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Name: maggchick
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I've been seperated from my son's father since shortly after I became pregnant. He didn't see him by his choice pending a DNA test that came back when my son was 6 months old. He began seeing him but I've always made him come to my home because of his history. He's been on & off drugs & has been very unreliable as far as showing up regularly to see our son. Last August he admitted he had been using drugs again and I refused to let him see our son. He started to earn my trust back slowly just to find out a month ago that he's been using drugs again. I'm not letting him see our son again but I'm conflicted as to if I should ever let him see him again. I feel like him inconsistency is only hurting my son. My son is old enough now that he knows his dad isn't around & keeps asking about him. I don't know what to tell him. Regardless I refuse to let his father see him when he's been using drugs, the question is just how long??
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Name: Melissa | Date: Apr 27th, 2012 11:20 AM
I was in a similar situation. But my sons father took me to court so i really had no choice even tho he's an alcholic and always drunk. He's just not allowed to drink around my son, but I have to prove if he does...

As long as he isn't taking you to court I would set boundaries like you have been. He can't show up high/drunk. You must have a visiting schedule and if he doesn't show up or shows up drunk/high then tell him your done being nice.. 

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