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Name: Jessica | Date: Oct 27th, 2005 9:07 PM
Hi my name is Jessica. I know you are scared but if you felt like you were mature enough to have sex then you should tell you parents yea it will be hard but you need to stop thinking of yourself because now even though that baby isnt here yet it needs medical attention as wells as you do. You need vitamins and med attention. What if there was something wrong you wouldn't know. So now is your time to grow up. This baby needs you. I hope you make wright decisions. Good luck! 

Name: beebopmama | Date: Oct 29th, 2005 4:38 AM
Sorry you are having a hard time. But you don't have to die over it.

Beleive it or not, it would be much worse to ignore it. Even if your parents get upset with you - they will still love you and help you through this. This is very serious and you need to tell them as soon as possible. No matter what they say because they may be upset should be an excuse to keep this a secret. A baby is quite a big secret to keep. Trust that god will guide you and give you strength to face the fear of telling your parents.

Good luck! 

Name: LACY | Date: Oct 31st, 2005 9:41 PM
Hey jessie i know how you feel about being pregnant at 13 im 16 and last year i got pregnant .I was so scared about telling my parents i didnt know what would happend but i knew i had too.When i told them my mother fell out in the floor screaming and crying and my father ran out of the house and drove off for about 3 days neither one of my parents talked to me i was so mad at myself for having sex at such a young age but then agian i realized i had made a mistake and counldnt take it back so i apolgized to my parents and the forgave me my mother took me to the doctor the next day for a check up and they said that i was 5months pregnant and was going to have a little baby girl i was happy to know it was a girl but wasnt happy about having it.Now im 16 and my baby is 8months old i named her Aubrey Nicole everyday i cant look foward to hanging out with my friends of my family because i have to go straight home to take care of Aubrey but all i can say is its really tough being a teen mother but we all make mistakes and you made the same 1 i did and if i can get through it then anyone can ... LACY! 

Name: ANGIE | Date: Nov 4th, 2005 7:30 AM
I HAD MY FIRST DAUGHTER AT14.ITS NOT THE END OF THE WORLD,TRUST ME.THE END OF THE WORLD WAS WHEN I GOT PREGNANT THE 2ND TIME @17! 

Name: ANGIE | Date: Nov 4th, 2005 7:38 AM
ONE MORE THING DEATH ISNT THE ANSWER OR A WAY OUT,IS IT? TELL YOUR PARENTS,NO MATTER HOW STRICT THEY ARE YOURE THEIR CHILD .WHILE WHAT YOUVE DONE MAY BE A SIN IN THEIR EYES SUICIDE WOULD BE UNFORGIVEABLE. TELL EM SWEETIE YOULL FELL 200 XS BETTER. 

Name: sim | Date: Nov 6th, 2005 11:46 AM
dont worry u now u no this is my msn addy add me [email protected] 


Name: brooke | Date: Nov 6th, 2005 9:29 PM
i was in your samae spot im still pregnant im 14 and i was very scared and did not know what to do but then i decided to tell my parents they were sooo sooo soooooo mad but were very gald i told them b4 i did anything drastic and it is a sin to have sex b4 marrige but it is also a sin to kill yourself and think wouldent you want to be alive and have a baby someone that u care about and someone that loves you and cares about you for life a bay is somthing every girl want but alot cant have a baby and remember if you do put this baby up for adoption it is the wrong choses cuz this baby deserves to know its mom and real family i know im going to keep my baby becuz it is mine and i already love her or him it will be hard but the best thisg in the world is knowing someone loves you and you brought another life into this world 

Name: Frances | Date: Nov 8th, 2005 12:47 AM
well u will have to tell them its thre right thing to do dont worry u will need alot of help when u are 13 and prgnant trust me i know 

Name: Lexxy | Date: Nov 8th, 2005 1:14 AM
Im scared to im 3 months pregnant and im only 15. I havent told my parents yet and im scared to, but u know its best just to set them down and talk to them, im going to, and im sure they will understand and help u, dont be scared even though i am im sure after i tell them i should be ok, casue everyone make mistakes once in a while, this was just the biggest on, just keep ur head up it will be ok. 

