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Name: Justmom

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I am a single mom... I have a four yo and one on th way... Now... I slept with a guy i beleive RIGHT after my period came or right before it came either one... he pulled out all the time... Then i was with another guy who i have been seeing on and off for two years. I beleive him to be the dad. We slept together on the 6th and i was due to ovulate on the 10th... however my ultrasound is showing that im measuring a bit big.. just a day or two. THEN i slept with my other love on the 13th... I found out hes a HEAVY meth user and lives a very very poor lifestyle... the condom broke with him...

Who do you guys think could be the dad? I am getting a little freaked cause the drug user is starting to make threats... I dont think its the first guy and i beleive its the second guy. but im UBER paranoid..
PLEASE HELP! and dont think bad of me. im a single mom whos lonely... so i have lovers... ↓

Name: To justmom | Date: May 18th, 2006 5:39 PM

Line em up and have bloodtests done,it's the only sure way to know. That sleeping around isn't a very healthy lifestyle you know nor is it a very good role model for your children. You may want to restrain your sex life to just 1 lover. You have kids to think about,you want to be around for them don't you? You could get aids and then your kids wouldn't have their mom anymore.It could happen,think about it. ↑

Name: justmom | Date: May 19th, 2006 12:16 PM

Just to let you know... i didnt know he was back into drugs... and i came here with a question NOT to be blasted. My son has NEVER met any of the guys i have dated or been with. i keep him out of that. but a single mommy has needs too. and im not about to just live like a hermit. anyway thank you for the NON help. and also. as for slutting aroudn i know all these guys. they are friends and they are the ONLY three i have slept with in the past two years. soooo maybe think before you talk...; ↑

Name: to justmom | Date: May 20th, 2006 4:41 AM

Any time you post,you're opening up the gates for any and all comments whether they be good or bad. If you find the comments too much for you to handle then DON"T POST!!! ↑

Name: to justmom | Date: May 20th, 2006 4:54 AM

You kinda are a slut when you have 3 bed buddies and don't know for certain WHO or WHICH ONE babies daddy is!!! That's disgusting too. You claim these guys to be (friends),well,it's no wonder they consider YOU to be their (FRIEND). How many other people are your 3 bed buddies sleeping with? You can bet yours isn't the only bed their hopping into!! Didn't you know that when you have sex with someone ,you are also having it with every person they've been with in the past 7 years???!!! It's TRUE!!! Ask your doctor about it!! ↑

Name: nicole jones | Date: Jun 13th, 2006 3:05 AM

where the hell does "7 years" come from? do stds just suddenly disipate after 7 years? lol... try EVERYBODY EVER, unless they can show you current physical paperwork saying they are free and clear (and even then they could have slept with someone new in the last couple weeks) it's impossible to tell if they have anything......... and to 'justmom' call the police on the drug user if he's threatening you, and if you're pretty regular with your periods i would say guy #2 sounds mostly likely. hope it turns out like you want it to. ↑