MY BOYFRIEND DOENS'T WANT TO BE 2GETHER, THE ONLY HELP I'LL GET FROM MY FAMILY IS 2 GET AN ABORTION. MY JOB SUCKS , I'M 13 WEEKS NOW AND I'VE NEVER BEEN MORE MISERABLE IN MY LIFE. MY MAIN CONCERN NOW IS MY DAUGHTER, AND PROTECTING HER BECAUSE LIFE ALREADY IS HARD WITH OUT COMING HOME TO DRAMA. I FEEL LIKE IF WE CANT RAISE HER TOGETHER THAN WE SHOULDN'T AT ALL. I JUST WANT WHAT BEST FOR MY BABY AND SEEING HER DAD AND I FIGHTING ALL THE TIME CANTBE GOOD FOR HER NOW AND LATER. i HAVE TOGET OUT OF HERE ! PLEASE LADIES GIVE ME SOME ADVICE. ↓
|Name: veronim | Date: Jun 17th, 2007 11:56 PM
|so do you have 1 daughter and are pregnant with another child? ↑
|Name: babyddavis | Date: Jun 18th, 2007 12:36 AM
|This is my first baby thats why i'm so freaked out ↑
|Name: 04nidak | Date: Jun 18th, 2007 12:38 AM
|There are a lot of single parents in the world, it's tough doing it alone, but it's possible! You don't have to let your baby see you and the father fighting because you don't have to be with the dad. Adoption is also something you can consider if you don't want to keep the baby, but definitely think it over before you make any decisions. ↑
|Name: NIKKIS | Date: Jun 18th, 2007 12:40 AM
|how old are you?
im 20 and a single parent, and it is hard. ↑
|Name: veronim | Date: Jun 18th, 2007 12:58 AM
|how do you know it is a little irl if you are only 13 weeks? ↑
|Name: lil_dancer77 | Date: Jun 18th, 2007 1:04 AM
|hey i am 21 and a single parent, it is hard im not going to lie to you, but i thnk Nikkis would agree with me that when you see your baby nothing else matters.
I have nothing to do with babies father, he made threats against my family and i and i dont even know where he is now he has changed all his numbers etc and its his loss.
Look for support elsewhere if your family wont support you. But dont be negative becasue that energy goes to the baby. Try and stay postive if you can. Its hard being pregnant and alone but its an amazing thing what your body is doing, you have alittle person growing inside you that is going to come out and be perfect.
Think about the good that can come from this, dont be afraid to go through with it..you wont regret it ↑
|Name: dmt | Date: Jun 18th, 2007 1:28 AM
|how do you know you are having a girl? ↑
|Name: babyddavis | Date: Jun 18th, 2007 4:51 PM
|Thank all of you for your advice I'm 22 I'm an only child and for the last five years myboyfriend s family has been my family. I don't have many friend I pretty much keep to myself. I really think my baby a girl just by woman intution I guess, but if it turns out to be a boy I will feel just as blessed. It's not like he doesn't want to have anything to do with the child , he just want to play house when it convient for him. An I can't let him run in and out of either one of our lives. ↑
|Name: NIKKIS | Date: Jun 18th, 2007 10:27 PM
|nikki, i agree with you, but at the same time i am pro choice and believe all options should be way. not everyone can hack it as a single mother. ↑
|Name: NIKKIS | Date: Jun 18th, 2007 10:28 PM
|also you dont need a man lol its all conflicting thoughts but you just have to make the best choice ↑
|Name: Coartney | Date: Jun 18th, 2007 10:46 PM
|Name: Randi | Date: Jun 18th, 2007 10:53 PM
|dmt, whether she is having a girl or not, she will not give it to you. go bug somebody else. ↑
|Name: Coartney | Date: Jun 19th, 2007 4:52 AM
|Name: babyddavis | Date: Jun 19th, 2007 11:24 PM
|I'm prepared to do this on my own,. I still love him though and don't want to take his child away just because of our issues.
I'm definately going to have my baby reguardless if he's going to be involve or not. ↑