I guess you girls rather not say anything about this situation and i don't blame you's because its a tight spot. What can i do but try to get strong and move on right ↑ |
First of all, you better go to the courts and make sure he is going to give you money. I think your best bet would be to granish his wages so you know your child will be provided for. Secondly, why do you think that he is sleeping with your sister. Have you had any clues as to him seeing her? Your sister is your blood, which should be put before any man you will ever have in your life. She is your sister, and I am sure even if she is sleeping with him, then it was probably a mistake on her part, as it was a mistake on yours. Please tell me why you were sleeping with a man who already has a family, I am sure he doesn't care about you as much as you thought, if he did then I am sure he would be with you. You shouldn't "deal with" the fact that he has a family, you sound better than that. What kind of a father is he going to be to your child, he is probably never going to tell anyone the child is his. I think you need to get child support under way....ditch the man, I mean forget about him, then go and talk to your sister. You are a better person than that, to let a man walk all over you. Now that you are pregnant you need to take charge of this situation and stop letting this man walk all over you. Good Luck! ↑ |
Thanks molly-may your words mean alot, and yes have cut all contact with him as for my sis while like they say a females' intuition is usually right. There were things that she didn't explain and if she tried they didn't make sense. The words we exchanged were hurtful and bottom line she didn't nothing o prove me wrong. I as anyother sis would have done anything to prove that nothing happened or was happening. I made a big deal about how i would do everything on my own and therefore won't do the child-support after all i knew what i was getting myself into right. I'm usually smart about things like this what can I do I fell for an ASSHOLE. It happen's to the best of us right. I just could n't do the abortion thing at 3 months. I just have to take it for what it is and move on. Like they say what don't break you makes you stronger well whole situation really did break me so now I just have to get stronger if not for me for my baby. THANKS AGAIN. ↑ |