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Name: Cassie | Date: Jan 27th, 2006 2:35 PM
Claire no offense but do you realize how dumb that sounds coming out of a 14 year old's mouth? You are not ready for a baby no matter what you think. I had my first baby at 21 and it was really hard then and I had alot of family support, and I was married. It was still hard. Finish school and wait til you are older to have a baby. Trust me you will be glad you did. Having a baby now will only deprive you of your childhood which you still alot of left. Please wait!!!!! 

Name: Ashley-Nicole | Date: Jan 27th, 2006 10:45 PM
Hey sweetie i got pregnant at 17 years old and i grew up w/ just my dad and was really really really afraid to tell him because he is old school back east italian new yorker, i told him he was very very upset but now he loves my daughter more than anything in the world. trust me honey once they hold that baby in there hands nothing will matter anymore dont be afraid because god has a reason for everything that he does, you will have feelings that bring you up and down but trust me everything will work out in the end 

Name: christina | Date: Jan 30th, 2006 7:48 PM
why should u not take birth control while you are pregnant 

Name: LiitleRED77 | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 8:21 AM
in may you said u had sex???
your 1st reply from jessica was september which wouldmake you ok roughly 3 to months,
let us know what happened jessie, its feb now 2006, you should have had your baby now!.............so girlsits too late for advice, her 9months are up!,
lets just pray that she made the right choice,
God bless you jessie, and hopefully theres other 13yr olds reading this who are planning on having sex, hopefully you think twice about it...
PLEEEEEEASE girls wait till you are inlove and older and wiser, and have full support and know that when you are about to lay down to have sex unprotected SEX, think???? Can i look after this baby after its born?, Am i ready for this?

you have plenty time to have sex and babies, but you are only a teenager with no responsabilatys once in your life!!!

im not having a go at any of you, what done is done, and we cant look back, God forgives all our sins, we just need to accept that Jesus is son of God and ask to be forgiven, stick by the rules, read his word(bible) and all will be fine.

God bless all. 

Name: littleRED77 | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 8:25 AM
you say you havent had a period since april????? but you had sex 3 times in may,
so u were pregnate before you had SEX??? april comes before may....... am i right..
girl get your dates right, and if your parents are involved in church, and your lieing, than thats even worse than making a mistake on falling pregnate,

girls i think this jessie is playing us something silly,
anyway jessie, good luck with your grammy award, acting classes is the way to go for you! 

Name: natalie | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 5:29 PM
hi jessie, im 14 and have been pregnant twice, you should tell your mum and dad yer they may not b happy at first bt im sure they will understand, did u not use protection? next time make sure you do i have loads of friends with babies and with sti's, hope etherything goes alrite natalie xxxx 

Name: stephinie | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 5:35 PM
hi, jessie i think you should tell your mum and dad about it because their going to find out later anyway yeah they might not be happy but think about what they'll say wen they find out trust me im 14 and been pregnant 4 times and when my mum found out id had sex she went mad but she understood that im getting older and obviously trying things like this ou. next time use protection thats my advice good luck and make sure you tell them or youll be worse of if they find out from someone else stephinie xxxxxxx 

Name: Christine | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 7:31 PM
If your parents are people of God they should not judge your act. I am sure as parents they will be upset. Honey, do not kill yourself. I know it seems scary but it wil be ok. I promise. Being a mom is hard - but it is the best job in the world. Pray and ask God for guidence. If you need to talk you can email me at [email protected]. Dont feel weird. God Bless you. 

Name: Emily ramirez | Date: Feb 1st, 2006 10:31 PM
hey dont worry i am 12 and i am pregnet i wasnt raped i just had sex with my boy freind after we started making out and 1 thang led to an other so now i am 9 weeks in it is a boy 

Name: Angela2 | Date: Feb 1st, 2006 10:45 PM
I didnt think you could tell if it was a boy or girl at 9 weeks 

Name: What a joke | Date: Feb 1st, 2006 10:48 PM
Theres no way you can tell the baby is a boy at 9 weeks. No way! 

Name: Hello!!!!???? | Date: Feb 1st, 2006 11:29 PM
That is the most rediculas thing I have ever freakin heard of. Somebody is definately lying. There is no way on earth you'd know what you were having at 9 weeks into the pregnancy. And that's why 12 year olds should'nt be having sex. I'd like to know where the hell are the parents!!!!!!!!! 

Name: kaymi | Date: Feb 2nd, 2006 7:36 PM
im 13 and i dont have money and if my mother finds out that im not a virgin she would kill me also on top of that i dont know whether to keep the baby or justn do abortion 

Name: Angela2 | Date: Feb 2nd, 2006 7:54 PM
You know Kaymi, you say your mother will kill u but I really don think she will go to that extent. U need her help right now!! U need to tell her. Yea she will be mad. But she loves u and she will help u through this. I dont think abortion is the right option. I dont like thinking of that. I think adoption would be a better choice. Seriously!!! You need to tell ur mom!! 

