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Name: heather

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hello im 18 yrs old and i already have 2 childreen 1 3 yr old and i 2 in january and im pregante with my 3rd child with the other 2 i had to have cercian section my familt tells me i shouldnt have this child what do you think i should do??? please help ↓

Name: EMILY | Date: Jul 16th, 2005 8:54 PM

hi there.Im 19 and pregnant with my 1st child and am terrified so i can only imagine how you must be feeling.I think you should decide this considering whether you have support and will be able to cope. I cant see why you shouldnt have this child if you can provide the home,love and care a baby needs.Hope all goes ok for you.Good luck and best wishes. ↑

Name: heather | Date: Jul 17th, 2005 5:53 PM

I can provide for this child i just dont know if i am ready to take on another life its hard enough with the two childreen i already have they are a handful and i am a sahm i live in this house 7 days a week i hate looking at the same things i dont know how far along i am at the moment wont find out until monday. thank you for your advice i hope that everything goes good for you as well ↑

Name: krystal | Date: Jul 17th, 2005 8:20 PM

what's a crecian section? Why'd you have to have it?? Did it hurt?? ↑

Name: maxamissy | Date: Jul 17th, 2005 8:53 PM

do what you want your the one who has the life altering decision that you have to deal with for the rest of your life but would you be ok can you cope??? if so then hell yeah be strong they will help no matter what you choose but be grateful and thankful to them and they will find it rewarding and will help more often ↑

Name: heather | Date: Jul 18th, 2005 8:23 PM

well krystal a cercian section is where they have to cut the baby out its just like surgery yes it does hurt and i had to have it because i didnt dialate the full 9 cenimeters and i could not push her out i would like to thank all of you for your support and advise i went and found out that i am 8 weeks dont know what it is yet thank you all ↑

Name: Kasey | Date: Jul 19th, 2005 12:04 AM

Please consider all of your options, including adoption. We have very close friends who have dealt with infertility and have been waiting for an adoption placement for almost 2 years. There are agencies out there that can help you financially to do it. It is one of the most selfless things that you can do for the baby! ↑

Name: Katie | Date: Jul 21st, 2005 1:53 PM

I totally agree with Kasey on looking into other options. I have three very close friends that can't have children. One of them is looking into adoption, the other couple has been trying for 8 years and will probably look into adoption soon. One of them is actually my sister in law and when she found out I was pregnant she broke down crying, it was really hard on her. Those of us that are able to have children don't realize how lucky we are. Whatever your decision I am sure it will be the right one, just look at your options and don't end the pregnancy. ↑