Sometimes, it can be hard to be a single mom. I honestly believe a male influence is essential only if he is the father of the child. I'm sure that both your parents love you. It is just that they may be confused at this point. After a break up, regardless of who ended the marriage, there is always a large amount of heartfelt emotions. You are not resposnsible for their problems. You cannnot fix whatever they have. What you can do is take advantage of their offers. They are apart but, they are always fighting for your attentiion. your job is to think of your own interests and take advantage of any monetary help you can get in order to get a career. If you wait for a perfect life where everyone gets along, you will be waiting a long time. Respect your parents, but realize you should worry about your own well being, not your parents mistakes. ↑ |