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Name: bobi | Date: Jan 4th, 2009 6:39 PM |
We all make mistakes! Your heart is broken and it sounds as though he is really out of control. This is such a difficult time. I feel for you. Recently, I've gone through some similar experiences and wake up sick and depressed. I work at a drug and alcohol clinic and see people everyday that have addiction problems. Having lived with much of it in my life I've come to think that they can only help themselves. Give solid advise to them yet let them learn from lifes consequences and work it out for themselves. It's very hard to know how to help without it bringing you down with them. My best advise is to read and pray. Make yourself healthy in every way. Write loving notes, be honest, supportive but DO NOT do not be drawn in or let them minipulate you. They are pretty good at it. The best to you. ~ibob ([email protected]) ↑ |
Name: raychelrampagex | Date: Jan 30th, 2009 7:10 PM |
Addicts can only help themselves. Keep letting him know that you love him and you're there when he needs you. Whether he wants to come home or not, whether he hates you or not, doesn't mean you're not his mother. Deep down, he loves you. Drugs take over a person's body and make them do things that you wouldn't think they would EVER do. Keep having faith in him. Pray. Keep your mind distracted. ↑ |