I am 18 almost 19 and I know exactly how you feel. Lucky for you, you both have a stable income and are going to school. I, unfortunately do not have that luxury as of right now.
This is just my opinion, approach him in a non-aggressive manner. Don't try and force it on him.
Say something along the lines of "Remember awhile back when you made the comment of wanting a baby?" and take the conversation from there. Easy and no tension.
There is a possibility that you two are too young. BUT, if you honestly think that you two are ready to take on the responsibility to have a child and take care of another life and KNOW that a baby is not a toy, then I say go for it. It will bring you two closer.
MARRIAGE should come first. Find a ring ;) Get that man girl! And keep in mind that you are going to be out of work for awhile being pregnant!
Good luck and God Speed. ↑ |
I was 19 when I got pregnant with my first. I wasn’t married, but I was with his father. That changed quickly after having my son. Suddenly, I was a single mom at 20. Honestly, at 19, I thought I was grown up and knew what I needed to know. But, in reality, my son and I basically grew up together. He is my life, don’t get me wrong. But, I struggled...financially and emotionally at times trying to raise a baby boy on my own. And held resentment towards his dad because he didn’t help me at all. I am 33 now and I am married and have another baby and expecting another and my husband adopted my oldest son. But, you and your boyfriend have all the time in the world. Get married, make time for the two of you. Turn 21, go out with friends....and then when things settle.....you will know that you are ready and there will be no question. Good luck! ~ Lori ↑ |