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Name: Abe36
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I am so depressed and sad and I don't know what to do. I am on the verge of a nervous break down. I have no support. His father has washed his hand off of him and does not want to have anything to do with him. My best friends have deserted me. They believe that I should have taken all the abuse. I contacted children's aid, counsellors, school authorities, everyone. No one was help. I put rules in the house that no drugs at home but still he would do it. At last my son left me and now also, he hates me and does not want to talk to me ever again. He has threatened me also, saying that he would send his druggie friends to hurt me. It is awful. I could not live with that and I cannot live with this but I have to live with it anyhow because he does not want to come back and hates me. I have written emails to him that I love him and still is not too late and he threatened that he would go to police and get restraining order against me. Can anyone help me please. I really do need help.
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Name: bobi | Date: Jan 4th, 2009 6:39 PM
We all make mistakes! Your heart is broken and it sounds as though he is really out of control.

This is such a difficult time. I feel for you. Recently, I've gone through some similar experiences and wake up sick and depressed.

I work at a drug and alcohol clinic and see people everyday that have addiction problems. Having lived with much of it in my life I've come to think that they can only help themselves. Give solid advise to them yet let them learn from lifes consequences and work it out for themselves.

It's very hard to know how to help without it bringing you down with them. My best advise is to read and pray. Make yourself healthy in every way.

Write loving notes, be honest, supportive but DO NOT do not be drawn in or let them minipulate you. They are pretty good at it.

The best to you. ~ibob ([email protected]

Name: raychelrampagex | Date: Jan 30th, 2009 7:10 PM
Addicts can only help themselves.
Keep letting him know that you love him and you're there when he needs you. Whether he wants to come home or not, whether he hates you or not, doesn't mean you're not his mother.

Deep down, he loves you.
Drugs take over a person's body and make them do things that you wouldn't think they would EVER do.

Keep having faith in him.
Pray. Keep your mind distracted. 

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