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Name: brandy | Date: Jan 1st, 2006 6:29 PM
Jessie, I think you should just relax and calm down. I am 20 yrs old and I have 2 kids. Ive been married once and now I have a new boyfriend and I might be pregnant again. so dont feel so scared you have alot of time to think this through what ever you do , do not get an abortion ok!!! You being pregnant now that makes you a woman and you have to make adult decisions. You need to tell your mother first because you need there support and if that dont work out for you then they have teen pregnancy support groups that will help you without your parents most of the time. Because if your parents tripp out on you then your going to need support. And threres even adoption if your not ready for a kid right now theres plenty of wemon out there who cant have children just think about it ok!!!!!good luck!!! I hope everything goes well for you!!!!! 

Name: some one | Date: Jan 3rd, 2006 2:14 AM
well u will have to tell them because that belly is goin to get big so they will find out its better u will feel better if u tell them and ur 13 ok any ways hpe u get through 

Name: Rachel | Date: Jan 3rd, 2006 7:25 AM
If your parents are involved in the church and are truly good Christians then they should also be understanding and forgiving... Maybe you should just tell them... Then discuss your options, being that your family is extremely Christian; I take it that you are Republican and abortion is not an option, but there are programs for open adoption where you can see your baby... There are closed adoption options... But there are some women who will help you. My aunt Rhonda couldn't have children, and she went through hell... Finally, she met a girl who was having a baby and she was going to adopt the child... It didn't end up working out because the girl decided to choose one of the other parents seeking children.... but you have to decide what you want to do for your baby... Then talk to your parents... With your decision.. 

Name: LEE | Date: Jan 5th, 2006 3:44 AM
I AM A CHRISTAN SINCE 8 YEARS OF AGE I AND I GOT PARALIZED FROM THE CHEST DOWN AND I LOST MY WIFE BUT THE LORD GAVE ME THREE KIDS I CAN CAN TELL THIS THE LORD HAS NEVER LEFT ME WHAT DONE IS DONE FACE YOUR PARENTS TELL THEM AND KEEP YOUR BABY YOU NEVER REGRET IT I KNOW YOUR SCARED BUT TELL THEM YOUR BROTHER IN CHRIST LEE 

Name: Jordan | Date: Jan 6th, 2006 3:54 PM
Hi Jessie,

I know how you must feel. I'm 19 and 26 weeks pregnant. It's a real blessing to me now, but believe me. When I found out in the beginning I just couldn't see any way out of it as i was a Youth leader and both my families are very involved in the church. My boyfriends brother-in-law is a Pastor and we are very close with them and I knew what they felt like about things like this. But believe me, it's the Will of the Lord for that baby to be born and it will happen... just leave it in His hands and you'll see what happens. 

Name: elizabeth | Date: Jan 6th, 2006 4:10 PM
You need to tell them. Everyone makes mistakes, whether they're small or big. But it's your responsibility to do the right thing with the mistake that was made. Tell your parents and take care of the baby. Go ahead and address the situation with your parents and move forward. Don't let fear keep you from doing what is best for you, your family, and your baby.
It's okay to be scared, but the only thing that will make this better is to be honest with your parents. 


Name: Kelly | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 2:45 AM
Nothing is worth wanting to die over, I can tell you that to start. You need to tell your parents. Of course they will be depressed and angry at first, you are their daughter. You'll be okay, trust me. I'm a little older than you, but still young. I am 16 and I am a few days past my due date expecting a girl any day now. I thought my family would flip and they did, but now everything is fine. Although your family may find it a sin, I'm sure they love you and you need to tell them because your going to need A LOT of help. Adoption is always a 2nd choice you know so think carefully. God bless you!! 

Name: katrinakile | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 9:08 PM
hi boys 

Name: LISA | Date: Jan 8th, 2006 1:15 AM
Jessie I know how you, feel but keep your head up .I got pregnant when I was 14,and it was so hard 4 me to tell my family because there are so perfect, well not my mom she didn't care at all she was always with her boyfriend and not care much of me,anyways one of cousin's found the pregnetcy test and told my family there where so mad at me but I made it and now I have a 4 year old boy and if I could turn back time I will do everything the same . sorry im telling. U my story U do what your heart tells u to don't think what other people will say,take care . 