Name: lizzie | Date: Nov 8th, 2005 1:41 AM
i know how you feel i too just found out iam pregant and want to fly off a damn sky scraper its too soon for us sure maybe it will work out,but our lifes will never be thse same i beg u please dont kill yourself because thast would make me lose my faith too and it is not the answer. hang in there u have more support then u know. this is not the end of you and me time is running out for you if u decide to terminate . 

Name: Ashley | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 7:31 PM
Don't worrie your not alone I am also have the same problem. But I have friends I can trust bucause one of them is pregnet to. 

Name: ~ Jackie ~ | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 7:45 PM
Hi! .... If I can convey one message it would be that this is not the end of your world.
I am on the other side of the fence ..... My husband and I have tried to get pregnant for the past 2 1/2 yrs ... lots of fertility treatment and still no baby.
if I could make a suggestion - I would suggest that you chose life for your babies - cause without women like you - women like me would never have the opportunity to be a mommy.

Adoption is a wonderful thing - If you are unable to care for your baby - I would ask that you consider giving a family that is not able to get pregnant the gift of parenthood. There are alot of us out there :)

Whatever decision you make - Make sure it is the BEST decision for YOU ....... don't let anyone pressure you into making a decision that you are not comfortable with !!!
Good luck and God Bless!

~ Jackie ~
www.momdad2bee.com 

Name: Heather-baby2006 | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 8:06 PM
i met this other lady and she is trying to adopt a child and baby at that and her and her husband are willing to sell their house so they can adopt. but.....I dont know her name o # but i thought you would like to hear what people will do to have a child 

Name: ~ Jackie ~ | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 8:30 PM
I totally agree with baby2006 .....my husband and I just recently re-financed our home to be able to afford the adoption process. Couples that are not able to conceive - will do just about anything to adopt a baby and provide a loving home :)
Visit us at our website ..... www.momdad2bee.com

~ Jackie ~
www.momdad2bee.com 

Name: amy | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 6:02 PM
im pregnant and 13 to babe i had to tell my mum n dad because i have a bump im months lol they cucked me out you know lol 

Name: phebz | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 9:02 PM
r bless ya dnt say dat u wanna die it will b worth it wen its born 

Name: - | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 10:02 PM
Don't do anything crazy. I know the feeling, Im scared I might be pregnant. My parents are religious too. Death isnt the way out of it, think of it this way...you arent only killing yourself, you're killing the baby. Have a talk with the dad, and ask what he thinks...then you have to tell your parents. Its hard, but you can do it. 

Name: Amanda | Date: Nov 11th, 2005 8:31 PM
Tell them and apoligoze and they will be mad but when it gets here they will haddle it better
KEEP IN TUCH WITH ME
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Name: Marta | Date: Nov 14th, 2005 2:18 AM
I have one of the same problems, i too am 13 and i am afraid that i could be pregnat.. i was raped by my cousin and i am terrified that i could be pregant.. he basically made me give him a blowjob but he probally had sperm on his hand when he touched my vagina.. i took 4 pregnancy tests and all of them came back negative but i think i might of done them too early.. Am i pregnat or is this all in my head?? i really need some advice!!! 

Name: paula | Date: Nov 17th, 2005 10:18 PM
dying is not the only way out so dont bother ever think that if your dad an mum love you they will stand by you have you thought about an abortion? im 17 an 6 months pregnant please contact me id hate to think someone was going through so much pain they wanna die contact me by email my address is [email protected] 

Name: Brandy | Date: Nov 20th, 2005 7:02 AM
im 16 and im almost 8 months pregnant. im not as young as you but i am only a junior in high school. i had hopes for college and still do. my friends and parents and boyfriends parents pressured me towards abortion. but i love my baby to much un born or not. it is a part of you and always will be.just know that your baby is gonna love you no matter what forever. dont kill it. i hope you make the right desion. if you need ne one to talk to im me at princetongirl445 

