|Name: Christina | Date: Oct 28th, 2008 3:04 AM
|Stop thinking about yourself in terms of being alone. You are not alone. You have a wonderful child that is depening on you to make the right decisions for the both of you. Asking an abusive alcoholic, back into both of your lives is not the right decision and I think you know that.
Surround yourself with good friends and family- ones that will respect your situation and not depend on you to be a "party friend"- these are a dime a dozen people who don't really care about you. Go to the local gym, or communitiy club. Try online dating- there are pleanlty of men out there. Don't waste your time looking to the past- look ahead to your future and realize you are incontrol of YOUR actions. Don't let your situation determine or change who you are- fight because the people you look for are there, maybe you are just looking in the wrong place and for the wrong reasons.
(ps i'm a single mom too fighting this battle everyday and winning) ↑
|Name: Lauren | Date: Oct 28th, 2008 10:21 AM
|Thank you to all of you for your advice and don't worry i didn't take him back. Actually at the moment we are taking things through lawyers and now court, its hard but i will fight for my son. I am still lonely but i am happy and i carry on every day for my son because he is the one who needs me. Thanks again ↑
|Name: jenny | Date: Oct 31st, 2008 2:18 AM
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|Name: A FRIEND! | Date: Nov 5th, 2008 10:56 AM
|Name: lovingyouforever | Date: Nov 6th, 2008 8:56 AM
|Well,,,You can go singleparentloving.com meet some other single parent. That's good single parent community. A lot of singles found their love there. I believe you will get what you want there. Good luck ! ↑
|Name: rizaldude78trust | Date: Nov 11th, 2008 11:14 PM
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|Name: Mario | Date: Dec 23rd, 2008 11:56 PM
|i think you are a super mother to have done that for your child and i comend you for it and as far as asking that looser back into your lives you and your babe if hes doing what you say then dont do it your better than that and it wont be good gor your baby either growing up in that envirament he sounds a right looser to me you diserve better and there is guys out there that do date women with cildren there is nothing wrong with that in my opinion i did it myself with my wife cough cough xwife to be im getting devorced , great crimbo prezzi this is for me she went on a girly holl then came back and said she wanted a divorce and to sell the house i was stunned as we were getting on great in our relationship so if i got the chance to date a women again it wouldnt matter to me if she had a child it would just be a bonus i think be great to here from you ↑
|Name: FROM : PRINCESS SANDRA JOANNSO | Date: Apr 3rd, 2009 12:41 PM
|FROM : PRINCESS SANDRA JOANNSON
PLEASE REPLY TO THIS MY DIRECT EMAIL ([email protected] )
I AM PRINCESS SANDRA JOANNSON.THE ONLY DAUGHTER OF LATE KING AND QUEEN. EVANS EDWARD JOANNSON.OF MBANO VILLAGE IN TOGO.
PLEASE DEAREST, LET US REASON TOGETHER AND HAVE TRUST IN GOD, I AM SEEKING YOUR ATTENTION TO HELP ME TRANSFER MY INHERITANCE MONEY THE SUM OF($2.3,000,000,00 US DOLLARS)TWO MILLION THREE HUNDRED THOUSAND UNITED STATE AMERICAN DOLLARS. INTO
YOUR ACCOUNT.PLEASE IT IS MORE THAN URGENT BECAUSE OF MY LIFE IS IN DANGER.
DEAREST, I AM WILLING TO COMPENSAT YOU FOR YOUR EFFORT AFTER THE SUCCESSFUL TRANSFER OF MY INHERITANCE MONEY INTO YOUR ACCOUNT OVERSEAS.
YOURS IN GOD LOVE
PRINCESS SANDRA JOANNSON ↑
|Name: Kyle | Date: Apr 5th, 2009 11:58 PM
|Hello there i am a guy so i know about what you are saying i dont have any kids right now but i would love a son but ya i know what you are going though becuse my friend she has a son and thats what her ex did to her so if you want someone to talk to email me at [email protected] ↑
|Name: nifty | Date: Apr 17th, 2009 1:17 AM
|Name: SingleOCMommy | Date: Jul 4th, 2009 1:40 AM
|I know how you feel... I am just finishing up my divorce right now... and I have an almost 4 year old, a 2-1/2 year old, an almost 1-1/2 year old and am expecting my 4th daughter next month! So I will have 4 under 4 years old... crazy, I know! Divorcing my husband who verbally abused me and in the end admitted me just didn't love me as much as I loved him, just finished (well, as finished as it could ever be) a huge 7 month long custody battle from Hell (thankfully, I won full physical custody - he gets visitation every other weekend with them)... well... needless to say, I feel like I am going to be alone forever. And I probably will be... I mean, who would intentionally tie themselves to a 23 year old girl with 4 kids??? Ugh. I love my girls and wouldn't change a THING for ANYTHING. But it sure is lonely sometimes!!! Any other single moms out there wanna get together sometime, I live in Orange County, California. I, like many of you, lost 99% of my friends in my situation... ↑
|Name: Rachel | Date: Jul 12th, 2009 7:14 AM
|I am 23 years old and have 3 children with my 4th due next month (all little girls)... recently divorced... I feel the SAME WAY. Common sense tells me I won't find a new man with 4 children under 4 years old... and at least I have them to focus on (they ARE my world)... but it sure does get lonely. Especially that hollow feeling when I KNOW I will more than likely be single forever. ↑
|Name: Casey | Date: Jul 16th, 2009 8:44 PM
|I found God and have found all the comfort I need in Him. My daughter is now 6 and I am still a single mom, and a happy one! ↑
|Name: ashleigh | Date: Jul 28th, 2009 11:33 AM
|want to have sex with older women ↑
|Name: Ibrahim | Date: Aug 5th, 2009 10:09 AM
|I UNDERSTAND YOUR PLEA BUT IF YOU CARE FOR A MAN WHO CARES ABOUT YOU FEELING AND AND HAS YOU IN HEART BUT NOT IN YOUR AREA DO CONTACT ME ([email protected]) ↑
|Name: Moses | Date: Sep 14th, 2009 8:59 PM
Never tauch fire again.
