| i think you are not wrong the feeling you having right now is normal but your not all right you should reallize that you kid will all way know that the girlfriend will never take you place because you will always be their mother no matter if you even have frights you should pu more truse in you childern and try not to get to angry because if you are you will make thing worse with you and you husand don't worry there nothing wrong ok ↑ |
| To tanya---What your husband does with his girlfriend is something you really shouldn't interfer with. Unless you discover that she abuses your children, you really can't control what he does with his girlfriend. You will always be the children's mother. Give them as much love as you can. Always let them know you are there for them. My ex was angry with me because my boyfriend became apart of my children's lives. I ended up getting married 3 years later and my ex is still trying to cause trouble. I've learned to except the fact that he can't get over the fact that I have moved on with my life. You don't want to show any jealousy. Your husband could be doing all of this just to get under your skin. Don't show him any signs of being upset by it. Just act like you are happy for him and that he's wanting to be apart of your children's lives. Also, if he sees the boys in your home, you do not have to allow his girlfriend in your home. You can simply tell him it's your home and your rules. You do not have to include her. The quality time is suppose to be between him and the boys, not the girlfriend. If and when he gets visitation and is able to go places with the boys or take them back to his house, then the girlfriend can spend time with them, too. Otherwise, only allow your husband to see the boys without the girlfriend unless the courts grant him regular visitation. I don't know if my information helped you but I hope things will get better for you. I wish you a smooth future. Keep us posted. ↑ |
