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Do you know what an eating disorder can really do to you? Girls, with real EDs do not want what they have. An ED is not, and never will be a fashion statement. It was one thing to diet, but to actually binge and purge or starve yourself to 60lbs. is not glamorous. It will make your hair fall out and your periods stop(which may sound good now, but someday you will grow up and possible want a child) I think this whole board should be erased b/c people w/ true EDs do not need a site like this. We already know how to throw up and starve ourselves; we know all the little tricks. You girls are obviously immature little brats that NEED TO GROW UP, and start thinking about your futures, b/c if you really develop an ED you might not have one!!!!!!!! ↓
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| Name: $_$ money | Date: May 4th, 2006 2:02 AM |
| Name: --- | Date: May 4th, 2006 12:44 PM |
| i agree totally, ive been ana for 3 years now and its living hell. i wouldnt wish it upon anyone, if i could turn back time and realise what was happening to me in the early stages i would have seeked help. if you want and eating disorder and encouraging it you're disrespecting someone who actually has one. it isnt a fashion statement. and to clarify a few things it isnt about losing weight, its about control and emotions, starving is self punishment. ↑ |
| Name: Picses_boy18 | Date: May 4th, 2006 8:21 PM |
Its true, i was ana/bulimic and ur INTIRE world becomes focused on food/ burning calories
its nt about lousing weight, i always thought of it like the film The Exosixt- something overpowering comes over u and its so hard u hav 2 giv in, when i was ill with it i used 2 cry all the time, it takes ur likfe away, it took me over 2 mounthes to become the person i was in the first place, i forgot everything about me (even little things like wat music i like and my favourite colour, u dont choose this diseace, it chooses U!!!! ↑ |
| Name: bri | Date: Oct 22nd, 2006 11:46 AM |
| Dude you really need to shut ur big mouth. There is no need to call everyone in this forum "immature little brats" becuz they have problems. Now I do admit that there are a couple of people talking about stupid stuff that's obvious and not wanted. But there are a lot of people here that just want to talk to someone who has the same problems and that can relate. People have eating disorders for different reasons and TRUST ME it isn't so easy TO QUIT! You seriously need to shift your perspective. What? Becuz u have eyes u think u can judge everyone on this site now? ↑ |
| Name: thisisme | Date: Oct 24th, 2006 12:04 AM |
| that's a little too harsh ↑ |
| Name: ally murphy | Date: Nov 7th, 2006 4:50 PM |
| I totally agree. But i have had anED for the past 6 years. I did stop with a lot of help of my doctor and syk nurse. But about 1 year ago something happened and it started all over again. I know that i can do it but its so hard. Its like there is a little voice in my head telling me to do it. And i feel so much better afterwards. But the biggy is my health i suffer with dry skin yellowing skin hair loss. All you young girls think its an easy option but its not. If you want to do something like this then you are pretty messed up in the head. They is other ways to lose weight. Its an illness not something to get attention or a attempt to lose some weight. ↑ |
| Name: nlk277 | Date: Nov 10th, 2006 3:52 AM |
| I think that it is YOU that are in denial about the truth. You have not specified whether you have had anorexia or bulimia, but I can tell, from the harshness in your words, that it is YOU that thinks it is a fashion statement, otherwise why would you be here denegrating other sufferers who are trying to have a voice and talk about their problem with others. I have suffered from anoreixa and bulimia for the past 3 years, and have had to be hospitalised because of my anorexia - yet, I still come onto this forum and voice my opinions and concerns. Are you trying to say that I do not have a REAL eating disorder? And your statement about "immature little brats" - I don't know how old you are, but I am 21 years old - I would not consider myself a brat, neither would many people on this forum. I was honestly so incredibly offended by your message and I am positive that other readers would have been as well. ↑ |
| Name: ally murphy | Date: Nov 10th, 2006 8:58 AM |
| I have bulimia. And its not nice if you site back and think about. But i cant stop it as im sure non of you can either. I dont agree with the sites that are saying go ED food is poision which it is if you have an ED but in my eyes it is encouring people. I agree with what you are saying nlk277 it is an illness and the person who wrote that does not understand and hasn't been through it they are very nieve. ↑ |
| Name: purpal2002002 | Date: Nov 27th, 2006 2:01 AM |
