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Name: Jackie | Date: Nov 11th, 2005 4:28 AM |
Hi Elaine - keep your chin up ..... 1st for the boys maybe you could look into a big brother program .... I think they are all over the US .... as for you, stay strong for the boys - you need to let them know how much you love them - and that their dad does too but its just gonna be them and you now ..... maybe pick a 'fun' night once a week, give them a choice of things that they would like to do ... maybe a movie - skating - ice cream - board games etc .... I wish I could offer more - but these are just some suggestions. Good luck and keep us posted. If you want to talk email me and we can exchange numbers ,, [email protected]. Look forward to hearing from you soon Jackie www.momdad2bee.com ↑ |
Name: mother.of.4 | Date: Aug 23rd, 2011 8:26 PM |
well you should spank the little devil bend him over your knee and pull down his pants and underwear the paddle this barebottm it will work ↑ |
Name: CC51 | Date: Aug 27th, 2011 9:17 PM |
Its probably all about getting at you, not the kids. Or he really hasn't that concern of the kids. The basics first, sleeping time and when when they wake up try to get routine.....the rest is work in progress. I have no advice, other than what works for me kind of... I'm a mess most the time, but over 3yrs after the divorce its gotten a hell of a lot easier! Routine will help because then he might become easier to deal with. Also watching trends, does he become more trouble at night or in the mornings, or in the weekends...holidays etc. for example. You have to set aside emotions a little and note these trends and you will get a upper hand in responding or avoiding them. I learned not to talk to my spouse in the mornings...never....and it helped get the divorce started without as much drama. In the end the divorce was a great thing. It ended her dope addiction and forced her to get a job and stop being a mouthy complaining unappreciative slob. ↑ |
Name: Mona | Date: Aug 28th, 2011 1:27 PM |
I think that you can find a local church to help you with needed resources. i am going through something similar. find out some of the things your oldest son likes and try to spend some alone time doing those things with him. also, go to meetup.com for support groups ↑ |