Name: Shaunna | Date: Jan 8th, 2006 2:13 PM
You should have been on the pills, Like me 

Name: Random.. | Date: Jan 9th, 2006 7:34 AM
Jessie tell them if they love u they will help u threw it.. Dieing is not the ony way.. They would rather u talk to them. believe me ive been threw it myself.. and i was 12.. 

Name: sily | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 5:43 PM
have an abotion 

Name: to sily the moron | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 5:45 PM
Great Advice. Maybe you shouldnt suggest things you cant spell. Its an abortion and thats a great way out. What an idiot you are. 

Name: DUH | Date: Jan 11th, 2006 2:57 AM
You are SO rude Ani and Silly....Lay off....She is only 13. Get a life you loser. 

Name: Alexandria | Date: Jan 12th, 2006 1:54 AM
I'm 15 and pregnant and I kind of know what you're going through. When my mom found out, she flipped out. But after a while things did get better. I'm 27 weeks now, and she is really happy about my baby. I wish you luck and if you need someone to talk to, you can email me: [email protected] 

Name: holly | Date: Jan 12th, 2006 2:14 PM
dont worry im 13 years old and im 5 months pregnant and the dad dosnt even belive me so 

Name: rae | Date: Jan 13th, 2006 8:42 PM
Please go to a planned parenthood clinic or a womans clinic. I know that planned parenthood clinic has a teen day where you can go get free testing, counseling, birth control pills, condoms and more. Please go as soon as possible to talk to someone about options you have to help you deal with it 

Name: Melissa | Date: Jan 13th, 2006 8:52 PM
Jessie, all will be ok. Have you been to the doctor yet? You really should tell your parents, they may even suprise you by their response. I understand you're scared, but trust me when I say that there have been girls in your situation before and everything turned out fine. 

Name: mandi | Date: Jan 15th, 2006 2:11 AM
12 and pregnant 

Name: Jessica | Date: Jan 15th, 2006 5:24 PM
Im 19 and when i found out i was pregnant i was terrified to tell my parents. I didn't know what to do. Until i realize what can they do. Nothing. They will either love that baby to death or not. When my parents found out they were disapointed. but im almost 9 1/2 months now and my dad especially can't wait at all. He wants me to be induced so he can see his grandson. So i wouldnt frett to much.. 

Name: Slimberly | Date: Jan 17th, 2006 1:30 PM
well, this is a big thing, but i have a friend who is not much older then you, and she got pregant at the age of 14. Seh had her baaby and now she is 15 and her baby is 6 mons. THey ar eboth very happy. if you don't that a baby is for you, then maybe you shoul dtry to abort your baby. You and your family might think that it si a sin, but god will forgive you, because you and everyone else will be forgived for al of their sins. Im not sayin that you should do that, I am saying it because it mioght be something that you could really think about. At this time, the only thing that matters is, that you think about your self and yourself. do what you think is the best thing for you, an dremember that god will always be with you. He will always stay by yourside. 

Name: Kara | Date: Jan 17th, 2006 2:20 PM
First of all she doesnt need to just think of herself here. She went and had unprotected sex and got herself pregnant therefore there is another human being she needs to think about. I think alot of these young girls just think hey ,I can have unprotected sex because if I get pregnant then theres always abortion. Well, let me tell you, having an abortion is a nightmare. I know from experience. It stays with you for the rest of your life. I used to be pro-choice but after I went through the whole experience myself I am no longer. These people at the clinic do not care about you, they care about hurrying up to get you in and out so the next girl can get in. Its all about money. They dont tell you about the procedure either. It hurts horribly and when your done you sit in a cold room with no one there to comfort you. I regret my decision everyday and raising child is simple compared to the lifetime of wondering, hurting, and just having a feeling of loss forever. Just dont jump into an abortion girls, anyway you think about it, it is murder. I should know I live with it everyday for three years now. 

