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Name: youngandinlove
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so..
i am about to be 15 in about two months.
my fiance is 14 and about to be 15 in march.
we had gotten pregnant in april and had a miscarriage may 2007.
we are dying to try again.
it has been about 3 months.
the baby was growing in the wrong tube.
im just scared the baby will grow in the wrong tube again.
i can only hope tho rite?
any doctors or parents that had this happen to them before that can give me advice????
my friend told me that her mom had a miscarriage when she was 16 and then thay tried again and it worked.
i beleieve it miracles.
i am only 1 year younger than her mom was.

advice please?
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Name: David_82 | Date: Jul 25th, 2007 7:10 PM
ur 14? and you wont a baby? and your engaged?

is this make beileve? 

Name: cjsims | Date: Dec 18th, 2007 11:42 PM
dont b havin kids now u r 2 young, also, 2 young 4 marriage. Quit having sex and buy a baby doll. Real babies are not all they are cracked up to be. LOTS of work, and have you ever gone 4 months straight without sleep, with having not one second of the day to urself? cause that is what you will get with a newborn baby. 

Name: darkness_ninja | Date: Dec 24th, 2007 2:36 AM
if you want a child who am i to judje and thoughs who do are plan out ass es so i will pray that it works for you btw i am 15 two and aint getting married til 19 cause meh parents. we have been together for 3 years now yea me and also good luck! 

Name: BillieJean | Date: Dec 30th, 2007 10:40 PM
Honey let me tell you something i was in ur position about 2 years ago i ended up having a baby and she is 16 months old and trust me no it isnt all that its cracked up to be...wait a while and im serious. i miss being young and trust me you will probably to. 

Name: lindalu | Date: Dec 30th, 2007 11:57 PM
Where the hell are your parents!!!! Girlllll.... you just stepped out of diapers yourself, grow up first... get an education... marry, then think about children. 

Name: youngman | Date: Jan 5th, 2008 6:18 PM
Great. I know you think you are the right age to do this. And more than likely your parent beleive you are too, hence the marriage, but let's take a look at somethings. If I am a baby and you are my mother. These are the things I want. I must have without fail. food, clothes, hygiene needs. medication for any sickness and a parent with me 24 hour a day. This include night and weekends. These are the things you will need. Money,sleep, and time alot of all of these. My question to you is this. Where are your other dreams and why not go after them. Is your world so close that you have no idea about the rest of the world.If you live to be 75 years of age then at present time you have not lived .266 of your life. A baby can wait. The other thing is you have no idea who your husband is. You have only known him a short time. What are his like and dislikes. Does he like you or the fact that you have sex with him . Does he fart while he sleeps. does he masturbate, what type of women does he like. What type of sports, does he believe in God. and many more questions. Get to know your mate very well before another baby because he is your lifelong partner. right. He is the man for you. Not saying that in the next state, your dream man sit waiting to graduate from school or anything. All I am saying is becarefull and know that there is a purpose here in this world for you and it is not to get married and have children that you can't enjoy. 


Name: lindalu | Date: Jan 5th, 2008 10:03 PM
Listen to Youngman he/she offers the most wonderful advice.

Great advice Youngman! 

Name: youngman | Date: Jan 6th, 2008 5:22 AM
Thank you. hopfully life will look a little better for them 

Name: cjsims | Date: Jan 6th, 2008 5:49 AM
DON'T DO IT.....I SWEAR. I LOVE MY HUBBY AND BABY DEARLY, BUT I AM 23 AND THERE ARE MANY TIMES I THINK BACK TO WHEN I LIVED AT MY MOMS AND HAD NOTHING TO WORRY ABOUT. I DON'T REGRET MARRYING MY DH AND HAVING OUR LITTLE MAN WITH HIM, BUT FROM THE DAY YOU FIND OUT U ARE PREGO, YOUR LIFE IS NO LONGER YOURS. I KNOW WHAT BEING FREE FROM RESPONSIBLITIES IS LIKE, AND I'D NEVER LEAVE MY DH, BUT I DO THINK OF THOSE SATURDAY AFTERNOONS QUITE OFTEN, OF WHEN I'D WAKE UP, AND THE CLOCK WOULD SAY 12:30 PM. GUESS WHAT TIME "SLEEPING IN" IS FOR ME NOW? 9:00 AM. AND KNOW WHAT ELSE? THAT IS LATE!! KNOW WHAT I USED TO DO AT THE NOON HOUR ON SATURDAYS, WHEN I'D WAKE UP? PAINT MY TOENAILS, GO FOR A JOG, READ A MAGAZINE, GET READY FOR A DATE, ETC. GUESS WHAT I DO NOW, AS SOON AS I WAKE UP, EVERY SINGLE DAY? EAT BREAKFAST, GET BABY'S BREAKFAST READY, CHANGE BABY'S DIAPERS, GET BABY DRESSED, ETC. YOU GET THE PIC. IF IT IS TOO COLD FOR HIM, WE CAN'T GO ON A WALK. BEFORE I HAD HIM, I COULD GO IF IT WAS 20- CAUSE I ONLY HAD TO WORRY ABOUT MYSELF. ALSO, GUESS WHAT I DID LAST NIGHT AT 12:30 AM? GAVE MY BABY A BATH, CLEANED UP PUKE, AND CHANGED HIS BED SHEET. HE HAS THE FLU. IT IS A GREAT LIFE TO HAVE, AND I DON'T REGRET IT, I'M JUST TRYING TO STRESS TO YOU JUST HOW MUCH LIFE WILL CHANGE. 

Name: cjsims | Date: Jan 6th, 2008 5:56 AM
IT IS WWWWWWWWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYY MORE THAN JUST CUDDLING WITH A CUTE LITTLE BABY, IN A PINK OR BLUE OUTFIT. DO YOU KNOW HOW MUCH ONE BOX OF DIAPERS COST? I BET IT IS ALOT MORE THAN YOUR ALLOWANCE, CAUSE NEITHER OF YOU ARE ABLE TO WORK, EXCEPT AS A GROCERY SACKER IN A SUPERMARKET. THAT PAYS LIKE SIX BUCKS AN HOUR. YOU'D HAVE TO WORK LIKE 4 HOURS TO BUY THE GOOD DIAPERS THAT DON'T LEAK PEE AND POOP OUT EVERYWHERE. BY THE WAY, THAT IS A PAIN TO CLEAN UP, ESPECIALLY IF YOU'RE TRYING TO SAVE MONEY, AND YOU PURCHASE GENERIC DIAPERS. I TRIED IT ONCE, AND TOTALLY NOT WORTH IT. MY KID WOKE UP I DON'T KNOW HOW MANY TIMES WITH HIS ENTIRE BED SOAKED WITH PEE. GGGGGGGGRRRRRRRRRROOOOOOOOOOOSSSSSSSSSSSSS. 

Name: cjsims | Date: Jan 6th, 2008 4:36 PM
I really don't hate having a baby, I know it sounds like it. I'm just trying to get her to see the reality of what "mommyhood" is all about. 

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