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Name: yet_another_tear
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I really like my boyfriend, I think I may even be in love with him. Although I REALLY do like / love him I'm not sure if i wanna have sex with him yet. He wants to, but he keeps saying I dont have to if I dont wont to, but I can tell he wonts to. I just wont him to be happy....What should I do???
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Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 4:09 AM
nuttin. when you are ready you WILL know it. 

Name: Lizzi | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 2:29 PM
It is very CLEAR to me that you are NOT ready!!! So PLEASE don't do it!!! If you do all it will do is complicate things and one of those things will be that you will regret it most likely but then you won't be able to UN-DO it! How old are you and how long have you and your boyfriend been together?? 

Name: Lory | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 5:08 PM
Hi! In my humble opinion, if he truly cares for you....he will wait for you to be ready. And, well if you never end up being "ready" at this time. It's ok! BUT, if for some reason you end up wanting to...please think about using some protection! 

Name: yet_another_tear | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 6:27 PM
hey ya'll i've read all your comments and i wont to say thanks. ya'll really did have some good advise...i may and i may not. i more than likly wont. but i'm still not sure. oh and can someone please tell me how to comment someone back?? 

Name: saxton_emma | Date: Jan 22nd, 2007 12:19 PM
My god girl, you are 12 going on 13. you are so not ready to do this, you should be out woth your friends enjoying your life not even thinking about this. if you do this now believe me you will regret it in the future. you may think your in ''Love'' but your not. 

Name: messedupteen | Date: Feb 15th, 2007 7:47 PM
u dont it will just happen i lost mine @ 11 and im 14 now and my ex girl friend might be having my kid shes not sure 

Name: Sunshine1 | Date: Feb 15th, 2007 10:39 PM
If you even have to ask yourself if your sure...you're not. Are you really 12? Good God I hope not! There is no way at 12 that you are emotionally ready for that kind of responsibility. Sex should not even be an issue at that age. Ask some people around you if they are still with the same boyfriend they had at 12, 14, or even 16. You'll have plenty of time to be an adult later. For now I suggest you enjoy letting everyone else be the grown up with all the boring responsibilities that go along with it and have fun being a kid. 

Name: sez | Date: Feb 16th, 2007 10:39 AM
go for it! you might aswell start acting like a slut now. 

Name: Jessica1815 | Date: Feb 16th, 2007 5:40 PM
dont do it.....it will just naturally come to you one day and you'll know when you want to.....how old are you??? ive been with my boyfriend for 2 years and we have a little boy coming in april and just trust me you'll know dont ever let a boy make you think that you have do something......

[3 Jessica 

Name: yet_another_tear | Date: Feb 19th, 2007 3:28 PM
thanks ya'll...i actually did it. I wanted to...I made him wear a condom. I made sure that he did. I really love this boy and i am glad he was the one to take my virginity. 

Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Feb 19th, 2007 9:23 PM
Ha, ha, ha...you'll not be saying that in a few weeks when he's dumped ya for someone else!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

Name: bmes | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 2:51 AM
you'll know you're ready when you can actually make the decision on your own and NOT based on what you think the guy wants!! 

Name: marija | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 4:28 AM
wow!!!...you really took everyone...or even SOMEONE's advice didnt you!!!!
man ....why bother writing a post??? 

Name: PosersNFakes | Date: Feb 20th, 2007 9:19 PM

ya fanny starts talking to you..
and tells you.. ITSELF thats right....

ya magical fanny talks to you 

Name: chantel1 | Date: Mar 23rd, 2007 12:38 PM
HIM HAPPY???? WHAT ABOUT YOU??? He sounds to me like he's making you feel awkward, you definately aren't ready if your asking when you are ready... my boy friend loved me worshiped me had sex with me then the next day he went and had ex with the next available thing that came along and then tried to come back... thats all they think about, when the dick goes hard the brain goes soft, thats one saying but is one's better HE'LL HELP YOU PULL YOUR UNDIES DOWN, BUT HE WON'T HELP YOU PULL THEM BACK UP!!!! 

Name: Amy19UK | Date: Mar 25th, 2007 7:32 PM
Hunni, if u don't feel ready then dont do it. You will know when the time is right I promise you. If u love him surely u only want to give him ur virginity if he loves you too? A sure fire way of finding out if he really does love u is make him wait untill u are ready. If he loves you then he will wait as long as it takes. If he's only after u for sex then he wont stick around and u will feel so used if u have sex with him and he leaves afterwards. TRUST ME, it happened to me, I was really into this guy wen I was 17 and he said all the right things, he'll wait as long as it takes and he only wants to do it if I am ready and blah blah blah, so I had sex with him and the next day he wouldnt speak to me, I was gutted. The next guy I had sex with I waited till I was ready and we are still together now. It was perfect when we had sex, he did nothing but worry if I was ok. so please please please wait till u know u are ready....and u will know when the time is right


Name: Amy19UK | Date: Mar 25th, 2007 7:37 PM
wow....I just waffled on all of that and u did it anyway. if u were ready u were ready but u'll probably regret it in the future when u are more worldly wise. How old was ur b4? I hope he wasnt a lot older than u

Name: Spoon | Date: Apr 5th, 2007 12:50 AM
u wouldnt need to ask if u were ready 

Name: Satans Bitch | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 9:53 AM
dont sleep with him just to make him happy please, i lost my virginity to a guy that used to hit me and he said if you'll sleep with me i'll stop, i was 13 and i did and now i cant get that back and it was the worst mistake i ever made, you will no when your ready because when your makeing out you'll start playing with his jeans trying to take his top off ect ect so just wait sex just confuses things if u start to soon best of luck x 

Name: lynne | Date: Apr 20th, 2007 7:10 PM
The fact that you have asked this question tells me that you are not ready! 

Name: roseywosey | Date: Apr 21st, 2007 5:50 AM
lol yeh.. im going to have to agree with lynne on this 1. 

Name: swiss1miss | Date: Apr 21st, 2007 3:54 PM
You want to make your boyfriend happy. First you have to make yourself happy. If your boyfriend loves you he will wait. Losing your virginity is a big thing given to someone as a gift for love not just anyone you really like.
Make the right desicion. 

Name: britanyhrei9 | Date: May 10th, 2007 2:33 AM
you'll go to HELL if you give up your pussy. HELL'S a BADDDDDDDDDDDDDDD place 

Name: riki | Date: May 27th, 2007 1:14 AM
choose for yourself, my advise, dont unless you feel totally comfortable and even then think about it A LOT! i hate to say it, but kristina's right dont give it up unless ur sure oh and whoregirl u really are a whore in like 20 years or so when your diein of aids ill laugh at how dumb u where to do that in the first place, 

Name: dmt | Date: Jun 14th, 2007 1:29 PM
are you married thats how you know 

Name: PippaLou | Date: Oct 23rd, 2007 5:50 PM
you know when you are ready !!

Don't go through with it if it is just for him!!

If you want it.. if you feel ready .. if you have the commitment
the understanding. maturity . understanding of the problems that may happen like preganacy , std's, sti's etc....AND GO ON PILL!!!! 

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