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My mom and dad got divorced about 2 1/2 years ago. She met a guy about 2 years ago and is supposed to be getting married in July. Well her "fiance" has a daughter who is horrible, she steals everything and lies about everything and I just couldn't take it anymore! I told my mom not too long ago that it was going to be either me or her leaving, my mom didn't take me seriously. So my soon to be stepsister called social services and lied about her dad beating her and him and my mom smoking weed, and they just acted like it was ok that she did that, no punishment or anything! So I just got so fed up with everything and told my mom I was going to stay at my boyfriend's house for a little while, she seemed to be ok with it. Then she came up to my job and threatened me and yelled at me while I was trying to work. So I rushed to my dad's house the very next day (he lives 3 hours away) where my little sister was (she was just visiting) My dad is going to get custody of the both of us, I can't go back to my mom's house she told me she had me for the next 6 months and she was going to make my life "a living hell" So my dad has been renting me a place so I can finish school and my little sister now lives with him. She swore that no man or anything would come before her kids. Why did she lie to me? She wants to have a relationship still but everytimes she calls she yells and threatens me. She even changed the locks and turned my journal over to her lawyer. ↓
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| Name: tattudemom | Date: May 25th, 2007 2:09 AM |
| I can't tell you why she did this, but I can tell you that she'll regret it one day. Take comfort in your dad caring enough to fight for you and your sister. Try to be the bigger person and get along with her AND your stepsister and stepfather the best that you can, so no one will ever be able to say it was your fault. That's of course unless you are being continually abused emotionally or physically, and if that happens, you may have to cut her out of your life until she realizes her mistake. I'm sorry this is happening to you and please know that not all parents are capable of making wise decisions and/or caring about you in the way you deserve. I would never suggest anyone can take your mom's place, but if you are in need of female support, try to spend time and open up with other older female relatives. Who knows, maybe your dad will eventually have some wonderful lady come into his life who'll give you what your mom can't at this time. I hope things work out for you and that you can at least be at peace with it all. ↑ |
| Name: The Jangler | Date: May 25th, 2007 2:27 PM |
| You have a nutcase for a mother it sounds like. Stay with your dad! ↑ |
| Name: MsLiko | Date: May 25th, 2007 3:37 PM |
Hello!
Well just to let you know at least you have one parent that acctualy helped you me well its not really about me take this your mother will regret it just like "tattudemom" said she will realize her mistakes in time hope u heared this quote "they wont realize they lost something until its gone" and your mother will realize its gone when it comes back toher and it will i promiss but realizethat you need to stand up take and be strong and dont let no one stop you in your tracks no one can stop you but your self ,i stoped myself when my parents got divoresed silly of me, I started to regret what i have lost but anywhoo not about me lol, sorry, but keep your head up be strong for your sister and you, if u need to chat or need a friend just message me if ud like my MSN messanger: [email protected] or yahoo [email protected]
take care ↑ |
| Name: Burn4Me, | Date: May 25th, 2007 4:49 PM |
| shes an idiot ur better then her. ↑ |
| Name: Jessica | Date: May 25th, 2007 4:50 PM |
thanks guys! I am really grateful that my dad is taking care of me, it makes me feel really good that he is there now (we haven't always got along) My mom says I was just trying to go live with my boyfriend and I didn't care who I used or hurt in the process. But the truth is, that was really, honest to God, not my intentions when all this started.
p.s. my dad has a wonderful women & she is a cool down to earth person and a great role model for my little sister! : ) ↑ |
| Name: tattudemom | Date: May 25th, 2007 9:21 PM |
| That's great that you like her and she's a good role model. Rember when you get upset with your mom that parenting doesn't come with a manual so to speak. Your mom isn't thinking straight apparently, but if and when she does realize her mistakes, try to be forgiving for your own children to have a good relationship with her one day. You're very young still and will need/want her to be a part of your life. My husband and I decided when we had kids to wipe the slate clean of any wrongdoing or mistakes our parents made so long as they were good to our kids. It's brought peace to both of us and our kids adore their grandparents. (They have a lot of 'em too due to divorce on both sides.) Also, keep in mind that your sister will emulate you, so you don't want to say bad things about your mom, etc, or she'll start doing it too. The best way to prove her wrong about the boyfriend thing is by not staying with him. What can she say once you're with your dad for however long, that you changed your mind? Hopefully, she'll admit she was mistaken about your intentions. Take care. ↑ |
| Name: Jessica | Date: May 26th, 2007 9:50 PM |
| I dont have anywhere close to my school to go, most of my family lives in ny and Im in nc and I dont want to transfer now because I will be a senior next year and I want to graduate with my friends ↑ |
| Name: riki | Date: May 27th, 2007 12:31 AM |
| dude, that sux and i dont know exactly what your goin through but my parents ditched me as a kid and i kinda get it, they wanted a son and i wasnt what they wanted, if you ever need to talk email me or somthin, im only a kid so you really dont have to cause i tend to be odd...but if you need to talk or womthin tell me ↑ |
| Name: riki | Date: May 27th, 2007 12:35 AM |
| and dont worry bout her lieing, she didnt, all she did was make a bad disition, her fault and you dont have to worry bout it, i wonder every day why i wasnt kept but i found that it was their dicision and even if it wasnt the right one for me i dont care cause i may have been miserable with them. people do dumb things thats jus how it is somtimes, we just have to move on. to let it ruin your life is selfish and you delt with it in a great way so i know you can handle it. just dont give in and stand your ground, if things dont work out just know you did what you could so its not your fault ↑ |
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