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pregnat. i said it there. i just cant believe it. i dont know what i am going to do. i am 5'3. i weigh 103 pounds. i dont know why that matters but whatever this baby is going to show, i took 4 tests and they were all positive!. i was just fooling around with this guy! he didnt actually cum inside me! he just started fingering me, and i guess thats how it happened,im so scared, i am not ready for a baby! im only 13 & 1/2! i cant even get a job! i have to finish school! how do i support a baby? I CANT but i just dont know how im supposed to tell my mom! this is partly my fault! i am so disgusting. i cant get an abortiaon though, my family is against that! but i just dont know what to do. i dont know i dont know! SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME PLEASE PLEASE
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Name: hey | Date: Apr 10th, 2006 5:53 PM
I don't understand how you became pregnet w/o him coming inside of you. I don't think you are pregnet. 

Name: steph | Date: Apr 10th, 2006 6:44 PM
maybe he had cum on his fingers? idk. but if i was you i would find a way to go somewhere and get an abortion. just don't tell your parents. the abortion hotlinne is 18007789100 

Name: amanda | Date: May 4th, 2006 4:09 PM
Honey, to let you know you cant get pregnant by him fingering you because as soon as cum hits the air its no good it cant get you pregnant! you might have got pregnant from the pre-cum right before he pulled out...sorry though honey 

Name: to steph | Date: May 4th, 2006 6:15 PM
you cant tell her to get an abortion thats awfull she needs to tell her mum because thats what her mum is there for 

Name: sally | Date: May 6th, 2006 2:27 AM
If you cant tell your mum, do you have an aunty or grandmother you can talk to? Then you can go to the doctors with them, and after its confirmed that you are in deed pregnant ,then decide what you are going to do. 

Name: dsgsdh | Date: May 9th, 2006 8:16 PM
sperm doesn't die as soon as it hits the air, guys. it takes at least a few minutes, longer if it is wet 

Name: jovan | Date: May 10th, 2006 4:00 PM
u dont get pregnant by bein fingered gurl 

Name: Jazyme | Date: May 11th, 2006 6:02 PM
yes ...she kan be supporting, and you should read about other people`s lives wen they got pregnant pretty early. like Annie`s Baby 

Name: candace | Date: May 12th, 2006 3:27 PM
howe do i tell my mom i'm having a baby 

Name: peaches | Date: May 12th, 2006 4:05 PM
gurl, it aint never easy to tell ur mom that ur pregnant without bein married. but if ur gonna continue to live in her house then you gone have to tell her. u got 3 choices.
1. tell her
2. dont tell her but she'll be even more mad when she ur tummy gettin bigger and has to guess.
or3. move out.
it's all ur choice. good luck gurl and let me know what happened 

Name: Aaron | Date: May 15th, 2006 6:06 PM
How are you pregnant ?
If he didnt well...
"Let it dribble in you"

Name: satan's bitch | Date: May 17th, 2006 4:02 PM
ok to every1 hu says u cnt gt preggers frm being fingerd u can uf he has cum on his hand and fingers u after then woohoo baby! To the gurl hu's pregnant tell ure mum and i bet even if she is agenst abortions she'll tke u to get 1 dne u gotta do it soon tho coz 1 shes gonna notice when u get a bump and 2 u cnt get a abortion after ure 3rd trimesta 

Name: mrs tripp | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 1:53 PM
tell your mum your fat. 

Name: steph | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 3:09 PM
sit her down and say mum i am so sorry but ihav been so
silly and tell her that way soz i am not much help 

Name: ELAINE | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 3:20 PM
How can you be P.G. if you say he only fingered you did he cum and where did he touch him self with his hand and then touch you. You must no how this happen,
Mna at 13 i was still playing with dolls where did this take place your housr or his and where are your parents when your with this boy and how old is this boy. 

Name: Sarah | Date: Jul 1st, 2006 3:51 PM
well i had sex a couple of times without protection and my boyfriend pulled me off of him and the last couple of times i told him just to go ahead and cum in me i am 15 and when i was little i had a sist on my ovary and they took it of do u think that i am pregnat? 

Name: babygurl101 | Date: Feb 4th, 2007 6:03 PM
im 13 yr. old nd im gonna hav a baby i dont no how 2 tell my mom cuz i no she is gonna flip out nd my nd my bf want to have a baby but i no my mom would be disaprove of it..nd i think she might kick me out of he house nd if i int have anywhere else to go i could ive @ my bf's house but the thing is his sister is in the same grade as me!!!! m nd my bf r only 2 r. apart but 3 grades diff. i have no clue wat 2 do!!!!!! PLZ SOME1 ANY 1 WHO HAS/HAD THE SAME PROBLEM PLZ TELL ME WAT DID U DO???? 