Name: shanice brown | Date: Jan 17th, 2006 9:44 PM
dont kill your self its not right tell your mom and dad soooooo what they should be able 2 tell them find the father and get it together im 12 with same problem i waz raped 

Name: TONYA | Date: Jan 18th, 2006 12:23 AM
WELL I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL NOW BECAUSE I WAS THERE TOO. AT 14 I BECAME PREGNANT WITH MY LITTEL BOY , HE IS NOW THREE. BECAUSE YOUR PARENTS ARE SO RELIGIOUSE THEN THAY WILL UNDERSTAND THAT YOU ARE GOING TO GIVE LIFE AND ITS ALREADY DONE , TOO LATE NOW. AND THEY WILL RESPECT THAT GODS WILL HAS BEEN DONE. MY LITTEL BOY SAVED ME FROM A LIFE OF DRUGS AND REBELION . THINK POSSITIVE , THIS IS A NEW BEGINNING FOR YOU NOT THE END . CHILDREN ARE BLESSINGS IF YOU LET THEM BE. I GRADUATED FROM HIGH SCHOOL AND AM NOW IN COLLEDGE AND WORKING . I HAVE ANOTHER BABY ON THE WAY AND GOT MARRIED TO THE LOVE OF MY LIFE 6 M. AGO . ALTHOUGH HE IS NOT MY SON FATHER HE LOVES US. JUST BECAUSE YOU HIT A BUMP IN THE ROAD WE CALL LIFE DOESNT MEAN BE A QUITTER , DONT WIMP OUT BECAUSE NOW ITS TWO NOT # 1. THERE ARE MANY COUPLES IN THIS WORLD THAT MAY NEVER CONCIEVE BUT HAVE HARTS BIG ENOUGH FOR 12 CHILDREN . IF ITS TOO HARD THEN GIVE YOUR CHILD A CHANCE . THERE ARE ORGANIZATIONS THAT WILL ALLOW YOU TO PICK THE PERFECT FAMILY FOR YOUR CHILD AND THEY WOULD THAK GOD FOR YOU EVERY DAY. YOU HAVE OPTIONS TELL YOUR FAMILY THEY WILL SUPPORT YOU THEN THINK OF YOUR NEW NUMBER ONES FUTURE. AND YOURS 

Name: kristen | Date: Jan 19th, 2006 7:59 PM
i know your going through a really rough time but the only way out is to tell your parents i will tell you why my cousin is 17 and she had sex and with one guy only and she didnt tell her parents or anything well she didnt think nothing about it so one day shes taking a bath this is like 8 months later she was having seizers because she didnt tell her mom and didnt get any care for the baby so would you rather them be mad for a little while or wind up dead because you didnt tell your parents and didnt get any care for your baby please,do something about it. love your sister in christ 

Name: becci | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 11:13 AM
you are too young to have a baby it will spoil your life. if you feel you cant tell your parents then tell someone you trust. i really think you need to think about what YOU want to do and think about a termination i know its a terrible way and i wouldnt want to be in that situation but its whats best for that counts. (HOPE THIS HELPS) 

Name: caz | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 11:16 AM
try and tell someone close in your family or even a friend but you really need to decide what you want in life, ethier to be stuck at home with a baby or to go out with friends. if you really dont want a baby at young age you should think of a way out ethier to abort it or give birth and put your baby up for adoption but i cant decide for you its your own choice stick in there girl! and stop worrying! GOOD LUCK! 

Name: To Becci | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 12:11 PM
You are really getting on my nerves by posting on all the posts telling these girls to terminate their pregnancies. You are only 15 and dont even know what life is about yet, but you still seem to know it all. Go play with your barbie's or something .unless you have some intelligent advice to share, then get lost. 

Name: nora | Date: Jan 25th, 2006 4:36 PM
hey becci i hate to burst your bubble but most clinics wont perform pregnancy terminations past the 12th week.. this girl is out of luck if she is pregnant.. and abortion is NEVER the answer.. jessie's best bet was to talk to her parents about it... besides by law she cant have an abortion done without her parents consent and she cant have one done if they are ILLEGAL IN HER STATE... .get a clue 

Name: claire | Date: Jan 27th, 2006 1:08 PM
i am a bit scared but all my friends want a baby so do i but they are so cute and i think i will be able to cope.i want a baby at 14 coz i am cumin up that age anyway and i want to be a early mum 

Name: Cassie | Date: Jan 27th, 2006 2:35 PM
Claire no offense but do you realize how dumb that sounds coming out of a 14 year old's mouth? You are not ready for a baby no matter what you think. I had my first baby at 21 and it was really hard then and I had alot of family support, and I was married. It was still hard. Finish school and wait til you are older to have a baby. Trust me you will be glad you did. Having a baby now will only deprive you of your childhood which you still alot of left. Please wait!!!!! 

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