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Name: jules1968
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hi iam julie ,my daughter is 14 and i have been having problems with her ever since she was 11. I thought her staying out leter than her alotted time was bad ,but then one day she came home drunk. I have had porblems with her stealing from me for the past 6 years but nothing i do seems to work give her money nope she spends that and then steals more from me . Well i thought hey maybe she will grow out of it but no it got worse . She started shop lifting she got caught once but they just banned her from the shop for a year. she put the blame on her friends . however she started having troulbe at school getting into fights with girls and getting in with a crowed that seem to stay out till they wanted drink , smoke and have boyfriends that were much to old for then ie 18 ,19 which concerned me .So we sat down to talk and decided that we would move baring in mind i have younger child to at school who was up rooted so the older one could have new start . Or so i thought but now things are much worse she has been having sex with alsorts of boys , staying out out all night running off every time police bring her back. Now she has become very abusive to me and my younger child she swears at us all the time has even started hitting me but just slaps. she is agressive to younger sister pinches and punches her and calls her all the names under the sun ., Have got social services in volved but that dose not seem to help i just want her out of my house ,actually we rent and have had our lease ened because of her and her friends . She has not been to school for two weeks
and i have walked her to school today with her shouting a buse at me all the way she has threatened to case as much trouble in school today so they kick her out and says she is not coming home and if i do make come back by calling the police the next time they bring her back she will stab me and her sister . please need help .
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Name: mother2five | Date: May 1st, 2007 5:08 PM
omg have her arrested, why are no charges being brought against her? She needs some serious help, have you considered putting her in a girls school, for troubled youth? 

Name: M | Date: May 1st, 2007 6:06 PM
She sounds like she needs some very serious intervention. Home for troubled youth or a detention center. This girl needs some tough love quick! 

Name: swiss1miss | Date: May 1st, 2007 9:09 PM
The thing is that you should have set her straight when she was 11, but its not too late. I know this might sound very abusive, but the next time she comes with her crap have some thing where you can knock some sense in her tell her you are ready for her and bust her ass.
Trust me she will understand.
Good luck Julie 

Name: tartbones | Date: Jun 15th, 2007 4:23 PM
seriosly? get her help of any kind, you should google " britains youngest mother "

sounds like you're daughter right there. 

Name: Jamesh | Date: Jun 15th, 2007 9:33 PM
Your daughter clearly has the flu. This would explain her actions. I recommend fresh air, exercise and the policy of containment. You see your daughter has been taken over by TINY TINY TINY communist insurgents. DON'T WORRY. Simply napalm her and conduct a clandestine war against her regime. Then launch Operation Pedro Pan. 

Name: braceface | Date: Jun 19th, 2007 3:06 PM
Well, i say that you should send her somewhere like boot camp, i know that seems harsh but usally that will help her. When she returns home she probably will be grateful to you. Good luck! 

Name: Wrathedragon | Date: Jul 29th, 2007 3:01 PM
omfg...........DID ANY OF YOUR FORGET ABOUT PARENTING FOR A FLIPPING SECOND?!?!?!?!remember when you were a kid u wanted to go out late do what you want so on so on....and the more your parents tried to stop u more u wanted to do it...EVENTUALY SHE WILL STOP THE COPS DONT HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!god u poeeple need more therapy then the kid does

Emo 4 Life 

Name: jess_dudley | Date: Aug 3rd, 2007 11:55 AM
HEY jules
i used to be just like your daughter when i was here age. my mother got so feed up she just let me do what ever i wanted to do and i soon realised that i needed boundaries and i soon started to follow the rules. maybe you should just let her do whatever until she realises that thats no life. trust me it works. 

Name: ..RoSey.. | Date: Aug 8th, 2007 4:24 PM
Wrathedragon you have got to be the dumbest idiot on this forum..
and you WONT be telling them they can do whatever they want either.
Dont come here and yell at worried mothers.. BECAUSE YOU ARNT 1. 

Name: CutsBruises | Date: Aug 29th, 2007 11:58 PM
a big parenting thing lock her in a room make her watch high school musical over and over and over and over again
till she apologises.. thatll destroy her spirit MWAHAHAHAH 

Name: hateitall | Date: Aug 30th, 2007 7:06 AM
Okay this case calls for tough love, you need to get her into wither some sort of program like anger management or you need to get her shaken up by arresting her next time she touches you, that is illegal and ive have friends who have called the cops on they;re children when stuff like this happens, and it turns them around, your daughter is lelarning young to walk all over you and you cant let this get any further, stop letting her go out, ground her, give her chores and when she acts out again, have her arrested, if she comes home drunk, call the cops on her and her friends ban her from her friends, my advice sounds terrible but it better than a std, or getting killed. you need to help her only you can help her. 

Name: Adamsdad | Date: Oct 30th, 2007 7:47 PM
Does your daughter have any history of oppositional defiance or always wanting to be the centre of attention. If you can get her calm try to get her to see a specialist, and be tested. It may just be that she is a problem child, or she could possibly have something like ODD and need real help. If nothing else it may help her in some small way. 

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