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Name: Sue [ Original Post ] my youngest daughter who is 11 has been caught shoplifting with her friend. Her friend has been smacked by her mother I dont agree with this so i have grounded my daughter and taken away her tv . I have now discovered that they were both bullied into it by her sister who is 14. What do i do with her this is not the first time she has pulled a stunt like this.I grounded her last time but this has not made much impression on her any ideas ↓

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Name: Janet | Date: May 1st, 2006 10:42 PM

Why not take her round to your youngsters friends house and let her mother deal with her and let her sister watch ↑

Name: sally | Date: May 6th, 2006 2:06 AM

I would break up the friendship quick smart. I know theres not much you can do while they are at school , but after school you have a say. At 11, she cant get in trouble off the police, but if she keeps going whens shes older she wont be so lucky, you need to get this under control now while shes still young. Start being really firm on her.All the best and I hope everything goes well for you. ↑

Name: Sue | Date: May 6th, 2006 1:36 PM

You misunderstand sally its her 14 yr old sister that made her do it what do i do with the 14 yr old.Its an idea janet but im not keen on it ↑

Name: Monique | Date: May 8th, 2006 2:09 PM

Ground her and take away anything of her room she uses for entertainment(t.v., radio, computer, etc.) Talk to her about what she did and see if you can find out why she is putting other people up to do her dirty work. Tell her if she wants to steal then at least be responsible enough not to get her sister involved. Then is she is caught stealing let her spend the night in a holding cell, so she can think about her actions. It worked on my sister ↑

Name: Jane | Date: May 8th, 2006 5:05 PM

I am afraid I agree with Janet she is in need of a short sharp shock. ↑

Name: Liz | Date: Jun 5th, 2006 5:17 PM

Just seen your post got a similar problem how did you sort it out sue ↑