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Name: Kayla
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I have been bulimic for about 2 yrs. and my friends stop talking to me because of it. They really don't understand and my family don't neither! They just pick on me and tell me I'm fat and I believe them too! when I binge and purge I feel so much better about myself. I know that's not good. I really want to stop but it's so hard it controlling my life. I don't know what to do. my parent don't understand. I need help does anyone have any answer that would help me please E-mail at: [email protected]
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Name: S.H.M.I.L.Y | Date: Dec 26th, 2005 5:50 PM
I UNDERSTAND YOU AND I WILL BE E-MAILING YOU AND I'LL BE YOUR FRIEND!!!!! 

Name: nikki | Date: Dec 27th, 2005 5:27 PM
i know what ure going through i am anorexia but its not like serious asother peoples im getting so much better but if u need some advice or a chat email me or add me [email protected] 

Name: scooter | Date: Dec 28th, 2005 3:58 PM
I dont know you but I want you to be happy and ok and I will e-mail you do you have an msn addy so we can chat 

Name: jessie | Date: Dec 29th, 2005 2:23 AM
omg ive had bulimia 4 two years as well its hard bt i mean the results are gud i mean i was soo skinny and everyone used 2 ssay how skinny i was and wen they got angry its only bkus thur jelous!! ill help u hun!! 

Name: Sumit | Date: Jan 14th, 2006 7:38 AM
Hello Kayla
Don't feel alone if u like to join ur hands with me u r most welcome. my mail id is [email protected] 

Name: Francine | Date: Jan 16th, 2006 11:47 PM
I know how you fell Kayla, I am anorexic and I feel the same way you do. My family always calls me chubby and fat and I believe them too. Even though I weigh 98 pounds I feel fat. I don't want to gain but people tell me I have to but they don't understand. I need a friend right now too.My friends don't understand either. my E-mail is: [email protected]. I'll send you one. I'll be your friend 


Name: ? | Date: Jan 17th, 2006 12:06 AM
i competely understand 

Name: kelly r | Date: Jan 18th, 2006 3:17 AM
I will be your Friend!!!!! i will e-mail u too k! 

Name: estefania | Date: Jan 19th, 2006 12:02 AM
im fat litteraly and i cant stop eating what do i do 

Name: ????????????????????? | Date: Jan 21st, 2006 4:54 AM
u kno! 

Name: hmmm | Date: Feb 1st, 2006 3:40 AM
well i will e-mail u k! 

Name: rachyy | Date: Feb 16th, 2006 11:48 PM
heyy i need a friendddd !!!!!!!!!!!!
i have a little tubby belly

school for mee i dont liek have alot of friendd andd imm nto fatt and im kinda skinny butt I EATT AND I DOTN THROWW UIPP ANYTHINGGGG

imm 54 and imm 105 imm 15yearss on and im a sophomoree butt i rele have no friendn soo if u would liek to b my firned pleasee

sn me at summerbabii111
or email me at [email protected] 

Name: B/h | Date: Feb 23rd, 2006 2:05 PM
hey i need afriend 

Name: Jaida | Date: Feb 26th, 2006 11:22 AM
Dont worry about being fat. focus on what you like about yourself. i am 18, 5 foot nothing, still in childrens sizes, and i have 30AA boobs. people in my school laugh at me all the time. i used to be a model, but then i got dropped because my agaency rep told me to my face that i was an ugly freak. Just set your mind on something, one tiny thing every day. 

Name: tori | Date: Feb 26th, 2006 7:28 PM
look ive was anorixc from the age of 9 now im 49 and only just got over it i got sexaul abused from the age of 3 till i was 15 thays y i became anorixc i will lissen of talk add me [email protected] kk i will help best i can hope u get better...
any way i bet u are a beaufef young girl with ur whole life ahead of u plz dont end up like me no man would have me coz i was so skiny u could see every bone in my body

add me i will try 2 help
with all the hope and love i can give x 

Name: hmmmmmmmm!!!!!!!!!!!!!! | Date: Mar 21st, 2006 10:02 PM
i kno how u feel! 