Please, find somebody else that will respect you the way you are, and your lovely son.
May God bless you.
[email protected] ↑
|Name: leaky | Date: Sep 15th, 2009 12:10 AM
|Name: Floyd A. Jenkins | Date: Oct 11th, 2009 5:05 PM
|It Is Hard For Ever One Now Days Taking Some Back Is Not The Anser And You Are Looking In The Wrong Place My Wife & I Are Good People And Understand Whot You Are Going Through Here Is My E-Mail Address [email protected] ↑
|Name: johnny holguin | Date: Oct 16th, 2009 1:12 AM
|Name: Q-vo | Date: Oct 16th, 2009 1:15 AM
|just looking at the web site i love a lady for who she is inside ↑
|Name: Carla | Date: Nov 11th, 2009 6:58 PM
|Hi lauren i no exactly how you feel im in the same situtain nly im pregnant again to the loser i had my first child to but im confident i can do this alone so please think of your son do you really want man like that around your son ↑
|Name: Rachealvelvet | Date: Nov 14th, 2009 6:28 PM
|I'm Racheal and I'm a hard working woman,Which I enjoyed very much.i have a daughter which I am very proud of and love her very much.My daughter is 8 by age...I work with a International charity donation for world orphanage Voluntary organization who is in collaboration with UNICEF, WHO U SAID and a lot of Organization who render hopes and fund and other materials things for people that are not having any subconscious of hope anymore because the poverty level is really hard in there country and states wherever they might be in the whole wide world. ↑
|Name: just us | Date: Nov 18th, 2009 10:17 PM
|i will soon be single, i already feel single and evry week i waited her my hub to come and never did so most of the time i was alone, i feel like is better to be alone than to have compay to treat u bad and problems all the time, it is hard, but i know that communication with other is good. i also stopped talking to my friend about 10 yrs ago and now have non, just sisters. but its not the same can not be bothering them all the time.. all we need is morral support from other going or have gone through the same thing, we can not be quiet alone for a long time B/C this will stess us talk, stay BUSSSY this what will make you mind forget him as there is someone better out there who is waiting for someone nice like us we just need to be patient do not isolate youself in the dark corner look at the light, that is something i will be doing soon and yes mine also chooses his drinking. feel free to talk back ↑
|Name: mayzwan rvera | Date: Dec 2nd, 2009 2:59 PM
|i just wnna have friends ↑
|Name: eilleen | Date: Dec 8th, 2009 12:20 AM
|i am a single mom of 2. single for 7 years now. and am only 30 .... ↑
|Name: leigha | Date: Dec 24th, 2009 5:00 AM
|i cant say im a single mom now but i was. than i met a wonderfull man named randy. at the time i had 2 children. 3 and 2 years old. now we have a total of 4 children... 7 years 6 years and now a 3 year old and the baby will be 2 in april.. so yes there are good men out there......but make shure you dont meet him in a bar... ↑
|Name: jcountry | Date: Dec 25th, 2009 5:18 AM
|u can feel better with the right motivation ↑
|Name: Melody | Date: Dec 26th, 2009 1:57 PM
|I'm a single mom and I can relate to you feeling lonely. I find it is hard for me to date because I work full time and go to school. I will start dating soon when I have more time to. I advise you don't let the baby's daddy back into the picture if he is drinking and using verbal abuse. Sometimes it is best to be alone than to have more drama in your life. ↑
|Name: mannny | Date: Jan 4th, 2010 6:32 AM
|I think you made a right choice by leaving your friend cause if you think about it there not really your friends. if they were they would support you in any way. And you shouldn't care what anyone think specially when it comes to your son.and u shouldn't put up with your babys daddy your very young and will have some better.and I always say that all woman should be treated like queens no matter what. I bet you will find good friends and a good man just keep your head up.and just be patient the suffering will end.if you ever want to chat hit me up [email protected] ↑
|Name: leeandra | Date: Jan 9th, 2010 12:31 AM
|awwwwwwwwwww lauren i am in the same position as you i feel so lonely at nights my baby daddy i not around i don't even know where he is right now her refuse to take part in her life and my friends are the same at nights i cry myself to sleep asking god to send me the right person for my daughter and i i am happy cause i love her so much but a part of me is missing ↑
|Name: m.j | Date: Jan 11th, 2010 7:22 PM
|hey girl i'm 0 with a little boy who is 2and a half 3 in april i was with his father for 5 years i don everything 4 him i lost alot of friends and i had ta grow up really fast we lived together and i don everything i worked cooked cleaned and alwasys had the baby i thought tat was my life i didn't think any other lad would ever look at me so i stayed with him even though i was unhappy until i couldn't do it anymore i put him out and now i'm happy with a lovely new boyfriend it was hard but well worth it its hard but if i done it you can 2 pick yourself up and get out and enjoy yourself ↑