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Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Aug 2nd, 2006 5:47 PM
Fish usually die due to poor water quality. 

Name: bladerunnerx16 | Date: Aug 10th, 2006 12:36 AM
Cats are cool but there a pain in the ass when they rip up your furniture and walls and basically everything in the house with their claws. Dogs arent so destructive after their teeth grow in. 

Name: lindalu | Date: Aug 10th, 2006 1:29 AM
To Unknown, Yes spaying and nutering is important! I had a pet rat and had him nutered. 

Name: staceykelley | Date: Aug 21st, 2006 10:44 PM
you know i didnt like dogs until i got the right one
he s my best friend + the 2 cats we rescued
and the hampster and the fish
can you believe we wernt pet people 

Name: jay ross | Date: Sep 3rd, 2006 5:15 PM
i don`t like my sister`s they always make me mad. 

Name: jay ross | Date: Sep 3rd, 2006 5:16 PM
is anyone on line 


Name: jay ross | Date: Sep 3rd, 2006 5:17 PM
hey anyone on line 

Name: lindalu | Date: Sep 3rd, 2006 9:11 PM
Jay what kind of dog does your sister have and what does he do that makes you mad? 

Name: lindalu | Date: Sep 3rd, 2006 9:13 PM
Im sorry! Jay Ross. 

Name: ashame | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 10:24 AM
ok sneezy the thing your not a bad person but it seens you mom is trying to get you to like animals and to love them as much as she dos and you should really try to settal with animals and i think you should tell your mom to clarm down with the animals and try to come round the promble and bye some air freshers and it should block the smell
good luck sneezy 

Name: scare | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 10:36 AM
ok i going to tell you some thing that i never told any before you my mom and dad always go out every night and leave me and my brother and sister all alone and don't come back normaly the next day my littlie is only five and littlie brother is eight and i am only coming up to sixteen but i have been taking care of them since they were born my littlie brother keeps calling me mom and my littie sister hates me for what my mom and dad dose when they do come back they always have to a fright and it always end up someone getting hurt mosty me trying to stop it a few times i even been push out and i have to go and sleep around one of me mate house even when my mom is there she alway starts on me calling me name while i clean up the mess around the house and she also starts hitting me for no reson it the same thing with my dad and my littie sister is taking after my mom and my littlie brother starts crying when i mom and dad starts on each other or me and there nothing i can do
i feel every day of my life is getting worse and i feel if they hate me by even living all i want to do is just get away from this but i can't and even if i did i can't leave my littlie brother
please help me what should i do
scare 

Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 11:15 AM
There is no way that you should be having to cope with this on your own. Your parents are breaking the law by what they're doing. You could call Social Services - you don't have to give your name - pretend you're a neighbour who's found out what's going on and decided to report it. Or you could try to find someone to talk to about it - do you have any teachers, friends' parents etc. whom you could confide in?

Have you talked to your parents about this problem? Don't they care in any way about you and your siblings?

They shouldn't be forcing you to live like this. Please try to find a Helpline number that you can call for support. In the UK we have Childline - if you're in the US there must be something like this for young people to turn to. 

Name: lindalu | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 11:39 AM
Scare, I trully know how you feel sweetie! Growing up I had to deal with a lot of the same things you talk about. It is scary and you dont know what to do! you would like to report youre parents, but they are your parents and even though they are making your life missrible, you still love them! you dont want to hurt them. I do think despite them beeing your parents you should report them, if you dont want to it your self, then talk to a school counselor. Tell them what is happening, You cant live this way nor should your siblings have to. you will be grown enough in a couple years where you will be able to go on, out of the houe. Your sister & brother will still be there, they will not be of age to move for several years. Really sweetie you have to do some thing befor the situation worsens! 

Name: starsharers | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 12:07 PM
Hi Scare I just read your post and I want you to know that you have legitimate concerns. Your well being and your sister and brother's well being. Below is the Kids Help Phone number and website. The number is 1-800-668-6868 and the web address is http://www.kidshelpphone.ca/en/ Please contact them. This is Canadian but you can get the American one too from the site I think. Either way if you can't there should be someone there to refer to to the American site. Where are you located? Hugs and everything. You are a very good Sister and I want you to know that and where you go the kids should go too. Your parents don't seem responsible enough to have you all because they arent there for you. They are mad and blaming you for their mistakes. Please go to that website as there are other kids there too to talk to as well and counsellors. Take care and I am praying for your family. 

