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Name: jenelle

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I will try and keep it short. The ex is crazy!!! She continues to tell the children she doesn't have a problem with me yet cancels appointments I make for them and tells there dad I don't like what she's doing. I moved in with my boyfriend end of june and hit the ground running. She asked us to keep the kids this summer so we did. Now i'm not good enough. She continues to lie to the children and tries to manipulate my boyfriend. She goes around to the schools were are children attend to see what I'm saying to people along with the kids sports. I cannot talk to anyone without her going up to them later wanting to know what I said. She shows up unannounced when she's been told to stay away and she know my boyfriend is gone. She is a sneaky manipulating snake and the children are so confused. They cry to me all the time and ask why. The kids and I are very close and know they can tell me anything which they do. Sometimes it's hart for me to be objective, but I do my best. I am so tired and don't know how to not let her effect my life and my children I brought into the relationships life. HELP HELP HELP HELP ↓

Name: OnMyWayOut | Date: Nov 17th, 2007 4:20 AM

I don't think it does. I've been living in h*ll for two years and it hasn't stopped yet. ↑

Name: Lory | Date: Nov 17th, 2007 5:53 AM

2 yrs?? Soryy no disrespect...I've been living it...(the x) for almost 14 yrs. Ummm...nooo..it doesn't stop until the last child is 19...at least in my case. wooohooo...only got about 2 more years of evil left!! Then...I can love & enjoy "our" children like we are supposed to....out of town!!! Nope..not here...we're on vacation....a "real" one!!!! ↑

Name: SGC | Date: Nov 27th, 2007 7:53 PM

I feel your pain, I just posted about my situation. I dont understand why woman get off on making others miserable? Why dont they see that adults understand they are vindictive spawns of satan but kids cant can not and that they are hurting their kids?? I will never understand it. I have only been married for 3 months and Im already sick of having this drama in my life
:( I think we all need a girls night out ;) Good luck.. I ↑

Name: cougarpride2007 | Date: Dec 2nd, 2007 9:03 PM

Jenelle-hey I know how you are feeling....I have one of those crazy ex's in my life as well......she has even gone as far as physically assulting me at my at my step-sons baseball game this past spring and told him that she hit me back after I hit her first after calling her names, which was totally the opposite.....all I can say is ignore, ignore, ignore........I know it doesn't seem like much advice but the more you react the more pleasure she gets out of it........I have had to learn the hard way, and I still sometimes get very upset but oh well life goes on. ↑