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Name: jason
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there are still good fathers out there and its realy unfair of how the internet and the courts are always against the fathers. i cant even find a web site just for fathers. me and my ex have joint custody,she cheated thats why we are divorced. her new 18 year old husband and his friends jumped me and my new wife, because he wanted me out of the picture because my ex yhinks when you get divorced the father should just pay child suuport and disappear
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Name: michelle c | Date: Dec 5th, 2005 1:27 PM
she doesnt sound fit to have custody. why dont you go and try to get your kids. sounds like you might have a little ground to stand on with her bf attacking you. dont let her walk all over you. you do have rights. keep a well documented record of all the things that happen,times ,dates,etc. If you go in there with proof like that she doesnt stand a chance, mother or not. some fathers do get custody..make her ass pay child support. 

Name: julie | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 6:08 PM
Hey Jason,
You're right I think a lot of women get spiteful because of their horrible encounters with irresponsible men. That doesn't excuse it, it only sheds light on their attitudes. If you're a loving responsible father, congradulations for taking responsibility. I have respect for any parent, male of female, who puts their priorities in order.
If your ex-wife is the tyrant you claim, perhaps like michelle c said, keeping detailed records will be aiding in your persuit to win full custody. However, even though she may be a lunatic to you, you need to ask yourself, is she a good mother to your children. Sounds like she may need to do a little growing up, but if you can put the b.s. behind you, she is going to be a vital part in your children's growth and developement. It is hard to be mature but you two are forever going to set the example on how to relate to the opposite sex and how to handle confrontations. It is up to you and your ex to find a happy medium. I know it's not easy, so good luck. 

Name: Mrmom_Kenny | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 9:42 PM
Hey Jason, your right , but the best advise I can give you is what I had to do. You need to really decide if the child is better off with her or with you.( I SAY IT'S YOU)but that's my opion. when I went for my divorce and custody my ex was pregnant and I brought 7 of the 12 guys that she had an affair with while we were married. she even lost visitation rights, the worst part is that the courts keep letting her get farther behind on her child support, when I did get her in court for the back support after 12yrs they forgave her of $24,800 out of the $38,000, it's will be 15yrs in Jan. Good Luck with your future plans 

Name: leooooo | Date: Jan 17th, 2006 6:34 AM
hellooooo people !!! 

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