Name: scare | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 9:14 AM
thank you all i will try and do what each other things you said thank you for careing 

Name: scare | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 9:20 AM
i didn't know there was such good people who want to heard my life thank you for even reading my life it a good feeling i got by telling you because i have never told any one before not even my best mates thank you 

Name: understanding | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 9:39 AM
i know how you feel scare i been through it as much as you the only thing you can do is try the thingd that other have say to you and keep in there for you littlie brother and sister some how it will be ok if you just wait something will happen ok sweetie it will be fine p.s tell us if any thing els happens ok 

Name: scare | Date: Sep 15th, 2006 1:16 PM
hi everyone just to tell you that i told a few teachers at my school and i trying to get to talk to my friends the teachers in my school had a meeting with me told me at the end they will look in to it and if what i say is all true they will take it to the higher ups people hoply every thing will go fine for me and my littlie brother and sister but i haven't told my mom and dad any thing yet i ll scare they might hurt before the school can do anything about it do you think i over re-acting 

Name: starsharers | Date: Sep 15th, 2006 1:42 PM
No you are not over reacting. You shouldnt tell your parents anythng because they will just cover everything up. Keep it silent and they will get caught being out all night not watching you and the other kids. Also you have every right to have your well being taken care of. Same with your siblings. It is wrong to go out all night and ignore your kids. Does your parents sleep all day? Who takes care of the little kids during the day when there is no school? You? What if you werent there? Do they leave the 5 and 8 year old alone when you are not there? 

Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Sep 15th, 2006 7:08 PM
You have done the right thing and you're very brave. You are acting more responsibly towards your siblings than your parents. They should be ashamed of themselves. 

Name: linda | Date: Sep 17th, 2006 7:49 PM
well it's not relly you.Althoughyou shouldn't right off the bat mention you don't like dogs.most people see dogs as social animals and cats as solem.but you said you liked cats as long as their not yours,I also think that since you sound sort of allergic to them it isnt your fault!!!And good choice of fish and for betta care I recomend Bettatalk.com 

Name: Pattyjb | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 6:44 AM
For any real cat lovers out there, anybody wanna 8 year old cat. He is pure blck domestic short haired... some folks like dogs some like cats some don't like either, to each his own big deal. This one is named Inky and he has all his claws, he is an indoor outdoor cat. Interested, [email protected] 

Name: dummie | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 8:19 AM
hi my name is dummie and i can't understand why everyone said i can do something what i can in the end i end up hurting myself and i tell myself i won't do it but i end up still doing something i don't want to do by being push by my best mates
and i don't t want my mates thinking i'm a loser
and right now i don't want them to do something els to me
i is getting really scarely by they are starting to talk about drugs 

Name: dummie | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 8:22 AM
what should i do
has anyone be through what i going through right now? 

Name: atomic snowflake | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 12:00 PM
Well, you will be a dummie if you start getting into drugs just to keep your friends happy. What you are facing is called Peer Pressure and it's seen off plenty of people!

You should try to get some distance between yourself and these so-called friends (losers). Take some time to yourself and be strong in your own mind as to how you want to live your life. If you let these people wreck your life now then you'll be facing adulthood with no kind of future. These people aren't going to matter in 5, 10, 15 years!

Leave them to their drug abuse and start to find new people to hang out with.

I came across one girl that I used to go to school with a few years ago and she had really messed things up for herself. No job or education, loads of illegitimate kids, dingy flat etc.

You're not a loser, but you will be if you do what these people want you to do !!!! If they think it's so great then let them do it and see how far it gets them. They're blackmailing you - dump them as fast as you can! 

Name: funny monkey girl | Date: Oct 2nd, 2006 5:41 PM
hi 

Name: FrazzledMom | Date: Oct 5th, 2006 2:33 PM
I'm in agreement with you sneezy. Its our God given right to not like dogs, just like some people don't like steak or chicken, we don't like dogs! My new husband came with a dog and I wasn't too happy about it. Although she is a very good dog, the whole basement smells like "DOG" and there is hair everywhere and it grosses me out. Everytime we open the side door to come into our house, that's ALL I smell is "DOG!" So, now for sure when people come over, I'm sure that's the first thing they smell too, and its embarassing. I use the carpet deoderizers etc. but it only works for a day or so, then back to the God awful Dog Smell! Well that's my opinon on it.. i"m with you sneezy. 

Name: sad | Date: Oct 11th, 2006 10:56 AM
i am really sad and it seens like you all have propmblems and i was thinking that you can help me 

Name: ruiz | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 4:47 PM
hi 

Name: candy | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 6:16 PM
no, your not a bad person for not likeing dogs. I know alot of people that dislike animals for the same reason and I don't think any less of them. I thinks its wrong when someone talks down to another because they don't like this animal or that one. 

Name: Tiffany_SPCA | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 7:48 PM
Everyone is entitled to their own opinions. I'm not mad. You're not telling everyone else that THEY shouldn't own an animal... you're just expressing your own opinion about your own household and I feel that that is perfectly alright. 

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