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Name: Jessica
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My boyfriend's condom broke a week and a half ago. When he pulled it out sperm went everywhere. I don't know what to do, I am so scared. I am only 16 and he is 20! We're not ready for a baby, that's why we decided if I was pregnant that I would have an abortion. I am really scared, I cry about it everyday. What if I really am pregnant? I just need some advice.
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Name: Shelby | Date: Dec 6th, 2005 8:43 PM
You may want to invest in the morning after pill in the future. 

Name: Kenny | Date: Dec 7th, 2005 6:56 PM
Well I have a 14yr old daughter and I wish that if this was her that she would come and talk to me about this serious problem. I'm a single parent that does not approve of love making until after her career has kicked off, and she has told me that she feels that is the best thing due to. If your feel that you can talk to your parent or parents about this please do so, they might understand that you made a mistake early in life. but I must say I don't approve of abortion unless it really must be done. I hope that your not cause your life has just begun. But you must be better prepared if you continue to make love. 

Name: Lauren | Date: Dec 9th, 2005 6:13 PM
Thats how i got pregnant, i'm 16 now and my daughters almost 2 and i was definately not ready and her dad doesnt even talk to me he lives 1 block away and i see him sometimes and all he does is nod his head at me like we were never even together, its hard and i love him so much but i guess he doesnt love me! when i found out i was pregnant i was actually happy but i was so scared, the only reason i was happy was because i loved her dad so much!!! my advice if you are pregnant is to have the baby, it is a big sacrifice, you wont be able to do all the fun things that most kids our age get to do, but to me it was all worth it because i cant picture loving someone more than i love her!! 

Name: emj | Date: Dec 11th, 2005 4:07 PM
he said you an abortion but do you.
abortions are very scary and what if you cant have a baby again.there is alot of people who would love your baby.
stop worrying you do you no your pregnant.find that out 1st.
from emiy 

Name: Jessica | Date: Dec 12th, 2005 1:37 PM
Thanks everybody for your advice! I took a test and it was negative and then the next day I got my period and it isn't lighter than usual so I guess that means I'm not pregnant!! 

Name: kevin | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 4:14 AM
wow u need to get checked watever u do dont tell ur dad he will go baracuda on u trust me grandparents older cousins best friends and teachers u can trust 

Name: smin | Date: Sep 26th, 2006 7:39 AM
may i know its sperm in ur faraj?hihihi 

Name: Lynne n | Date: Oct 2nd, 2006 5:35 PM
You should have taken the morning after pill! 

Name: Lizzi | Date: Oct 2nd, 2006 6:33 PM
You should never just rely on a condom. Get on birthcontrol too,ASAP! (Before another accident occurs and you find yourself in the same boat! Next time you may not be so lucky!) 

Name: pregnant-heather | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 12:20 AM
well i am 16 and im 15 weeks pregnant and the farther is 21 we didn't plan it an im not really with the father any more but i figured if i was responsible enough to get preg. then i can take the responsibilities of lookin after my baby. If you are preg. really think about what you going to do don take ur baby's life jus cos ur scared of wat people mite say. plus da father mite want u to get rid of it so he can carry on with his life. 

Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Oct 19th, 2006 5:41 AM
Well I cant really give you advice until you know if you are pregnant or not. No point in me saying you should of used other birth control. All i can say is fingers crossed you arnt pregnant, but if you are there are plenty of choices you have, even though you are 16. Let us know! 

Name: BillieJean | Date: Oct 21st, 2006 12:52 AM
jessica...hi i am also 16 and my husband is almost 24....when i first found out i was preg. i was also so scared and really confused but my daughter now is 7 weeks old...trust me if you have an abortion you will regret it....or maybe you wont jus depending on ur thoughts mine were also pretty bad..i thank god every day that i didnt get an abortion....jus like heather said dont take this out on ur baby...u was woman enough to make it so ur woman enough to take care of it...dont kill something that did nothing wrong and that is innocent...i hope you make the right desicion...jus really put ur heart into it...if it's what you really wanna do then do it...but if your jus doing it cuz ur afraid of what everyone else is going to say..then your doing it for the wrong reason...and if the daddy dont want n e thing to do with it so be it...it's his loss....i hope u make the right choice....:) 

Name: falen | Date: Sep 8th, 2007 3:20 AM
heyy, i wouldn't freak out just yet. even though its a scary thought and that it almost makes you feel like your pregnant. i actually had the same sinario last month. im 16 and will be 17 in october and my boyfriend just turned 20 in august. but the condom broke on me, and i was 28 days late when i told him what was up. my aunt actually went out and got me the test and i got my period that morning... i know its hard to not worry about, trust me iv been there.. but just because that happened dosent mean you are deffinately pregnant, and theres a small chance you could be but try not to freak out until you know for sure. well good luck and i hope i made you feel a lil bit better, or gave you a tiny bit of advice. bye for now [3 falen lavallee 

Name: kailey | Date: Jan 7th, 2011 5:17 PM
im 16 as well. about 3 weeks ago, on christmas, my bf and i had sex and the condom broke but we didnt know until after we were through. personally i am against abortion mainly because in my speech class i did a powerpoint over it and the pictures were just so heartbreaking and the teen girls said if they could take it back they would. it is a hard decision. im not sure if im pregnant but i have a gut feeling. but my bf is very supportive and loves me. he told me he wouldnt make me do anything i dont wnt to. every couple is different. if im pregnant ill probably keep my baby. its going to be difficult but im comfortable with it. just know that god has a reason for everything! he wouldnt throw something at you if he didnt think you could handle it(: i wish you the best of luck! 

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