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Name: Meg
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Hi! I'm Meg, My husband moved out over 2 years ago while our little one was only 18 mo. old. We had major communication and irreconciable differences that eventually led me into an affair. I thought I loved that man but realized that he told me things that I needed to hear in order to get me in the sack. I made alot of mistakes in blaming him for everything that went wrong but now realize that I was out of my wits. Now that I am trying to get my life back in order and make good decisions for myself and my daughter, I'm left to raise this child through joint custody. It has been painful, yet I try to stay positive. I just thought that if anyone needs a friend in a similar situation, send me a message. Thanks!
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Name: Chickenlegs | Date: May 6th, 2009 2:54 AM
I had a similar incident but it's been a year and a half and it's just getting worse with my ex. I really need someone to talk to. 

Name: Ann76 | Date: Jun 18th, 2009 4:10 AM
I am going through something very similar. My ex and I were having problems for or a while, we went through counseling and everything only for me to find out afterwards that he was cheating on me. I tried to get past it but couldn't. Then I had what I now call a "lost my mind" moment. I began an affair with and old flame from high school (who had a girlfriend) for a year and a half until I finally left and then got a divorce. This is with a 3 year old daughter at home. I kept telling myself that she didn't need to grow up in a loveless home. So now I am still with the guy from highschool and with a new baby and things are not going well. I am miserable trying to keep my head up for my two little ones. I look back over the past few years of my life and wonder what I could have possibly been thinking....I feel as though I literally lost my mind for a while and now I am having to live with the consequences. 

Name: Melanie | Date: Jun 18th, 2009 10:46 AM
are you in Australia or prob America like everyone else on here?
I have a 10 yr old daughter Katie and my man is long gone!
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Name: kristy | Date: Apr 19th, 2010 8:19 PM
I was married for 11 yrs. We have one child together. I also have joint custody. We met in high school in 1993. We where high school sweet hearts. I thought we where going to be together forever. We got married in 1997. He knew when i met him. That i had a severe lung disease. We waited 5 yrs to have our son. He started cheating on me when our son was 6 months old. Then in 2005 i had major surgery. My cousic stayed with me durrring my recovery. Unknow to me . She was also having sex with my husband in our house. My cousin had a son and my husband , her, our son would come to visit m. They would only stay a few minutes. I was on so much medication. My family was noticing how close they where with each other. I couldn't beleive it. I was dening it . My husband wouldn't do something like that to our family. My cousin would come to the hospital and tell me over and over again. If something happens to me. I will take care of the family for you .
Then their was Becky from Fast Stop. He would go to that store to purchaase coffee , gas, cigars. Ever other day. She would come over and eat , sit on our boat and talk to him for hours on end.
Finally their was lady he met on the commuter bus. And he is still with her to this day! They built a house together in Virgina!
I just find it very hard to move on. When my ex has our son . I just get so depressed. I keep trying to find something to do! I'am trying to find some guy just to talk too!!!! But i live in Southern Maryland!!!! And i feel so allow.
My ex has told our son when he turns 12. That he is moving in with him. So how would a child know that when you are in middle school. You are 12 yrs old. unless he was told by someone. One yr he came home from his Chrismas visit . That Lori my ex girlfreind was his real mother!
Write me back if you want.

Name: Anneesha | Date: Sep 9th, 2011 7:27 PM
Hi all I have an 11 month old and he is simply my life. My husband and I are really not agreeing and he has decided that a divorce is the only way. I am scared frustrated and can't utter the thought of having my son away from me (joint custody).......i am currenlty hunting for a lawyer and really confused...friends help but it doesn't fill the void. If god answers prayers did he hear mine? 

Name: Felicia | Date: Jan 6th, 2012 2:37 PM
Would love to talk about this more...is there a way to privately discuss? 

Name: lacey | Date: Apr 29th, 2012 3:00 AM
I'm kinds in the same boat 

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