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Name: Stacey
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Hello. I'm 26 and 26weeks pregnant. Excited, yet father just told me that we are over...hard to adjust to, and wanted to see if anyone would like to chat.
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Name: Leah | Date: Apr 17th, 2006 6:26 PM
HI Stacey i'm here if you wanna talk. 

Name: Jennifer | Date: Apr 17th, 2006 6:29 PM
Stacy i am very sorry to here that. Divorced mother of 3 it is very hard i was married for 14 years and with him for 16 (sience i was 16 im now 32) Alcohol and Drugs were more important. You will servive i promise you if you need to chat email me at [email protected] 

Name: Lisa | Date: Apr 17th, 2006 10:42 PM
Hi Stacey! What a jerk! Maybe your man just got nervous!?Well at least go after him for child support. I bet you probably feel abandoned but instead,try to think of the joy your new baby will bring! You will meet someone new when the time is right but for now just concentrate on the arrival of your new baby.If and when the jerk decides hes made a mistake,you probably will have moved on and wont want him anymore anyway! Good luck with your baby! 

Name: Michael | Date: Apr 17th, 2006 11:50 PM
I a single parent and have been since my son was about 9 months old. My ex chose drugs as well.. My son is now 7 and just made the Ice Hockey Travel team as goalie :) makes me smile everyday and i try to do the same for him. Good luck it is fun not hard. As for child support like lisa said I would tell you not to bother. If he wants to go let him and ithout support he will never want to come and ruin it for you. I refused child support from my ex wife and she will never be able to say " I have been paying for all this time and i deserve Yada yada yada. Good luck it is the best time of life from my experience. if you need to chat my email is [email protected] 

Name: Stacey | Date: Apr 18th, 2006 1:50 AM
To all...thanks for writing. Feels good to know that there are others that understand. It truely is hard, but at the same time I'm excited for my little girl's arrival. I love to feel her move inside me...it's so weird =) It will be the best day of my life! 

Name: Stacey to Leah | Date: Apr 18th, 2006 2:00 AM
Are you pregnant or have children? This is my first and thought that we would do this completely together. He says he'll pay support and see her all the time, but that's so different then being in the same home and raising her together. I've cried so much in the last few days that I've known he's ending it.....I'm trying to be positive because I don't want her to feel my pain for I want her to be happy and know she's loved deeply!!! 

Name: diana | Date: Apr 20th, 2006 7:38 PM
Stacey, I have not been in your shoes, but I am a good listner if you need to vent, cry or just chat. [email protected] 

Name: Jess | Date: Apr 20th, 2006 9:41 PM
you guys seem to know what you are talking about so i hope you dont mind me wanting some advice?
I have had unproyected sex, i...im only 14 and for the passed week i have been feeling really sick but not close to throwing up. is this a sign of morning sickness or just some bug going around? i could really do with some help if anyone is offering? im really worried... 

Name: marie | Date: Apr 24th, 2006 9:37 PM
Hi Stacey, sorry to hear what has happened, but look at this as a postive thing. Would you really want your child growing up with a weak person around them? this is your chance to show how strong you are and to bring your child into the world with morals and values. i have a daughter whos father has not shown his face since she was one but she has turned out to be a well adjusted child with a strong mother who loves her. Thats all that matters.good luck and chin up :) 

Name: MELISSA | Date: Apr 26th, 2006 10:36 PM

Name: shelly | Date: Apr 27th, 2006 4:53 AM
i dont know how well i would do, im new to the aol thing so i type real slow but if you want to talk , i am 28 with 1 child 2 years of age and one on the way.. i was homless and into a lot of crap for a long time but now im sort of on the ringht track. i have been threw all that. 

Name: Bessey | Date: Apr 29th, 2006 4:02 AM
Hi Stacey, I can relate. I'm headig into my 7th week and the father has decided that he is not ready. He suggested that I was not ready either. I told him that I was doing this with or without him and basically told me, that I'm on my own. Yes, it hurts. I'm 35 and I would like to think that as adults in our mid-30's, we'd be a bit more mature.
Hang in there! Your friends and family will help you through. 

