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Name: Shannonsmeltzer

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I am a 21 year old women who is 20 weeks pregnant today. Last Feb. 18th I left my husband for his best friend. I know that is a horrible thing and makes me a horrible person. In March I found out I was pregnant. And in May I came home to my x-husband to try and work things out. But now I have a issue because I dont know who the babies daddy is. I am praying it is my x-husbands, because we still love each other more then anything. But the other guy is still harassing me and trying to say it is his baby no matter what and he does not want this baby around my x-husband. What do I do? I feel lost and scared. This is my first pregnancy, and every time I feel the baby move, I start to wonder who is the daddy? Someone please help me! ↓

Name: KELLY M | Date: Jul 20th, 2006 1:47 AM

WHAT DOES UR EX HUSBAND SAY ABOUT THE BABY . ↑

Name: Shannonsmeltzer | Date: Jul 20th, 2006 4:21 PM

My x-husband is up in the air about the baby. He has never wanted kids. And it has always been my dream to have children. So he is a little freaked out. ↑

Name: spankyx0711 | Date: Jul 21st, 2006 7:03 AM

hi shannon. i know exactly what you're going through. my boyfriend and i were monogamous with eachother for about a year until we really had a "falling out". during that time period we decided it was best to go on a break. according to my doctor, i conceived on april 23. my boyfriend and i had gotten back together on april 17. he admitted to me then that he had slept with someone else while we were on a break, so as to sort of "get even", i know how immature of me, i slept with someone else on april 29. i had sex with one other man besides my boyfriend, just once. i dont remember much of it, because i was drunk and had taken prescription pain killers. but the other man claims we didnt use a condom but he didn't "get there". as for my boyfriend and i, he would always "finish" inside of me". but that 5 days between the time that i conceived and the time that i cheated is too close for comfort. after i give birth, i plan on my child under going a paternity test. i just HAVE to know. i hope now you dont feel like you're going through this alone. good luck. ↑

Name: Shannonsmeltzer | Date: Jul 22nd, 2006 3:45 PM

Thank you Spankyx0711. I plan on getting a paternity test as soon as the baby is born also. It is just a mess to wait around for that time. Not knowing if my x-husband is gonna stick around after this baby is born, scares me. Even though the other guy says he will be there no matter what. I still love my x-husband and I just made a lot of mistakes. I feel stupid and so much more, if only there was a time machine.lol ↑