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Name: James
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Hey, kind of a sticky situation. Me and this girl I know were seeing each other for a bit during last december, we had unprotected sex but she said she wasnt at risk of getting pregnant because even tho she stopped the pill 6months ago, her and her BF had not concieved as she thought the pill was still strong in her system. Well, she is now 10 weeks pregnant and it turns out we had sex right before she ovulated. Its changed me and all i want to do is be there for her, im ready to be a dad if need be and its mine. Shes so scared of her BF and family finding out she cheated, she wants nothing to do with me now! i know its probly hormones etc, but I just want to clear things up and get it out in the open, its too much of a big deal to ignore. I couldnt handle not having my kid in my life if it turns out its mine. Not to menton what her BF would think if its not his! (hes black, im white and so is she)
Any help would be awesome, or advice??!!?
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Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 12th, 2008 2:48 PM
You can get pregnant off even if you only miss one. I got pregnant the first month that I quit taking it. 

Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 12th, 2008 2:49 PM
also, to eliminate her boyfriend from the situation, all she has to do is make up a stupid reason of why she wants to dump him, and that should take care of him, but her family may be a different story.... 

Name: james | Date: Feb 13th, 2008 1:58 AM
yea thats a good point, but theve bee together for 2.5 years, and they live together with her family. It might be a little out of the question unfortunitly... 

Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 13th, 2008 2:03 AM
not really, all she has to do is just dump him, then, tell him to get out. Or she could tell the truth, and he'll wanna dump her anyway. Just make sure she doesn't tell your name. 

Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 13th, 2008 2:04 AM
ok, back the cheater truck up here. Uh, I just realized you said her boyfriend thinks the baby is his? NOT GOOD AT ALL!!! 

Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 13th, 2008 2:06 AM
She and you have gotten her into a SERIOUS pickle. Honestly, good luck with her explaining this one away. 


Name: james | Date: Feb 13th, 2008 8:56 AM
yeah! i reckon. thanks for your replies tho, even just talking about it helps me out :) have to see how it goes i guess! 

Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 13th, 2008 10:59 AM
how old are you? 

Name: cjsims | Date: Feb 16th, 2008 5:14 AM
Hello, james!!! 

Name: unright | Date: Feb 28th, 2008 11:34 PM
two words for ya: Jerry Springer 

Name: lorna | Date: Mar 13th, 2008 10:50 AM
If you need help ,I think i can do you a favor, in "soloparentdate.com" .the people in there are very kind ,they will do you a favor as possible as they can . 

Name: annie7224 | Date: Mar 13th, 2008 2:32 PM
Well, I don't know if this will help but My husband and I are trying to adopt and if this is something you might consider we would love to talk to you more email me at [email protected] 

Name: jessica | Date: Mar 28th, 2008 3:35 PM
your just a sad git .... get a life ///// ah bless 

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