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im on my 20 weeks now, and my boyfreind can not marry me yet cause his ex wife keep filing for a contested divorce, im so emotionally stress now about everything what im going through... i wanna make a decision to leave my boyfreind and be a single parent but i love him and i can see that he loves me too and really care for our coming baby... please anybody could give me a piece of advice and i appreciated it so much!! ↓
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| Name: Rebecca | Date: Oct 1st, 2005 6:43 AM |
| Leave him. There is probably something wrong with him anyways, which is why his first marriage didn't work, you just haven't discovered it. Do it for your baby if you can't do it for yourself. You will bring peace back into your life and your pregnancy. ↑ |
| Name: regina | Date: Oct 26th, 2005 2:08 PM |
| I think there's no need to leave him but rather get a grip on your emotions. If you see that he loves you, what's there to be stressed about? Esp if you're staying with him. If you're not, then start doing that and his ex wife can contest all she wants. Time is the solution. Just be patient. Its much better for the child to grow up in a complete family ↑ |
| Name: bianca | Date: Jan 5th, 2006 3:10 AM |
| you dont need to leave him if he is there for you.i understand how stessfull that other lady can be but there has to be another solution. talk to him ↑ |
| Name: tb | Date: Jan 5th, 2006 12:26 PM |
| Rebecca, all I want to say is just because his first marriage didn't work doesn't mean there's anything wrong with him. People get divorced it doesn't mean there bad people or that they should be labeled in anyway. Marriage sometimes just doesn't work out the way you want it to. Apparently he couldn't have been that bad of a husband if his wife is contesting the divorce. ↑ |
| Name: tb | Date: Jan 5th, 2006 12:28 PM |
| Jm, you need to do what your heart tells you and find out why she won't give him a divorce. If your happy with him and he treats you good then give it time eventually she will give him a divorce. Hang in there. ↑ |
| Name: jm | Date: Mar 9th, 2006 5:28 PM |
| hi guys! i just gave birth last jan 10 to a verry cute healthy baby girl 8lb! im still sad cause my boyfriend cant still marry me his ex wife still asking for more of his money and the divorce keep delaying...she is just becoming more and more mean and vindictive to my boyfrnd..but anyway my boyfriend gave his name to our baby so i dont really care anymore about gettin married to him.. my boyfriend is such a nice man too bad his ex wife is giving him hard time on thier divorce.. thank you guys for the advice!! God bless!! ↑ |
| Name: Nina | Date: Jul 19th, 2006 4:58 AM |
Hi there,
I know how you feel right now.The best for you is be strong for your baby. If he really loves you he'll find a way to be with both of you.Give him time. I was in similar situation like you do before. ↑ |
| Name: moshecathy | Date: Jul 20th, 2006 2:27 AM |
| Get ready for a bumpy ride. Sorry to disappoint you but this is just the start of your battles with ex wife. She's either really angry or still inlove thats why she keeps on contesting the divorce. It's never going to stop though. Your man needs to take a stand and tell her that he wants to get married with you (does he?) and she needs to leave you guys alone. ↑ |
| Name: pj754 | Date: Jul 20th, 2006 1:41 PM |
| I met my boyfriend/fiance before my divorce was final. Yes, my ex wouldn't give me my divorce right away either, it took me almost 2 years to get the divorce final. Although, I had 3 children involved by haggling over custody issues. However, you need to be patient. The divorce will go through, it just takes time. Even though, it stresses you out but don't let it. Obviously your boyfriend loves you and wants to raise the baby together. Hang in there. If your boyfriend has no children with his ex wife, once the divorce is final, she can be omitted out of his life. ↑ |
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