Hi Joanne,
I am a granny as well, 14 month old grandson,whose parents split up as well. The main thing is that no one fights, or yells,or gets into any arguments in front of that precious little girl. At her age she can "feel " when the tension is in the air, so to keep her calm and happy and feeling that every one in her life is ok with each other, don't fight in front of her and don't try to "erase" any one either. Show her pictures of every one, Mom, Dad, the old boyfriend, and of course you. If she feels every one is accepting of one another, she will be just fine. This is what we do with my son's ex in-laws. We bite our tongue for that beautiful little boy every time!
Hope every thing works out !
Debbie ↑ |
Thanks Debbie, your advice makes alot of sense and I will definetly take. Have a good day ↑ |