Ooo, this is a tricky one!
If I were your mum I'd want to know if my husband was up to that kind of thing, but you're very young to be involved with stuff between your parents like this.
Do you have any older relatives such as aunts or uncles who you can confide in? Perhaps they will speak to your dad about it. Are you sure that he's meeting people or is he just talking to them on these sites? Whichever way, it's wrong and he shouldn't be doing it.
I think that your mum has a right to know, but I also think that you need some assistance in dealing with it.
What relatives do you have? Or is there a family friend who could help? ↑ |
| No,all my family lives in another country.And yesterday I told my mum in the best way I could say it but she just raised her eyebrows at me and said that dad would never do that. ↑ |
| Does your dad know you know of his bad behavior? Tell him either he can tell your mom what he is doing or you will because it's tearing you apart and you want it to stop. Maybe if he see's how hurt you are it will be enough for him to want to stop (but I doubt it),he has probably been doing it for so long that he is addicted to it. There is also the possibility that your mom DOES know and she just puts on a good front for you because she thinks that you don't know.Either way this is too much for you emotionally and you need to tell your parents that way the issue will be resolved one way or another.Good Luck and go talk to them today. ↑ |
| Since mom doesn't believe you then instead of deleting things,SHOW them to her! She HAS to believe you then! ↑ |
Your dad should have more respect for you than to leave things like that on the family computer. If he is going to indulge in nasty, sordid activities such as these then he should at least do it in private! An 11 year old shouldn't be discovering things like this on the computer - esp. as you have access to it!
Perhaps you could save some stuff for the screensaver and print some of this rubbish out and leave it for him to find when he comes home from work.
Above all he should have more respect for your and your mum than to do this! Tell him that the computer is YOURS and to keep his activities OFF IT !!!!!!! It doesn't matter if he bought it and uses it - he needs to grow up and stop acting like a teenage boy !!!!!!!! ↑ |
im 11 2 almost 12. my parents are not togeather but nevr married
i guess, its tim 4 u to understand that they are might split. sorry ↑ |
| just have your mom and dad meet on an online site without them knowing its each other. then they can laugh it off like in that jimmy buffet song ↑ |
| I'd tell your mom. If they break up, it won't be your fault for telling on your dad. She deserves better than that. Don't keep it a secret any longer, she needs to know. This is your dads problem, and your mom needs to know your dad isn't the saint she thinks he is. ↑ |
