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Name: amer
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me and my are filing for divorce uncontested. she cheated on me 3 times . she travel alot and that's when she commited the sin. i am the who filed but we have a 5 year old daughter who we love so much . we are filing for joint standard custody . my wife does'nt child support due to that i will be taking care of our daughter more the she will due to her traveling every month for her job .2-3 weeks out of the month, we both still love each other so much and realize that we have to be there for our daughter in the future, beside's my wife makes around 70,000 a year compare to my 28,000 a year,,,,i get the house so our daughter can still feel at home...in our creed it does not have our income,,,,we just want a quick peaceful divorce..i still love her ....my wife....what do u guys think.
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Name: Screeba | Date: Jun 24th, 2007 5:26 AM
If you still love her then maybe you should try couples counseling to try to work on things. She will have to take the time out of her "busy" schedule to do this if her family is important to her. But if you continue with the divorce then I would make sure that the papers stipulate that she has to pay child support. If the roles were reveresed and you were the one traveling/cheating/leaving and making 70g a year, trust me, you would definitly have to pay child support. Plus, I doubt that the state of TX would agree to the divorce without a child support clause in the decree. I have been divorced in TX and my husbands exwife left him with the kids and refused to pay tho he only asked for $100 a mo from her because we both felt that she still had a financial abligation to the children. You can still divorce peacefully, but still make her be responsible. You should have to carry the financial burden of raising a child on your own - especially since she will be starting school soon, clothes, activites, food - those things add up. Good luck - I hope you take the counseling route since it is obvious you still love her. 

Name: amer | Date: Jun 24th, 2007 8:14 AM
we tried counseling.....she backed out after 3 session. 

Name: amer | Date: Jun 24th, 2007 8:18 AM
i messed up ....my wife does'nt want child support. 

Name: pattyl | Date: Jun 24th, 2007 11:26 AM
If the child is going to live with you because her mom is gone all the time you need to get CS. You also need to get primary custody. 

Name: amer | Date: Jun 24th, 2007 5:59 PM
i agree with you, my attorny who is represented both of us..uncontested ..said we should go after her next year and get sole custody. right now i'm hurt due to that i took her back a second time, i just want out of this marriage from hell, the attorney also said that our child cannot go to new york at all with my wife,,,,,,,,since that's where she had her flings...and no liquor around her at all time .....my attorney made it very difficukt for her to go on,,,,,,even on a job promotion..she cannot accepted the job, 

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