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Name: Denise

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I am not pregnant my daughter is. She is now 7 weeks and a real mess. She had a realationship 2 years with one fellow and left him in July, Met another and.... I know that the baby is the second fellows and he wants to be there for her and tells her he loves her and so on. My daughter after finding out she was pregnant has decided that maybe she has made a mistake and wants the first fellow even though he cheated and is 200 km away with no steady income... The dad on the other hand is great, solid career, was good friends with my husband and myself. She is so irrational and fight with me even though I tell her the choice is hers to make. She pushes the dad as hard as possible and he is still there. she does not know if she has feelings for him. I am so confused at this point I don't lnow what to do to help her. She says I am her support but she left town and has demanded I not talk with the dad. She showed so much attention to him and told me she loved him. WHAT is going on I do not remember being this unstable during my pregnancy. Is she going to come arround? I have no idea and I want to be there for her but she pushes me away.
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Name: aprillee18 | Date: Sep 23rd, 2006 8:11 PM

well, denise, ihavent gone thru anything like this, but i have an older sister who wouldnt want t o see her baby"s daddy while she was pregnant and now she doesnt want for him to leave her. maybe its just the pregnancy hopefully shell realize at the end that shell be better with her baby's daddy. what does the first boyfriend think? does he want to be responsible for her baby? well, good luck. april ↑

Name: Denise | Date: Sep 23rd, 2006 9:50 PM

Thank April. When I spoke with the old one he did not think that he could watch my daughters belly grow with someone elses baby nor raise it the same. ↑