Name: robert | Date: Mar 22nd, 2006 9:16 PM
who caresabout them 

Name: Elisha | Date: Mar 23rd, 2006 9:26 AM
I DONT KNOW HOW YOU FEEL BUT I COULD IMAGINE IT YOU CAN TALK 2 ME ABOUT ANYTHING I AM A GOOD FRIEND BUT Kayla you need help i mean proffesional help and my email [email protected] 

Name: plez | Date: Mar 23rd, 2006 10:12 PM
please get some help! don't worry about what other people say! i don't know u but i feel like u are a beautiful person! don't let anyone put u down i know that seems hard but have faith in yourself! and take it day by day u only have one life to live! try to keep strong i know that sound really hard i believe u i know you can do! don't give up sweet k! and i also will be e-mail you to see how you doing! 

Name: no one | Date: Mar 23rd, 2006 10:58 PM
Thank you for your support every1 

Name: Ali | Date: Mar 25th, 2006 9:42 AM
hey. i used to be deep into anorexia and cutting, and i used to purge a little, and I have stopped for six months and i know how you feel. If you ever need reassurance, or wanna talk, i am there.
AOL: [email protected]
MSN: [email protected]
ICQ: 317-416-891

Sincerely,

Alicia (Ali) 

Name: zack | Date: Mar 28th, 2006 7:29 PM
need a gash 

Name: I'll be your friend!!!! | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 11:29 PM
Hi! I am anerexic. [well, not yet, but i want to be.] can u talk to me? i have no e-mail address, but we can talk on here. THANKS!! 

Name: EAT Or Die | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 11:38 PM
Anorxia
What causes it?
Anorexia is more than just a problem with food. It's a way of using food or starving oneself to feel more in control of her life and to ease tension, anger, and anxiety. While there is no single known cause of anorexia, several things may contribute to the development of the disorder:

Biology. Several biological factors, including genetics and other related hormones, may contribute in the onset the disorder.
Culture. Some cultures in the U.S. have an ideal of extreme thinness. Women may define themselves on how beautiful they are.
Personal feelings. Someone with anorexia may feel badly about herself, feel helpless, and hate the way she looks. She has unrealistic expectations of herself and strives for perfection. She feels worthless, despite achievements and perceives a social pressure to be thin.
Stressful events or life changes. Things like starting a new school or job or being teased to traumatic events like rape can lead to the onset of anorexia.
Families. People with a mother or sister with anorexia are more likely to develop the disorder. Parents who think appearance is very important, diet themselves, and criticize their children's bodies are more likely to have a child with anorexia.

What are signs of anorexia?
A person with anorexia will have many of these signs:

Looks a lot thinner
Uses extreme measures to lose weight
makes herself throw up
takes pills to urinate or have a bowel movement (BM)
takes diet pills
doesn’t eat or follows a strict diet
exercises a lot
weighs food and counts calories
moves food around the plate; doesn't eat it
Has a distorted body image
thinks she's fat when she's too thin
wears baggy clothes to hide appearance
fears gaining weight
weighs herself many times a day
Acts differently
talks about weight and food all the time
won't eat in front of others
acts moody or depressed
doesn't socialize

What happens to your body with anorexia?
The body doesn't get the energy from foods that it needs, so it slows down. Look at the picture to find out how anorexia affects your health.



Click here for a text version of the information in this diagram

Can someone with anorexia get better?
Yes. People with this disorder can get better. The treatment depends on what the person needs. The person must get back to a healthy weight. Many times, eating disorders happen with other problems, like depression and anxiety problems. These problems are treated along with the anorexia and may involve medicines that help reduce feelings of depression and anxiety.

With outpatient care, the patient goes to the hospital during the day for treatment, but lives at home. Sometimes, the patient goes to a hospital and stays there for treatment. Different types of health care providers, like doctors, nutritionists, and therapists, will help the patient get better. These providers will help the patient regain the weight, improve physical health and nutrition, learn healthy eating patterns, and cope with thoughts and feelings related to the disorder. After leaving the hospital, the patient continues to get help from her providers. Individual counseling can also help someone with anorexia. Counseling may involve the whole family too, especially if the patient is young. Support groups may also be a part of treatment. Support groups help patients and families talk about their experiences and help each other get better.