Name: Always A Friend | Date: Feb 2nd, 2006 9:15 PM
Hey Jesse, My name is Mikayla Mcleod iam 13 and pregnant. im 5 months now and im due on may 26. it was really hard for me to tell my parents....but i told my best friend who helped me trough most of this. Then i told a counsler at my school who helped me out alot more. I live with my grandma. i havent even told her yet. she is a busy women so she never has time for me. so i talked to my auntie. which that is who i live with right now. my grandma still doesnt know. juss like everyone says....this is all part of Gods plan for u he wanted to get pregnant! so juss believe in urself..u will feel much better once u tell an adult. tell someone u trust! but juss promise me u wont go KILL ur self....alwayz a friend....Mikayla MCleod 

Name: mama des prego | Date: Feb 3rd, 2006 2:58 AM
have you been to your doctor, because that would be a great first step and talk to your doctor about options 

Name: Irene | Date: Feb 4th, 2006 5:26 PM
To Emily,
hun who told you its a boy, at 9 weeks they cant tell, the sex organs havent even developed yet?

are you pulling our legs, i dnt know if i can believe you sorry, but if Dr gave u an ultrasound at 9weeks and told you the sex of the baby then maybe this Dr is an idiot, cause he has no idea what he saw, at 9 weeks your baby is no bigger than 2.5 centremetres so how big would his penis be you think, did u see the babies penis and is just assuming you saw a penis or this Dr actully told you? 

Name: Karen | Date: Feb 4th, 2006 5:36 PM
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Name: STACY RILLSTONE | Date: Feb 6th, 2006 11:16 AM

Name: Jennifer | Date: Feb 7th, 2006 6:02 AM
You need to go to a planned pregnancy place where they can help you make the best decisions. Look in the yellow pages and call one of those places and they should be able to help. Since you are only 13 years old, you need an adult to help you. 

Name: **** | Date: Feb 9th, 2006 11:26 PM
God allows things to happen both good and bad. He does not make them happen to you. It was your choice to have sex and pregnancy was the consequence. God allowed it to happen for a reason. He did not prevent it because that would be interfering with your free will. He does not want you to be pregnant at 13 but since your free will got you there, He will help you get through this difficult time. God bless. 

Name: Jennie | Date: Feb 10th, 2006 3:17 PM
Well as rough as this may sound, you should have thought about that before having sex!!! and if you felt that you needed to have sex I am sure your mother would have GLADLY brought you to the clinic to be put on some sort of birth control!! I hope her and your father's heart doesn't hurt too bad!!!
I will keep you and your baby in my prayers! 

Name: Tonesha | Date: Feb 20th, 2006 5:22 PM
well honey I am in the same position I go to church and one day it just happend what's the worst that can happen to me my grandma got pregnant at 14 and my mother got pregnant at 13 and her moma at 13 to so hey they can't yell at me 

Name: erin | Date: Mar 27th, 2006 2:24 PM
im 23 years old and pregnet with twins 

Name: jenn | Date: Apr 8th, 2006 5:46 PM
i think u r way to young to be having sex in the first place im going to be real with you your a baby urself i think we both know if you had this baby your parents probably would be taken care of it anyways you need to think hard about your life and where you want to be because with a baby at 13 you will not get too far bacause you will be responsible for a baby before yourself...sorry had to speak the truth 

Name: Brodie Rafferty | Date: Apr 9th, 2006 7:59 AM
Sweetheart, I could never tell you how sorry i am, your poor mother, i suppose she would've been horrified. not to worry, you'll someday learn. 

Name: Brodie Rafferty | Date: Apr 9th, 2006 8:05 AM
just another note, there was a girl in my home town who was pregnant @ 11. so you could just imagine how scary it would've been for her mum & dad. 

Name: shalena | Date: Apr 21st, 2006 9:33 PM
Hey ! i wanna start by saying .... Keep faith in God, becaues that is what He wants, and dont be scared. Then I wanna say that my mom was 13 when she had me, and im 20 years old now,So it does happen! i also what you to know that your baby needs care while you are pregnant,so if you hv"nt found help you need to soon. If your parents still dont Knoww they will find out when you begin to start showing,so brack the news. if they are any kind of good parents and church pepole then they will understand and still have love for you. dont get me wrong they will be disapointed. 

Name: just a stranger | Date: Apr 30th, 2006 12:37 AM
U have to tell them. Otherwise ull have it and it'll be even worse. If u tell them, they'll help. 

Name: danielle | Date: May 18th, 2006 10:52 PM
wow, you got yourself in a really bad spot. The best advice that i can give you is to tell your parents what happened and im sure that they'll understand and help you the best that they can. 

Name: H. | Date: May 19th, 2006 1:07 AM
What did you do? It's now may,18th2006 so you must be a mother now? Or did you put the baby up for adoption? 

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