Name: Meghan | Date: Jul 6th, 2006 2:22 AM
I'm 26 too
[email protected] 

Name: Meres2000 | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 11:42 PM
I am a single mother of two and pregnant again. I am currently unemployed and getting a hard time from my kids father about not being employed. He says that I have no reason to be tired because pregnancy aint hard. 

Name: Meres2000 | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 11:44 PM
Stacey I am here if you would like to chat. I could relate and I could also help you. 

Name: Mere2000 | Date: Jul 10th, 2006 11:47 PM
Hi Bessie well things will get better cause you just focus on what you need to do for you and your child. Things will get better when you get that baby in your arms that will be your comfort and support dont give up. 

Name: beaver | Date: Jul 12th, 2006 3:48 AM
Hey stacey i know exactly what you going thru been there for the past nine months just had my baby in June a little girl however the experience was very hard for me now i am over it Her father does have a relationship with her he comes to see her everyday and we are trying again however i don't kno so if u need someone to talk to or a shoulder to cry on i'm ur girl cause i kno the feeling 

Name: sandi | Date: Nov 14th, 2006 3:50 PM
Hi i'm 26weeks today and i'm 29 years old. Why did he say u were over and how long aere u with him? 

Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Nov 14th, 2006 10:16 PM
I dont know why idiots like this post to bullitons that are 7 months old... 

Name: echomaxie | Date: Nov 20th, 2006 2:12 PM
ok dont worry can i be your chat mate for the rest of the time you would need him to be there/.I assure you that you are going to be very happy meeting me .I hope to meet you too one day .But a word b4 i go .Believe that you are a success and you are gonna make it to that lenght you want to be .So my Dear dont give up be strong. 

Name: babigyrl | Date: Nov 20th, 2006 2:19 PM
I could chat with you if you wanted?? Let me know. My email is [email protected] 

Name: SaRaH | Date: Dec 1st, 2006 11:26 PM

Name: beckysd | Date: Dec 4th, 2006 9:41 PM
Congratulations first of all!! is this your first baby? Well i too am pregnant with my first and know i am definetly going thru what feels like a roller coaster of emotions. There really isnt any way to explain about the father, men are what they are, hopefully he will come around. I hope he does, you didnt make this child on your own and if he were mature he'd realize that. Well again i wish you the best, and if you have to raise this kid on your own, then so be it. Millions of women do it every day. 

Name: Devinn | Date: Dec 19th, 2006 10:08 PM
hi yeah i am 15 and i am having a baby i am 5 weeks along andi have a similar situation my babys daddy told me that if i didnt have an abortion that he would kill himself so i no what you are going through and no that you are not alown and that you will hey trought it with the help of others dont let him spoil this wonderful time in your life
~ Devinn~ 

Name: nicholas | Date: Dec 29th, 2006 11:34 AM
hi stacy
wanna chat with a 19years old nigga. i would love to have a chat with someone special like u. Hope u concieve safely by the grace of God. 

Name: shineingknight | Date: Jul 20th, 2007 10:05 AM
I love my son he is 2 right now but I havn't be able to see him but 2 weeks this whole year. but it sounds like you all have a lot more problems then I got. I hope that things work out for all of you. 

Name: Leigh | Date: Jul 24th, 2007 12:57 AM
Hi, I'm 26 and 30 weeks preg. I'm currently with the father. However, I feel like I'm settling and I'm not sure I want to continue our relationship, even though the prospect of doing it alone is really scary. I'd love to chat with someone as well. 

Name: Mary | Date: Jul 28th, 2007 10:53 PM
Hey..Me too 

Name: sandy | Date: Aug 31st, 2008 2:10 AM

Name: Laurie | Date: Sep 20th, 2008 11:13 AM
Sorry to hear the bad new's. The good new's is you can accomplish any goals or dreams that you ever wanted! Hold your head up high Smile all will be o.k. He will wish you were his. Of course we know you can do better anyhow. KEEP SMILING KEEP SHINING! 

Name: sunshine08 | Date: Sep 27th, 2008 2:12 AM
Well..If you want to chat with other. You may go Singleparentloving.com ..There are so many single parent there waiting for you. 

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