Can women who had anorexia in the past still get pregnant?
It depends. Women who have fully recovered from anorexia have a better chance of getting pregnant. While a woman has active anorexia, she does not get her usual period and doesn't normally ovulate, so it would be harder to get pregnant. However, she may get pregnant as she regains weight because her reproductive system is getting back to normal. After they gain back some weight, some women may skip or miss their periods, which can cause problems getting pregnant. If this happens, a woman should see her doctor.

Can anorexia hurt a baby when the mother is pregnant?
If a woman with active anorexia gets pregnant, the baby and mother can be affected. The baby is more likely to be born at a low weight and born early. The mother is more likely to have a miscarriage, deliver by C-section, and have depression after the baby is born.

What should I do if I think someone I know has anorexia?
If you know someone like Jen, you can help. Follow these steps from the National Eating Disorders Association:

Set a time to talk. Set aside a time to privately talk about your concerns with your friend. Be open and honest. Make sure you talk in a place away from distractions.
Tell your friend about your concerns. Tell your friend about specific times when you were worried about her eating or exercise behaviors. Explain that you think these things may show a problem that needs professional help.
Ask your friend talk about these concerns. She could talk to a counselor or doctor who knows about eating issues. If you feel comfortable, offer to help your friend make an appointment or go with her to her appointment.
Avoid conflicts or a battle of the wills with your friend. If your friend doesn’t admit to a problem, repeat your feelings and the reasons for them. Be a supportive listener.
Don’t place shame, blame, or guilt on your friend. Do not use accusatory “you” statements like, “You just need to eat.” Or, “You are acting irresponsibly.” Instead, use “I” statements like, “I’m concerned about you because you refuse to eat breakfast or lunch.” Or, “It makes me afraid to hear you vomiting.”
Avoid giving simple solutions. Don’t say, "If you'd just stop, then everything would be fine!"
Express your continued support. Remind your friend that you care and want her to be healthy and happy.
For more information...
You can find out more about anorexia from the National Women's Health Information Center (NWHIC) at (800) 994-WOMAN (9662) or from these organizations:

National Institute of Mental Health (NIMH), NIH, HHS
Phone: (866) 615-NIMH (6464)
Internet Address: http://www.nimh.nih.gov

Weight-control Information Network (WIN), NIDDK, NIH, HHS
Phone: (877) 946-4627
Internet Address: http://www.niddk.nih.gov/health/nutrit/win.htm

Academy for Eating Disorders (AED)
Phone: (703) 556-9222
Internet Address: http://www.aedweb.org

Harvard Eating Disorders Center (HEDC)
Phone: (617) 236-7766
Internet Address: http://www.hedc.org

National Association of Anorexia Nervosa and Associated Disorders (ANAD)
Phone: (847) 831-3438
Internet Address: http://www.anad.org

National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA)
Phone: (800) 931-2237
Internet Address: http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org

This FAQ was reviewed by Barbara E. Wolfe, PhD, RN, CS, FAAN, Assistant Professor of Psychiatry, Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center and Harvard Medical School. 

Name: Eat Healthy | Date: Apr 19th, 2006 11:40 PM
Try Tia bo by Billy Blanks 800 cal 1 hour & Eat heathy & the weight will fall off. 

Name: crystal | Date: Apr 27th, 2006 2:19 AM
i know what you are going through, and iam also looking for someone to talk to that will hopefully understand me...email me at [email protected] or AIM at cdk0420...hope to talk to you and maybe we can help and understand each other... 

Name: Ishika | Date: Apr 27th, 2006 4:04 AM
I need a frnd 

Name: rossly | Date: Apr 27th, 2006 6:34 PM
kayla i know what u are going through is hard to stop to purge.when oready u started! my storry is a little like yours or even worst but dont get sad or feel down cause theres people out there who really care about u even though it dont seems like it but there is always some one out there thinking about u and worry about everything that happens to u.kayla i just want u to know that u got a friend here who u could talk to when ever u want i aint got yahoo but i do have msn witch is [email protected] hope everything gets much better kayla. 

Name: tyran | Date: May 7th, 2006 7:17 AM
because sher is so cool 

Name: elisha | Date: May 7th, 2006 5:58 PM
help i need a friend i am elisha 

Name: Allison | Date: May 7th, 2006 7:46 PM
ahhhh. Today has been horrible (eating wise) I was doing so well this week....until today. I wish food would just disappear. That would be Much easier.

How are you all doing? 

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