Name: hillybillymissingatoof | Date: Nov 21st, 2005 12:54 PM
no hold on leave da poor girl alone she waz probly forced what im tryin to say u never kno maybe she waz u kno...raped ok soo try to put your self in here shoes 

Name: Jessiva | Date: Nov 22nd, 2005 5:22 PM
I've been in your place before i know what you guys are going through 

Name: katie | Date: Nov 25th, 2005 5:06 PM
have u tried thinkin of havin an abortion# 

Name: to katie | Date: Nov 25th, 2005 5:47 PM
abortion isnt always the answer..i'm sure she's thought about it. have u looked into what abortion is? or what happens to the unborn baby? it isnt pretty...maybe before you go suggestion such an ugly alternative why dont you do a little research as to what an abortion is. or maybe your just one of those who just thinks of it as a means of birth control. Check out some pro-life sites and face the hard truth.. then maybe you wont be so quick to suggest abortion. 

Name: dea | Date: Nov 27th, 2005 4:41 AM
hey its ok my family is very involved with the church too and my bf and i had sex about a week we have never used a condom but this was the first time he really didnt pull out so im in the same boat but really yes it is a sin but my family thinks it is more of a sin to sleep wit a black man and to have a mixed child would crush my family but i would love my child im not as far a long as u but i hope things will work out 4 u and go to a doctor if u havent 

Name: bob | Date: Nov 30th, 2005 7:17 AM
killing urself is stupid...if your parents are holy then theyll understand the mistake you made, forgive you and help you. have the baby get money from your boyfriend and get help from your parents and others. 

Name: KIMBURLI | Date: Dec 1st, 2005 4:16 PM
JESSIE I KNOW WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH,IM 23 AND I HAVE 3 LITTLE BOYS I WAS 14 WHEN I GOT PREGNANT AND WAS SCARED TO DEATH TO TELL MY MOM,BUT I FINALY DID.I WAS JUST 17 WHEN I GOT PREGNANT AGAIN.I JUST WANT TO LET YOU KNOW THAT ITS NOT A MISTAKE THAT YOU GOT PREGNANT,IT MUST BE FOR A REASON.MY ADVICE TO YOU IS TO FINISH SCHOOL,AND AFTER YOU HAVE THE BABY TAKE THE STEPS TO PREVENT IT FROM HAPPENING AGAIN.1 BABY IS ALOT EASIER TO DEAL WITH THAN 2.BEST OF LUCK! 

Name: Lauren | Date: Dec 2nd, 2005 10:36 AM
Jessie, Im 19 and have just found out im pregnant too, i know it's not much of a comfort but i know how your Feeling it's hard even at my age to comprehend how im gonna telll my parents, your mom and dad will understand even if it takes time, just sit them down 1nite and make sure they know how you feel. and wot you wanna do as your choice is very important as it is something that will change your life for better or worse. If you want to get in contacty with me e-mail me on [email protected] And remember I'm here for you anytime. Keep Your Chin Up Chick : ) xx 

Name: Nicky | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 7:26 AM
no offennse hun but you need to go to a doc. If you had sex in may 3 times-you would not be 3 1/2 months pregnant. you would be 7 1/2 -8 months pregnant depending when in may. not 3 1/2 there not logical way. I concieved around june 14th-i'm months in like 4 days! so you have had to have sex wayyyyyyy after that. I mean wwwwwwwwwwwaaayyy. That or you are really futher than you think-or you not pregnant. if you are-and you only had sex in may-you need to seriously-think about telling your parents-or find a hospital b/c you are gonna be due like feb 

Name: jessie | Date: Dec 4th, 2005 7:32 AM
as for aportion hun-you're a little too late-i think it would be illeagal by now. literaly-you are not 3 1/2 months your are futher than me-i'm 7. your like 8. girl-if you did have an abortion-i think you pastor father would even be more irrate. You have way too much good stuff ahead to think of that option now. you might be 13 but that doesn't mean you won't l be a rock star of a mother! you need to find a better doc if they told you 3 1/2 months- 

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