Name: chantel1 | Date: Mar 8th, 2007 3:21 PM
i've had an abortion and it aint nice to know ur bubs s riped out from within you! tell your mum she will be more worried and dissapointed than angry, yeah sure she will be pissed only coz she wants whats best for you! but she will forgive you, she's your mum, don't make the same mistake i did, it's not woth it! tell her, oh and 4 preg test's should definately tell u the answer by now! you know a mothers love for her children is unconditional!!!! she will be mad wouldn't you? but she will be there for you, tell your mum first not your dad but your mum then let her tell your dad, also talk with your guidence councillor at school and get him/her to arrange a time with you so u can get your mum up there and tell her in front of them if your worried how she'll react, that way she won't freak out as much, trust me parents act different in front of other adults, i know i've been there done that, oh yeah and good luck, just for a guess i reckon you will have a girl, how cute:) 

Name: Dylan 13 | Date: Mar 16th, 2007 1:30 PM
ok wo wo wo i am avaliavable lol 

Name: Amy19UK | Date: Mar 20th, 2007 9:07 PM
Hey, Your mum was young once she must understand what its like to fool around. I know it's hard, I am almost 20 and if i fell pregnant now i dont think i could tell my parents and I am in a steady relationship. However, I think u are her little girl and i think she will be more hurt that you couldn't go to her and tell her. I think she would hurt knowing that u suffered with this all on your own. You are 13 years old and that is way to young for u to be trying to deal with this all by yourself. have you told any of your friends or is there a teacher u can talk to at school or anything like that?
I really wish you the best of luck i hope u make the right decision

Name: Amy19UK | Date: Mar 25th, 2007 7:40 PM
Hey just wondered if u decided to tell ur mum yet or not?

Name: peaches37 | Date: Mar 25th, 2007 10:01 PM
Well I just found out that my 13 yr ols is preg, and she is getting an abortion. Because I was a teenage mother I know what kind of lifestyle I had, and all the things I missed out on because I was unresponsible. Your mother will be very disappointed in you, and hopefully you will come to understand that your mother is the only true friend you have and you need to talk to her. There is always adoption. You should also realize that you shouldn't be having sex there's plenty of time for that when you get old and fall in love wait for that moment. Enjoy being a kid and experience life and all the opportunites out there friends, fashion, school, what you wanna be when your older. 

Name: Holly__rp | Date: Apr 11th, 2007 11:40 PM
When my friend found out she was pregnant she had someone push her down the stairs to get rid of the baby but that didnt works so dont do that. ok. just tell your mom she'll be way nicer to you if you tell her know and not when the baby is born. 

Name: so_unique | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 3:58 PM
does anyone on here know how much an abortion costs? 

Name: B_the_best_U_can_B | Date: Apr 16th, 2007 7:54 PM
Can u leave her alone.I got pregnat at a party with my BF we were both drunk and 1 thinlead 2 another when 1 was 13 and bf 18 almost 19the baby ,baby boy kieran,when i was 14 on 12th november 2004. I then had my 2nd also when 14 on hubbies 20th b'day 10th april 2005 another by who we named Nathan.We also plaaned our last who i had on my 17th b'day 17th september 2006 another boy called joshwhen hubby was 21.I have coped perfectly well being a mum from the age of 1 and 1month. I carried on at school and got 5A*'s & 5A's. i am now in my 1st year of 6th form as i am now 17. you need to do what feels right do not rush into any desicions,which ever you make will have consicuesnces for the rest of your life.That's why i did not have an abortion.i am also unexpectedly expecting twins as i was on the pill so i did not get pregant again.But i am 11 weeks pregant with twins me and hubby are over joyed.My hubby is the father of the children.it is our 1st wedding anniversary on sunday the 22nd april can't wait. However you do need 2 tell your mum as soon as posible o it just gets harder. sit her dowm and explain it to her, she will them be there to help you whatever desision you make.Mums are there 2 stand by there kids.don't woory and good luck.keep us informed on how it goes. Becky 

Name: lucyfield | Date: Apr 20th, 2007 12:43 PM
well im 15 and i had a baby at 13 to the way i told my mom was i wrote her a letter saying it and she was disapointed in the begining but then after a while she was more understanding but dont worry it wil be ok im a single parent and im doing fine with my to twins so everything will be fine from lucy xx 

Name: swiss1miss | Date: Apr 21st, 2007 4:00 PM
just tell your mom she'll understand and give you the best help none of us here can give you. 

Name: mom 2 be | Date: May 2nd, 2007 1:21 AM
hey dont worrie i am 14 and i am having a baby but ne wayz id he your bf? dose he know? 

Name: Terrii-Baybii | Date: May 22nd, 2007 8:57 PM
Dont panick i am 14 and have a 3 week old baby she is a lovely baby and you will realise that my baby was unplanned and my mom didnt know untill i was 7 and half months the things is my baby grew upwards instead of outwards so luckily for me she didnt noticed the local gp said this is usual for a younger person, the xhool phoned my mom and told her after a concernd freind approached them we didnt have time to get all the essentials that bayliss needed on time and we struggled my advice personally tell your mom you will be suprised becuase to be honest what can she do?? whats done is done write back and i hope i have helped xx 

Name: jacqi | Date: May 23rd, 2007 12:11 AM
you have to tell your mom as soon as possible. my aunt got pregnant at 15 and everything turned out okay for her. she had a baby boy. he is a happy, healthy baby and a cute one at that. in her case it actually helped her. think about telling her and then just do it. THINK ABOUT IT KK?! hope i helped! 

Name: mommyboo | Date: May 25th, 2007 1:52 AM
Hey sweet heart.I think you should go to a clinic and double check if you are.If you are I would love to help you anyway I can.I can help talk you through it.Please email me and Ill be there for you.I was a young mom.NOT that young I was 19 and that was hard enough [email protected] 

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