids I haVe, He helps a little diapers...when he has time and I ask he will take them to park. He does not watch his child cause she cries so bad with him so I take her with me. Ifeel he could leave again he feels unhappy...what do I do? ↓

Name: ann | Date: Aug 13th, 2008 6:44 PM

Please please do not even consider an abortion. I am adopted...the woman that gave birth to me was even raped to make things worse. But I truely believe God had a plan for my life. my parents could not have children so the woman that gave birth to me placed me with them. It is such a blessing to have my parents. There are soooo many families that would love to have your baby and will raise it and love it beyond measure. Then in the future IF YOU CHOOSE you can find out how the child turned out., I volunteered at a crisis pregancy center and they can help you....abortion is NEVER the answer. It will scar you in ways you will never know. If you need someone to talk to please let me know. I understand all sides of this and can help find someone that is willing to help you no matter what you decide. ↑

Name: lisawhite_2002 | Date: Sep 6th, 2008 6:09 AM

I have 3 kids and I struggle everyday. I would not have had an abortion. Sure you wonder how you are going to pay for the next meal or gas in your car to go to work. Kids are god's gift. He gave you that baby for a reason. I beg please do not have an abortion. everything just falls into place like it should. ↑

Name: 4mom | Date: Sep 10th, 2008 8:15 AM

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