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Name: verito
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Hello, it was terrible marriague, for 5 years , I'm 30 years old and he was 48 he just left me 4 days ago telling me that we will move together He told me he will come back for me at noon to pick me up, but same day in the morning he look wierd,and he said - - Im leaving you- you making me do this - so I knew he is not comming back, so I cry and cry, but still wait for him at noon afternoon, he never come back, the only one who come to the appt was the owner asking me to leave! - He called the police on me , saying that Im refusing to leave.
I put the rest things in my suitcase and told them im not refusing I was waiting for my husband that I knew he is not comming back,, so the police made me call him, I called and he said _ I LEFT YOU_
I told my friend a few weeks early my husband say that we will move together but he is acting wierd, so, I called my friend to confirm her and she come to pick me up, I left the appt, Im with her now, she left for business trip, and Im here alone, having not clue about the " LEGAL" part separation? divorce? whats next, we didnt have any properties together so financially I think we wont have any problem.
whats next? he was violent at some points in our marriague, i have fear for people, im not citizen of this country, whats next??? pain is there my chest hurts, i can't do small tasks, some part of me is happy and relief, its wierd, but still love him.
Please tellme waht to do next????everything is blury, specially when i read the laws, i dont understand some words, Im worry about him, is he ok????
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Name: tb4 | Date: Feb 5th, 2007 4:24 PM
Sorry your going through this but it sounds to me that you need to move on with your life without him. First, I would search out for a good attorney because your going to need the answers from them about the divorce proceedings. If you don't have anything financially togther, then my guess, this would be an easy divorce. Also, you would need to consult your attorney about your marriage/divorce and becoming a citizen of the country your living in. I don't really know how the law works in that department. However, that's something you really need to inquire about before you are able to try an establish yourself with a job and a place to live. That's really sweet that your friend is letting you stay with her. Maybe she can offer you some advice about what your next step is. Perhaps help to direct you in getting your citizenship. Working on getting your citizenship might be the first thing you need to do, then go from there. It sounds like hubby may already have filed divorce papers and chances are you will get served with them soon. If you can't afford an attorney, you need to contact the local court house in your area to get a public defender at no cost to you. Even if he was violent against you during your marriage, it will probably be very hard to prove. I'm sure you didn't go to the authorities when it happened? Unfortunately, he's left you high and dry. You need to contact someone about any rights you do have and what your next step is. It's not going to be easy but if you have to start finding out and do as much research as you can to help guide you. Consulting an attorney is the first thing you need to do. I do hope things get better for you but you have alot of work ahead of you trying to get it all straightened out. Good luck to you and hope things will work out for the best. Your hubby was a real jerk for doing what he did to you and you need to try and accept it. I'm sorry, I know this hurts but you now is the time to be able to stand up for yourself. 

Name: Lizzi | Date: Feb 5th, 2007 4:50 PM
Sounds like you need to move along and make a life for YOURSELF somewhere. 

Name: verito | Date: Feb 13th, 2007 7:19 PM
they say i have to wait a year for get divorce? i dont understand anythinggggggg please help! 

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