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I want to say to all the couple's posting here looking to pick up a birth mom....STOP IT! This is not the adoption section this is for single parents to talk and get support. Yes I know what's its like to look into everything as I am also looking to adopt but please please please post in the adoption section and leave these people alone. They are not bothering you so please stop posting a want ad in other rooms. Have some respect for these women and stop. If they are wanting to adopt out they can go to adoption and look at the lists of names there and read those posts. To all Of you young ladies I am sorry on behalf of all the couples that have posted here for pestering you and hopefully it will stop. I know its hard to be a single parent I have friends who are. I just hope that you stay strong and enjoy every day with your children. Hopefully everyone will get their happy ending. ↓
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| Name: To Mrs. A.M. | Date: May 21st, 2006 2:13 AM |
| I think you are wasting your breath. It seems as though anything goes on any of the boards here anymore! ↑ |
| Name: Mrs. A.M. | Date: May 21st, 2006 2:28 AM |
| Yeah I think I'm just wasteing my time too......but it was worth a shot. I just wish that posting looking for a Birth mother in any other section but adoption would make them feel like predators. I know that's how it would make me feel...like trying to hunt down a lonely scared girl....and then try to reel her in with pretty words. It's scary the lengths that some people go to. They just have no respect for those who are just looking to talk with other's in the same shoes. The adoption section is exactly where these couple's should post their story and get support from other's who are going through the same thing. If a birth mother is looking they have as much of a chance of her talking to them there without bothering other's. ↑ |
| Name: To. Mrs. A.M. | Date: May 21st, 2006 5:02 AM |
| Shut up!! Who wants to hear from you? I don't know of anyone who wants to keep reading your holier than thou crap on any of the boards but you keep posting, don't you? Let people post what they want and you can read what you want. ↑ |
| Name: Kim | Date: May 21st, 2006 6:23 AM |
| I think people who get on this board and start dictating how things should go are bores, and need to start their own board so that they can run it the way they would like. In the mean time as long as there is nothing offensive in a post we will all have to tolerate each other. Cheers! ↑ |
| Name: MMMM | Date: May 21st, 2006 8:27 AM |
| Well it looks to me like she is right. I know I wouldn't want my child to be placed with someone who I have seen stalking pregnant teens or anyone for that matter trying to hit her up for her baby. I think its just about as bad as perv's hunting for their victim's. If a woman post's just asking for advice or wants to talk to some one else who is going through the same thing why would anyone in their right mind put up an ad for her baby? I think its sick and twisted and if they are that desperate then they need to seek some help. ↑ |
| Name: amy | Date: May 21st, 2006 11:01 AM |
these boards have gone completely insane! people say nasty things people go on the wrong boards for the wrong things
and people come on also to say they dont want there baby and that its awfull how people want to give up there baby! ↑ |
| Name: would you | Date: May 21st, 2006 12:44 PM |
| Would you rather that the baby stay in home its not wanted or loved...to be mistreated and abused? Some young women know they can't handle a baby at this point in their life and are just trying to make sure that it is in a home that will love it and give it the things that she knows she can't give. Adoption is not some huge bad thing.......its a choice so is parenting and abortion. Now if she can't parent which would you rather she do? ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: May 21st, 2006 1:11 PM |
| WOW!!! Some people on here are unreal. I like what you said. I appreciate you saying that. I think that there is a time and place for everything.. I also have allot of respect for you because so many people that are not single parents do not understand what its like. It sounds to me, that you have a healthy respect for single parents and everyone. Thank you. There are not to many of you out there! ↑ |
| Name: A.M. | Date: May 21st, 2006 1:40 PM |
| You think people in here are looney toon's....take a peek at the adoption section......nothing but hateful and rude and nasty peeps there...no getting any kind of support from most of those people. And anyone who thinks being a single parent is easy need to babysit a child alone for about two weeks I bet they change their tune real fast. ↑ |
| Name: Kristina | Date: May 21st, 2006 4:49 PM |
| I agree with Mrs. A.M. about the looneys on the adoption site and that is why I posted on the teen pregnancy board. If I made anyone feel uncomfortable I apologize. I did state that I was in no way trying to pursuade anyone to place their child for adoption only that if it becomes an option we would be interested. I don't think I will come around any longer as the controversy and negativity are more than I am willing to take. It's unfortunate that Aparents and hopefuls can't come on here to support each other. I have never been anything other than supportive to anyone. I realize people have different oppinions and views and do my best to accept that. Good Luck to you all and may you find what you are looking for. ↑ |
| Name: Ummm...hello... | Date: May 21st, 2006 5:25 PM |
| Come on, people... What is up with people who are so against these boards coming here and posting all over???!!! If you don't like what's going on and are not the moderator of this board, then just go away. Do you go all over your neighborhood telling everyone how to run their businesses? Surely there are some businesses that you don't care for, because of service, product or price... do you constantly go back there and then complain about them? I have been on these boards for some time and have only seen adoption posts on this forum when a young mother is asking about her options or is wondering if adoption is a good option. Never have I seen anyone stalking, or begging someone for their unborn baby. They post stating that adoption IS a loving option and if you'd like to talk to someone about it, you can contact me, etc. I've also seen many posts saying, get an abortion! It's freedom of speech. Isn't it?? I am not trying to be rude... I also deeply appreciate single parents who are doing everything it takes to be a good parent. They need support and encouragement. But when one posts a help, I don't know what to do, I don't want this baby, should I have an abortion, etc, don't you expect some women who are unable to have babies of their own, just long to help them out and give those precious babies a home instead of seeing them choose abortion or choose to parent because they think that's their only option??? ↑ |
| Name: sare | Date: Jul 13th, 2006 9:15 PM |
| be careful saw a dateline special about a mom saying she had a baby for adoption on forum and was a lie cheated about 5 families out of a baby to love and thousands of dollars! ↑ |
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