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I dont know what to do, I caught my daughter giving her friend a blowjob for the second time. And I listened to them talking one day in her room and i'm not sure if i heard right but they made a bet and my daughter lost and her punishment is to give this boy oral sex for 1 month. I need help, how do i talk to my daughter about this, it has been 2 weeks since i heard that conversation and i'm not home when she gets home from school so i dont know what goes on in the house during that time. ↓
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| Name: magicmamma | Date: Mar 10th, 2008 5:16 AM |
Talk about a tough situation!!! I'd say you have to dive in and just ask her about it. I don't know that there is an easy way, but remain calm and non-judgemental. If she thinks you're judging her she'll close up and be painfully more embarassed than she probably already is.
I'd say the important thing is to find out how *she* feels. Is she humiliated by giving bjs? Does she like it? Maybe she's doing it because she's trying to prove something? By finding out her feelings, you can gently guide her in a healthy direction, including making sure she is taking precautions against STDs. Remind her about condoms and share with her some graphic pictures of common STDs to encourage her to be be safe. Remind her that speaking openly about these things with her sexual partners is important and suggest to her that he get tested.
It's embarassing, and you most likely don't want her doing it at all, but the only way to get to *that* conversation is to calmly find out how she feels about things and remind her that you are always there for her to confide in.
And don't wait a second longer to have this talk! One of my casual friends in highschool got herpes from her very first sleeping partner who failed to tell her he had it. She mentioned it to me one day and boy was I glad because I'd fallen for the same guy and was already imagining what it would be like to have sex with him. It killed me to find out he was scandalous enough to hold that information from her. But I was glad to know because then I could make an informed decision. I dumped him. Good luck! ↑ |
| Name: lindalu | Date: Mar 10th, 2008 9:22 PM |
| How old is your daughter? ↑ |
| Name: lorna | Date: Mar 13th, 2008 9:45 AM |
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| Name: Jason | Date: Apr 6th, 2008 2:48 PM |
| If I ever caught my daughter doing that she would be over my lap faster than she could think. ↑ |
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| Name: bviebhi. | Date: Mar 23rd, 2010 2:33 PM |
| Put her on lockdown like my mom did to me, lock her windows no nothing have someone watch her when she gets home from school, don't tell her why cuz she'll know and then you can talk about it, this was done to me for months for sneeking out. =/ ↑ |
| Name: Doug | Date: Mar 27th, 2010 1:45 PM |
| Im a 45 year old dad w 2 daughters. One 20 w a 2 year old and a 15 year old living w me. this world sucks. you already know what goes on while your at work. all you can do is install your beliefs and morals and hope they take hold one day. the young r getting wilder cause society's morals r gone. good luck. i caught my oldest daughter doin it and told her boyfriend dont ever let me catch them again or hes meat. they were more discreet then, but Im a man ↑ |
| Name: Andy | Date: Apr 12th, 2010 12:22 PM |
| dont consider meddling into their sexlife. ↑ |
| Name: KC1420 | Date: Apr 12th, 2010 8:57 PM |
| do not allow her to see that boy...period!! ↑ |
| Name: Gail | Date: Feb 16th, 2013 11:41 AM |
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