| You are rude .Small minded person . I am sorry that people has problems but if you cannot take it then why are you here . Some girls may need and want support to stop this . I am 27 years old jusr recovering from ana . I was 12 or so when I started . I wished I had the net and suport sites for myself. Yes some girls does act like brats but not all . SO who are you to judge on here and not to judge ? What if some kid on here realy needs help and all because it may have upset you or something you want someone to shut this site down . Well I think it is sad . I hope these girls and kids does get help over half the parenets don't know what is going on . The other half Lord knows what happened . There maybe rape , abuse , or drugs no telling what made them turn this away . So if it takes your little time up then maybe you need to take a break the only one that has a problem here is I beleave you . And that you are so selfish . Or you may not even mean it like that .. Maybe you want the best for the young kids to who knows only the Lord knows . My heart goes out to everyone that wants to get well of this it is hard walk but their is light at the end .God Bless everyone . ↑ |
| Name: kb3lzh13 | Date: Dec 5th, 2006 1:31 PM |
| I agree with bri the world is overweight and i say that is the new hollywood thing now anorexia and bulimia so get over it and how do you know wat it is like you dont and your hair only falls out and your periods stop if you dont take vitamins or donteat for long periods of time trust me my step died at 40 from anorexia since she was 12 but on the hand i doo agree cuz once you stop it all your life you feel like ou r fat and even if you are 70 or 80 pounds you alwaysfeel fat ↑ |
| Name: MadelineRose | Date: Dec 6th, 2006 4:56 AM |
| Hi! I am a 42 year old women with Bulimia. And, while agree with some of what you say, I think this site can be helpful. I have just joined. I have been so dishonest about my ED because of shame. I was truly hoping this site would enable me to dialogue my issues anonymously. I hope it will allow me to express the feelings and behaviors I have been hiding for so long. I hope that it will help me leave some of the adverse behaviors behind! ↑ |
| Name: Shannx | Date: Dec 12th, 2006 9:19 PM |
Well if people with real ED's don't need a site like this.. then why are you on here?
Just a thought luv.. eurmm and where did you learn how to 'purge' did it just come naturally.. i doubt it luv.
Look i've been through it before i know what it's like im not thick you know!
And i still want to be 'annorexic' i don't care what you think.
Yh when i am actually anorexic i hate it.. but i can't live without it..
I'm on here for tips off of other people.. I'm not going to lie about it ..
Ahh.. get back to me on this i wanna know what you wanna say about this..
Your the brat yourself for posting this.. if you've got such a problem with it.. then don't come on here.
Simple as!
Haha.. i cant belive you said that it should be deleted because people with real ED's dont need to have a site.. then why hell are you on here LMAO ↑ |
| Name: againwhat | Date: Dec 16th, 2006 11:03 PM |
| I agree. I came to this site because I wanted to find out if I have an eating disorder, but I've found that most of these posts are asking for advice on how to BE anorexic. It's a little unnerving. ↑ |
| Name: Sharmaynefaye | Date: Dec 17th, 2006 3:12 AM |
WHAT ABOUT THE PEOPLE THAT ACTUALLY NEED HELP?!?! did you for one second stop to think of them. Im strugling and it helps me to read about others and possibly help them. I know what it does, i know the effects, if there is one thing in my whole life i could take back it is bulimia ok? I agree with you about the stupid lil girls coming on here wanting to know how, its like wanting to know how to kill yourself. instead of critisicing, why dont you try to help a little bit...
-Sharmayne ↑ |
| Name: candles121 | Date: Dec 18th, 2006 4:01 AM |
you know....some of these girls are reaching out for help and people like you are the ones to send them over the edge....insead of calling them brats...how about finding out why they are crying out and just being their for them... God Said let the little children come unto me for theirs is the kingdom of heaven.....
that even means them......
And instead of picking on the ones who are asking how to become one....how about being their friend and finding out what is going on in their lives to make them turn in this direction...
This problem wont just go away and God willing with boards like this we can hope to be the guiding had that turns them in a different direction.
A simple prayer can do amazing things. ↑ |
| Name: ally murphy | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 9:14 AM |
Go Lucie that was really funny.
I couldn't agree with you more.
xx ↑ |
| Name: lucie | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 9:27 AM |
| Name: Sharmaynefaye | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 10:45 PM |
| WOOT.. go everyone, i am here for help and to give help as well.... ↑ |
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