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Name: Jessica | Date: May 8th, 2006 1:56 PM
I feel the same way as your daughter. On friday my bf broke up with me and after all that was all said and done I was driving home and totaled my car, it wasn't my fault though. Although I admit I was upset on the way home. I have done nothing but cry this whole weekend. I feel so depressed! 

Name: ally | Date: May 9th, 2006 3:13 AM
hi how r you going? 

Name: Lauren | Date: May 10th, 2006 11:13 PM
I am a teen myself....and the best thing to do is hold her! Some people will say to give her space...but that isnt what you need to do. It is very possible that something serious has happened to her and she might feel like you are totally clueless. She may not feel like she should seek help from you...she may feel like you should come to her. Have you tried talking to her? Also....i dont recomend anti-depresents. That can make things worse because you would be saying that you want to change who she is. Like, she isnt good enough, you know? 

Name: emo kid | Date: May 11th, 2006 12:40 AM
anti depressents don't work. they make you see things you don't . trust me i know. look at her wrist's is she cutting? ask her whats wrong. don't igbore her. maybe she wants to be alone. i do the same thing sometimes ( not the cutting). counsulers usually make us angry , sad or even more depressed. i know this because this is what i go through. 

Name: emprice | Date: May 11th, 2006 2:18 PM
Hi mom 23. Coming from a teen whos been there, i think the best thing for you to do, is to give her some space. She may get better, she may not. Conseling helps, but not all the time because depending on how severe her depression is, you never know how things could go. She's probably on an emotion rollercoaster and doesnt know what to do. If she yells, let her yell, if she cries, hug her, if she has outburst, let her outlet, because if you try to make her keep all that anger inside, believe me, you will not see changes for the good. 

Name: amy | Date: May 12th, 2006 10:11 PM
im just about to re-sit a few exams and everyone at my college has some idea of where their going in life and it gets me down because I really dont have a clue and people constantly ask me and i hate telling them I dont know. i feel as though deep down i'm failing at life and i dont know what to do. 

Name: nikki | Date: May 12th, 2006 11:26 PM
she has 2 stop mom i know it may sounnd bad but you find her another boyfriend who is hot i'm going through the same thing but i got over it eventually. Be there for her don't tell her she's to young to go through that,because that only makes things worst 

Name: mercedes | Date: May 20th, 2006 3:17 PM
hi i read your caption and its so sad
if you dont mind my asking what happened to her to make her this way ?how old is sher i am 13 and a gurl if i can help in any way email me please .

[email protected] 

Name: Kandice | Date: May 25th, 2006 4:46 AM
i just need to talk to someone besides my parents and will understand me, like another teen 

Name: Dangel1769 | Date: May 25th, 2006 4:49 AM
Kandice what do you need help with 

Name: Mimi | Date: May 26th, 2006 2:59 AM
im depressed 

Name: Mimi | Date: May 26th, 2006 3:00 AM
i need 2 talk 2 sum 1 i need help and my parents dont understand 

Name: Debbie | Date: May 28th, 2006 6:57 PM
You need to get your daughter as soon as possible to be evaluated by a psychciatrist. We've been through this, and the right meds can sometimes make a huge difference. Or maybe she needs counseling,maybe something is happening, or has happened in her life causing her to retreat..good luck 

Name: meg | Date: Jun 7th, 2006 7:23 PM
bring her to a sycologist asap she needs to talk to someone if she wont talk to you trust me on this i was once just like her! they will mostlikely put her on anti depressents. trust me im sure she does not like feeling this way her self. 

Name: andrea | Date: Jun 19th, 2006 2:52 PM
i feel the same way sometimes maybe she is thinking baout something that is ruining her life or she thinks is going to turn out bad.take her to a shrink. 

