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Name: M
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SaRah (bitchy bunny),
Bitchy I have to wonder why you are always looking for a fight with me. The only reason I can come up with is that this is the only way you have of expressing your angry and fears about your unplanned pregnancy. After realizing this I thought it would be good for me to approach you a little differently. I am going to ignore your rude comments and offer you some understanding. As a single parent-to-be you probably have fears of failing or unjust struggles. You are probably in need of suggestions to help you overcome the challenges ahead of you Here are some suggestions that may help you.

Common Challenges:

1. Earning a income.
Find ways to earn an income from home.
Check out other ways to make ends meet like sharing responsibilities with other single parents. (i.e. childcare, carpool, laundry, and cooking).

2. Meeting your child's needs:
Get connected with a support group and/or parenting classes.

3.Finding time for yourself:
Find a support group where you feel comfortable talking about what's going on in your life. Take turns taking care of children with other parents. Use this time to relax or do something you love to do.

4.Providing a good home:
Live with a friend.
Live with a relative or your parents.
Live in subsidized housing, or find an inexpensive apartment of your own.

Don't lose sight of your goals. Finding ways to supply a good surrounding for your child and continuing your career is possible, but it will take sacrifice, energy, time, and support. Find a family member or an organization that has a program for working single mothers.

Dating right away may be difficult, so don't rush into anything. Be aware of any feelings that lead you to think you have to find your child a father. It is important; do not let those thoughts take over.

I wish you success in your future as a single parent. It won't be easy and it will take alot of growing up quickly. You have a very rough road ahead so I am not going to engage in arguments with you anymore, regardless of the trashy comments you sling at me.
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Name: Lynne n | Date: Dec 8th, 2006 3:52 PM
I have to say that you are both as bad as each other you know full well that she is going to attack you for this! 

Name: M | Date: Dec 8th, 2006 4:22 PM
Lynne I am trying to have empathy for Bitchy. Hard as it might be! 

Name: Lynne n | Date: Dec 8th, 2006 4:25 PM
I understand that but i think with her once you have fallen out there is no way back!
She does what she does cause that is the way she is plain and simple! 

Name: M | Date: Dec 8th, 2006 4:28 PM
Well I guess that will just reveal her true character. 

Name: Lynne n | Date: Dec 8th, 2006 4:30 PM
I agree! 

Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Dec 8th, 2006 9:10 PM
I posted to this already, unlike M the dickweed i dont copy and paste the same thing over and over


lynne what are you doing in singles? didnt everyone in here tell you that you arnt welcome? I know its a free world..but dont you just feel so UN WANTED? 


Name: Lynne n | Date: Dec 8th, 2006 10:18 PM
Everyone?
So there is only TWO people in here then? 

Name: Lynne n | Date: Dec 8th, 2006 10:48 PM
Yeah OLD posts is right people have moved on you should too!
I really feel sorry for you!
Tell me do you have any friends in the real world or are they just in your mind? 

Name: Robbinsjd | Date: Dec 8th, 2006 11:09 PM
make a little cash to pay some bills. No fees. Completely free and legit.
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Name: zoeee | Date: Dec 11th, 2006 7:36 AM
This is immature. Obviously you have the net so why not exchange emails or something instead of attacking people in posts? Fair enough having a problem with somebody but picking at their parental skills is a different thing all together 

Name: Lolly | Date: Dec 12th, 2006 6:08 PM
I dont see how all this fighting is helping anyone. Isn't this supposed to be a place where people can come to try get rid of some of the stresses that come with having a baby and not to have more stress caused by all these arguments. I agree that Sarah can come across as being kinda harsh but I think its a good wake up call that some of the people need on here and M stop causing arguments for the sake of it and dont make patronizing posts like the one you have bcos its obvious your just looking for a fight. So please make this easier for everyone n stop your childish arguments cos thats all they are. 

Name: Ayame | Date: Dec 24th, 2006 2:15 AM
Lynne is in singles because she is a stupid skank that most likely does not have a husband. 

Name: Lynne n | Date: Dec 24th, 2006 6:49 AM
And again! 

Name: Ayame | Date: Dec 25th, 2006 6:16 AM
Get over it Lynne. I will explain AGAIN because well, you're stupid. I haven't been here in a few weeks, didn't notice how old it was till after I typed it really. So whatever. 

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