Need advice, I have a 17 year old son whom I kicked out of the house 4 days ago because of skipping school, lieing about where he's been, where he's going, and I believe is doing drugs and drinking alcohol. He swears to me that he isn't doing drugs and acts so totally shocked that I would even accuse him of this. I then get pissed because I feel so sure that he is doing drugs. He has had text messages on his phone that talk about being "so high" that he can't think straight. Other messages that say, "hurry and get here, I'm about to light a bowl." I'm not an idiot. I know these are sure signs that he is or has done drugs. And then I'm even more mad when I confront him on it, especially when I think he is amped out, and he gets mad at me for accussing him.
Right now I am so mad from just talking about it. He doesn't really have any where to go. Right now he is at friends house. As far as I'm concerned at this point , none of his friends are worth a shit. I used to like all of his friends. They have always been welcome at our house. Now I don't trust any of them. Tonight he is mostly mad at me because he IM'd me and asked for his debit card back so that he could get some of his money from the bank. I don't know what to do. It is his money, but the account has my name on it and I can't take the chance of him overdrawing the account. I also don't want him to have any money in case he is planning to buy drugs or alcohol with it. He says that he needs money to eat but anymore I don't know what to believe.
I need some advice. Part of me says what kind of mother would kick there own son out of the house into the cold? The other side of me says that I can't allow him to live here when we have set the rules and he refuses to live by them. ↓
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