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Hi I am just wondering when the best time to take a prego test??? I think I may be...I am supposed to be starting my period around the 25-30 of this month...but last thursday I bled a little...NOTHING like a period though. HELP....could i be prego? ↓
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| Name: aiden | Date: Oct 20th, 2008 8:38 PM |
| thats what happened with me the last two times i found out i was preggo. just a little spotting about 8-10 days before my period. my second preggo test was positive about a week before my period. well good luck and i hope you get the results you want. ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 20th, 2008 9:00 PM |
| yeah I have taken a few pregnancy test..but all negative...because it was tooo early i believe...but i just HATE waiting! ↑ |
| Name: aiden | Date: Oct 20th, 2008 9:11 PM |
| yeah me too.lol we have lost one already and we are trying to get pregnant again. i think i have taken a test everyday since i was due to ovulate. i know it is too early i am just so impatient.lol ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 2:02 PM |
When i take a test, i normally wait till the day my period was due, just so i don't waste time and money on tests, LOL they can get expensive LOL
What branch are you in?? My husband is in the Army, and is on his 3rd tour, and second deployment to Afghanistan! ↑ |
| Name: army_wife | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 3:32 PM |
| I'm also 19, just got married to an army man about 5 months ago. We're trying to get pregnant so that the baby can be in the oven while he's gone to his third deployment to Afghanistan. He is SO eager to have a child, he's been very disappointed that its been five months already with no results. Could be pregnant, now, just don't know for sure. ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 3:40 PM |
| We are in the Air Force...he is getting ready to deploy to Bulahd...Really scary...is I am prego then he would barley make it back to see the baby being born...we will see though...It is going to be hard with him leaving though. Really hard espeacially if i am Pregnant. And the people that I work with suck as well so...ugh ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 8:12 PM |
| I just went to take a blood test!!! find out in two hours what the rusults are :/ ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 21st, 2008 9:51 PM |
| its a negative....really sad. but i guess just wait and see if i miss my period. blah...day is ruined ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 1:05 AM |
| Hey ladies, first off, wait to have kids if you can, 19 is young that's how old i was, And being Pregnant while he is deployed is HORRIBLE!!!!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 2:09 PM |
| Well we are not waiting..sorry we are both ready to have kids...maybe you werent? ↑ |
| Name: DRB | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 2:39 PM |
| so i can say that i am in the Marine corps and my ex-husband is also...yes relationships in the military are "sped" up and all and most relationships end fast also...i was married for a year and 1/2 when i left him. You think your ready for a baby but you have no idea the stress that children put on a marriage especially in the military. your not even married yet. i can give you advice that i wish i had taken and that would be wait til your married for a year or 2 to have a child. It will be better for your marriage better for your baby. if i had waited then my life would have been better and easier. i know many many couples aho are no longer together because they rushed into marriage and into having children and now they are divorced and fighting for custody and child support and what not. i am not trying to talk down to you at all but i am 21 with 2 kids and going through a nasty divorce because my ex doesnt want to live up to the responsibilities he has towards his children. Just wait..it is the most intelligent thing you will ever do ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 2:49 PM |
live.laugh0408 goodluck on getting preggo! Have fun humping!
I'm not going to judge based on your age if you are too young to have a child now or not, not my call.
Since I'm not going to judge I will give my opinion though lol.
Here is it: since you are dead set are getting preggo why not wait unti he gets back so he can experience the growth of your belly with you? Feel the kicks, rub your back, your feet, visit the hospital, go baby shopping with you.
Being in the military and having a baby is all about timing if your S/O is likely to deploy. ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 2:55 PM |
Another option is keep trying right until the day he leaves, the earlier you are in your pregnancy when he's the deployed chances are better that he *maybe* can make it in enough time for the birth (If his deployment is 6-7 months. I going by Marine Corps "regualr" deployments. Though I know some MC families whos done One year deployment)
OR depending on the length of the deployment the baby can still be really young and he can still get a taste of newborn baby. ↑ |
| Name: Opheiliamath | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 2:58 PM |
| Another option is just to wait. Since you both are still young being infertile won't be an issue (Hopefully, i'm betting more than anything i shoudln't be). Get married, get through this deployment, live together, be husband and wife awhile, think about having a baby, vacation together, think about having a baby again...THINK SOMEMORE about having a baby. ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 22nd, 2008 8:27 PM |
| Maybe you all are right......We need to talk about this....I know we are in love though and we do want to get married...so ↑ |
| Name: live.laugh0408 | Date: Oct 23rd, 2008 3:58 PM |
| your right. I am young....We want to get married the right way...engagement, wedding...and the whole deal....I love kids and would be a great mother, Henry sees that and cant wait to see me care for his child. But I suppose we can wait a year or two..Thanks! ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Oct 23rd, 2008 9:35 PM |
| No problem, Just looking out, I hate to hear younger couples not working out! ↑ |
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