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Name: Abesgirl
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My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years and we just had a baby 5 months ago. We have so many problems. I love him so much and he tells me he wants to marry me all the time and have more kids, but i'm not sure if he's just telling me what i want to hear or not. He hits me if I make him really mad, but then he will apolojize and tell me he doesn't want to lose me. I try to leave him when he does that, but i love him so much and it is my dream to marry him and have more kids. A lot of times he is very sweet and he tells me he loves me, but I don't really know how he feels. please help me. What should I do?
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Name: Becky | Date: Sep 1st, 2006 12:40 PM
hi
i was in a similar situtaion to you and i had another baby cus i thought every thing would be fine but it got worse he would hit me more then say sorry after and would always blame me i loved him more than any thing but got the courage to leave him and i feel so much better .
becky x 

Name: Lizzi | Date: Sep 1st, 2006 3:14 PM
It sounds to me like you need to do some deep soul searching. You seem to be so uncertain about this mans love for you that I wouldn't recommend having any more children with him until you really know him much better because you shouldn't be this questionable about his true feelings for you. And another thing is he hits you. No man under any circumstance should hit a woman. If he hits you don't think that he won't hit your kid(s) when he gets angry in the heat of the moment because he will. You should recommend to him that he take a course in anger management. If he refuses then you should seriously think about moving on before you have any more kids with this man and definitely before you marry him. 

Name: molly-may | Date: Sep 1st, 2006 4:06 PM
You really need to leave, it just gets worse over time. My cousin just had a baby yesterdat by a man who hits her. She use to call me crying cause he would beat her. I told her to leave him thousands of times, but she never did. She did pack her things and told him she was leaving and she said things got a bit better. She found out she was pregnant at 4 months, it was an accident and she didn't want the baby at first, now she loves him more than anything. I hope that she will open her eyes if he hits her child, same for you, you may put yourself through it, but please never put your child through it. If he hits you, he will hit the child. If you have a good support system then I suggest that you leave. 

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