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Name: Calebsdaddy09

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My son is 2 1/2. His mom left both of us when he was 3 1/2 months. She is not in his life. He has no idea what having a mommy is like. I'm worried that when he's older he will resent me for him not having a mom, or a mother figure around. I am a wonderful daddy to him and he is a sweet, smart, healthy 2 year old. What can I do to stop worrying so much that he will resent me for his mom not wanting to be a part of his life? ↓

Name: Paige | Date: Oct 5th, 2011 7:18 PM

I'm 19 with a little baby. I have been going throw tons of web sits trying to see what a good father is like for a young child. I don't know if my advice is good but, as long as you do the best you can right now and show him all the love and support through out his life I think he will be just fine. I understand being worried I'm worried about my son too not having a father figure, but I know that he has his uncle, and grandpa around him for role models. Maybe for your situation it would be a good idea to also have him around his aunt or grandma alot would give him that mother figure feel. My email at [email protected] ↑

Name: Sinlgemommy22 | Date: Oct 6th, 2011 7:50 PM

just show him and give him all the love you can and thats all you can do. he wont resent you because he doesn't understand the situation, but build a strong bond and make it so that he see's his daddy is the best and you two guys are strong and don't need a mommy right now. ↑

Name: maybe i can help | Date: Oct 24th, 2011 4:46 AM

Email me [email protected] ↑