Name: andrea | Date: Jun 19th, 2006 2:54 PM
i feel worthless like how you feel when your in a room and everyone knows everyone and you know no ne and you stick out like dandelion in a sea of roses 

Name: Nicole | Date: Jun 20th, 2006 9:14 PM
Hi , Mom.23 !! . It sounds like your really worried about your daughter . as you should ! Im a teen myself and have gone through a state of depression before . the slow//depressing music is usually because of a boy , heartbreak , etc ... try talking to her about it , but slowly bring up the topic. let her confess to you the problems , dont ask her !! the sleeping could be because she wants her days to go by until a certain special day comes .. maybe. and she probaly doesnt want to go to school because shes being bullied !! and remember getting mooshy isnt the way dont use the words " honey " or " ill always love yu no matter what " .. maybe you could still say no matter what i wont judge you ! .. but still . maybe she needs some medical help / attention . hope this helped 

Name: Regan Gibbon | Date: Jun 20th, 2006 11:13 PM
dont make her go to a counsler she doesnt know that person she wont feel safe talking to that person if you want her to talk to someone have it be someone she knows (but not a family member) maybe a close friend. 

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Name: chev...again | Date: Jun 21st, 2006 12:39 PM
if any parents or people who know the feeling plz give me advice to keep my mind strong and keep on the rite track...plZ---im so sick of feeling this way. i cant even run to my parents for help they will just thro this in my face- i just dont want this depression to lead to somethin else....

thanks a bunch. 

Name: nicole 15 | Date: Jun 22nd, 2006 3:56 AM
There are lots of ressons ur daughter could be this way she prob dosent like her body or there may be prob wit friends or guys i waz like her and some times still am but she needs 2 find her iner self if that makes seance well good luck wit ur probs i hope i helped a lil 

Name: ashley | Date: Jun 25th, 2006 12:29 AM
what you should do is try to talk to her about what is bothering her and if she doesn't tell you, you should take her out and show her what she is missing and how much fun she can have although she is depressed i for one am depressed i just don't show it i go out and laugh just like all my siblings and they can't even tell im depressed anyway i believe that will work 

Name: Lorin | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 4:22 AM
get her a therapist.... she'll be reluctant to go obviously.... but it really helps.... and help her find people to talk to who have the same problems... DON"T bother her consistantly. 

Name: jade | Date: Jun 27th, 2006 9:41 PM
talk to her and tell her that your going to have some time where both of you are talking truthfully, tell her how your feeling and ask her if she's been feeling suicidel or if shes self harming then if she has talk to her and ask her why?
let her ask you questions and unless it's something you can't tell her then tell her the truth 

Name: flaca | Date: Jun 28th, 2006 4:42 PM
You should go out and seek help for your daughter and see if you can get her to open up to a docter or someone she can trust 

Name: dani | Date: Jun 30th, 2006 9:23 PM

Name: steff | Date: Jul 1st, 2006 8:15 PM
im suisidle and the worst thing u can do is let her be and dont bother her trust me i should no 

Name: jennifer | Date: Jul 2nd, 2006 3:54 PM
hiya ma name is jennifer and im 14
well anyway does ur daughter have msn messenger?
coz i can talk to her and maybe help her or something,im kinda in the same way she is,but just a lil bit more cherpy, ma msn adress is [email protected] u can also send me an email if u need somewat

Name: michelle | Date: Jul 3rd, 2006 2:50 AM
i think u should get ur daughter on sum meds..they help...cuz i have and am going through depression....ive been depressed alomost my whole life...i have tried to kill myself and i have cut my self...and just this past year have finally got help..the frist thing i did was admit that i had a problem..i told my mom but she did not listen...but my school which i had just started to go to noticed that i was always down and sad..so then my mom listened...and then i went to see JoAnn my theripest which i nolonger have to see..then i went to see mt phycietris which i see every cupple of months...i had problems with the first meds but the second ones help ALOT...im HAPPY and i LOVE life now...but i still have sum bad thoughts every so offten..but i do think it is easier to talk to sumone u dont know.....i could talk to my friends cuz i didnt have any..so do go a try to have her friend s talk to her cuz she might not have any....but she does need to get help in sumway...... 

Name: michelle | Date: Jul 3rd, 2006 2:52 AM
my bad i mean i couldnt talk to me friends cuz i didnt have any..... 

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