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Name: shamiela zaindeen
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My current husband doesnt want my ex husband nor his family to come to our house to fetch and drop my children (from 1st marriage) weekends. He thinks that I wanna entertain them when I obviously dont and he believes that I should have absolutely nothing to do with them. I keep the peace by not even speaking to them. Looks like jealously and insecuries overcoming him but no matter what I say to reassure him that I have to be civil with them for the sake of my children the harder it is for him to understand
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Name: Amanda | Date: Nov 12th, 2005 12:33 AM
Those are your kids and you husband should understand that. I can understand him not wanting you to have you ex at your house but it retarted if he doesnt want you speaking to him and you need to explian that to him 

Name: tb | Date: Nov 30th, 2005 1:57 PM
Your always gonna have a relationship with your childrens father. He needs to understand that. He needs to realize you divorced him and just because you divorced him doesn't mean you can't discuss issues with him or his family as far as the kids are concerned. The kids will be the only ones that suffer. 

Name: J | Date: Dec 1st, 2005 3:33 PM
Sometimes I wonder how my ex husband's new girlfriend can stand that I am still involved in his life. I wouldn't like it much myself. maybe remind your current husband how much harder it is for your ex and his family to see you in love with someone else. He is the winner in this situation and it's just as hard on them but they still care about you and the children so much that they are willing to endure the emotional challenge. 

Name: mkrusty | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 11:08 PM
it is important that your kids see all the parents getting along. your new husband is just gonna have to get use to the fact that you are going to be somewhat around your ex, example birthdays,graduation marriages 

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