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Name: mom_2_three
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My daughter is 15 and she has a ED and when ever she don't eat I feel angery because is is messen the family up and there is for nothing more time then to make sure she eats and she don't purge it out again .but then there is also the side of me that i feel gilty i used to suffer from Bulimia.And I still can't look at myself in the mirror and under lots of stress i still put my finger down....I feel so gilty and angry and don't know how not to have the feeling to want to grab her and feed her no matter what she wants.Can someone tell me how they handle it as mother?
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Name: Pianophillic | Date: Aug 1st, 2006 5:51 AM
hey- first... its good you realize that you have guilt becuyase you had bulimia too.. and being a mom with a child with an ed is very tough.
just remember that SHE is NOT messing the family up... when you were bulimic, were you trying to mess the fmaily up? dont ever tell her that.. and being angry wont help...as a mom, you need to get her into treatment... and maybe get some hekp for you, if you still use buliimia symptoms.. this oculd be good fo ryour family. there are many inpatneint places for her to go,... call the eating disrders national help line and ask about them.... dont force feed her- that wont solve anything, but you can force her into treatment. 

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