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Name: Claudia M

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Hi, everyone im 17 and me and my baby daddy been dating for 1yr and 2mnths and hes been there for me up until i was 5mnths and then he just got up and left me. i kinda know why but im not sure thats really the case, his mom and my mom like to be in our ears telling us this and that and he listens to his mom and got tired of her saying everything she wanted and just left me so she can get out his ear.. then come to find out he was dating this one girl. and he said he saw that he couldnt be with no one and then 1 week later he goes out with this girl he cheated on me with back in feb. and then he tells me that he had sex with this one girl he didnt really know that gave it up to him the 2nd day they meet and he says he loves me? now its been 2weeks since i talked to him and his mom been trying to contact me and i dont want to have anything to do with anyone in his family right now so i just stop calling him and looking for him but down deep inside i do want to call him and talk to him and tell him how much i want him back. but im giving him some space cause i went after him 4 times since we brioke up and its only been 1mnt since this happen. WHAT SHOULD I DO? ↓

Name: Lizzi | Date: Oct 6th, 2006 4:20 PM

Continue NOT trying to reach him. All you need to concern yourself with right now is yourself and your unborn baby. If your ex is out chasing skirts then you don't need him in your life. He obviously does NOT want to be responsible for you or this baby,in fact he doesn't even care if he's out having sex with others! I think you should let him go and then once the baby arrives go after child support but still have no relationship with him because he isn't mature enough. You are going to have to grow up fast now and you don't need that immature,irresponsible loser bringing you down. The sooner you get over him the better off you will be. If his mom calls give her a list of things the baby will be needing if she want's to help out but tell her if she is only calling to make trouble then you aren't going to listen. ↑

Name: SadSingleDad | Date: Oct 6th, 2006 11:23 PM

Hey I'm 23 Single father of 2...I'll tell you this because i know alot of guys like that and you don't need them i'm in a similar situation. My childrens mother was no good like him and i miss her but when someone is not a good person when ur kids are involved kick'em to the curb deal with the pain and wait for real love..it hurts but you have to do the right thing for your child I wish you the best of luck .......Dave ↑

Name: saxton_emma | Date: Oct 14th, 2006 9:59 PM

i no how you feel! my boyfriend of 5 years left me wen i was 6 month preg and only 17. he also left me for someone else.
dont chase after him hunni you and your baby deserve better!
if you want to chat then message back and ill leave you my email addy. x ↑

Name: lisa06 | Date: Oct 16th, 2006 1:27 PM

hi my name is lisa and i was 17 when i had my son in march and hes now 6 months and my ex kicked me an our son out if you wanna talk let me know ↑

Name: Zowie | Date: Oct 18th, 2006 1:04 PM

get rid do u really want to bring ur baby up around a person like that. it isnt fair to push hes mum out though she is related to the baby and sounds likw=e she just wants to help. ↑

Name: decembersdiva | Date: Oct 22nd, 2006 4:44 PM

Hey Claudia I'm sorry but after what he did to you I wouldnt take his sorry self back because he did it before meaning he did notice what he had and what he was/ could lose by cheating I can tell he doesnt deserve you its one thing if you talk to him so he can see the baby and pay the child support for for you to take him back I'm goingto say I just wouldnt feel free to write me [email protected] ↑