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Name: connie
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i have left my husband after 20 years and my son who is 14 has adjusted well, or so he seems. my heart tugs me back home, but my head knows this is whats best for my son . i have raised 2 other children that are grown and gone, i have grandchildren and im still lonely and still get confused. my son and i are very close . he said the other day he couldnt remember us being happy i know i have done the right thing but i just need a friend and some reasureance thanks
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Name: claire | Date: Nov 13th, 2005 7:05 PM
i beleive that you have done the right thing, i am only 25 myself and my relationship is at breaking point. its ripping the whole family apart, my kids are misrable and winess quite alot which isnt fair, i understand the saying dont let your head rule your heart and its true. you have decide to take that step and it probably was for the best, to me whats a month or so of crying when you are going to be happy with your children for the rest of your life. take care and be strong. 

Name: Justine | Date: Dec 1st, 2005 3:06 PM
Try to get your head and your heart to agree and hopefully, it will all make sense in the end :) Life is a real challenge sometimes. Keep listening to your son he sounds very strong and insightful. 

Name: Jessica | Date: Dec 2nd, 2005 2:07 PM
Everything will be OK! My parents just seperated a year ago and I understand that it was for the best, I'm sure your son will feel the same. 

Name: julie | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 2:13 PM
I want to commend you for sticking around for so long. You sound like an intelligent woman, I am sure you have know for some time that you were not happy, but you perservered for you families sake, you have raised your children darlin', so don't ever feel ashamed or confused that you left. Loneliness can be more dangerous in a relationship then it can alone. To me, I'd rather feel alone because I am then be aflicted by it because someone is not taking care of me the way I need, not necessarily want. I think a lot of women confuse the two and persue tangents that lead nowhere, however I feel like you have made a wise decision and have a great support system with your son, now it is time for you to re-establish your life and confidence and find out what it is that you want to do. You deserve to be happy on your terms in this life. 

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