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Name: Amy 19
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Hi my names Amy i'm 19, married, got a 16 mounth old toddler and 18 weeks pregnent with another. I lost a lot of my very good friends when i left school as i got pregnent so young and hardly get to socialize with people my age and share the same interests.
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Name: saxton_emma | Date: Jan 15th, 2007 6:33 PM
hey amy im 20 and my daughters 2 n a half.
were r u from ? 

Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 16th, 2007 12:40 AM
hiya im 21 with 2 girls a 4yr old and a 6 month old im from essex and in the same situation as you well apart from being married. How are you? 

Name: Amy 19 | Date: Jan 16th, 2007 9:12 PM
I'm doing well thanks, and you? 

Name: Amy 19 | Date: Jan 18th, 2007 9:40 PM
Just like one of my days, shopping, cleaning and changing dirty nappies. I'm not even getting to spend time with my hubby at the mo because he is working day and night so i'm spending most of my time talking baby talk! I think i've actually forgotten to have an adult conversation. I'm from Norfolk (east of england) 

Name: Amy 19 | Date: Jan 19th, 2007 11:15 AM
Do you work or are you a stay at home mum? I was secretary working for my brothers company before i got pregnent i only worked for him for 8 mounths, i do miss them days as that was the only time i really had a life going out getting drunk and spending money on myself. i dont regret having Jasmim as she is my life, i just miss being able to have a bit of alone time. how about you? 

Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 19th, 2007 5:21 PM
i did work im now a stay at home mum ill probably go back to work when the baby is about 2 then i get to spend some time with her. My eldest starts full time school this september so ill be more flexiable with my working hours. i do miss having time to myself although on the good days when the girls go bed early im able to chill out and relax abit my problem is i aint really got anyone to talk to everyone my age are in uni and gettin drunk every weekend so they dont understand. I had my daughter when i was 17 so i missed out on alot of teenage life anyway. 

Name: Amy 19 | Date: Jan 19th, 2007 7:58 PM
Well look at it the bright side, when we are 30+ we are going to be able to go out and about, there are advantages and disadvantages about having a child young. so how do you find coping with two children? my babys due 27 june so i better get readyi would really like jasmim to be out of nappies when the baby arrives. 

Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 20th, 2007 5:03 PM
its hard work specially on my own but my mum and dad are great they help out alot. June wow not long to go my baby is ayear old in july its gone so quick it still feels like yesterday i was pregnant. Have you introduced her to the potty etc yet? My eldest was fab with toilet training she used the potty for about 2 weeks then went straight onto the toilet. I agree with you but it does get lonely the lack of adult conversation gets to me some times but it does get easier ive dealt with it for 4 yrs now. 

Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 20th, 2007 5:04 PM
Are you going to find out what the sex is? 

Name: Amy 19 | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 12:40 AM
I got a potty at the beginning of the year but she still doesn't know what to do in it and she just gets annoyed sitting on it, i'm not going to give up though i think it might take a little longer than 2 weeks. lol. Do you live with your parents? i lived with my mum for 6 months when My daughter was born but just couldnt handle all the fuss, although everybody was really helpful i just needed to have my own routine and feel like i was in control. i do miss my mum doing all the ironing and cleaning though. lol. I know what you mean this time last year my daughter wasnt even pulling her self up know she running around and climbing on the sofa. yeah im going to find out i hope its a boy for my husband but i dont really mind as long as the babys fit and healthy. not to be nosy but are your daughters farther still around? 

Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 11:39 AM
na my kids dad left when i was 5 months gone with our second i found out he was married id been with him for 6 yrs silly a just shows what a twat i was for missing the signs. i know it sounds silly but try peeing in the potty then let your daughter know how clever that is they pick things up quick but it takes some awhile. I lived with my mum and dad when my eldest was born as i was only 17 i moved out and got a flat when she was 9 months old. I hate it i cant stand living on my own i dont mind doing the housework ironing etc i just dont like having no company. 

Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 21st, 2007 11:41 AM
wanted a boy when i was pregnant with my second i didnt mind as long as the child was healthy but if i had a boy i would have stopped at just the 2 coz 2 is a nice number it ment i could give equally to both but now im glad i had 2 girls i love it no men around yeahh. im still gonna have more though. 

Name: Amy 19 | Date: Jan 22nd, 2007 12:57 PM
Hes the twat for doing such a thing, not you. You dont need a person like that in your life when your trying to bring up two kids anyway. There are loads of really nice guys out there you just have to look really hard lol. You sound like a really strong independent women which is good thing i dont think i'd be as strong as you if i was on my own. I hope you meet the right guy to have more with, I always said that i was just going to have one but know i've changed, we are going to be careful when the babys born though cos theres lots of other things we need to do first but i'm sure we will have another. Do you ever get anybody to look after your two girls so you get the chance to have a bit of a break and let your hair down? I try and get out at least once a month as it will get to me. 

Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 22nd, 2007 4:14 PM
yeah i know well i got the better end if the deal he is the one missing out. Im with another guy now i methim in school and have been friends with him ever since he is a fantastic guy and cares a greatdeal about me and the girls he has just aked me to marry him i aint sure though i wanted to take things slow. I dont go out anymore i havent been out properly since b4 i got pregnant no tell a lie my eldest was 6 months old when i went out with some friends from school they all buggered off after that and i havent really made anymore so i tend to stay indoors now. Ya get used to it but id like to get out more like you said just a case of letting your hair down and unwinding. How long you been married if you dont mind me asking? 

Name: Amy 19 | Date: Jan 22nd, 2007 8:28 PM
Thats great its hard to find a guy who will take on other peoples kids, he sounds really nice, how long have you been with this guy then? He sounds pretty keen on you. I would of never got married to my husband if i didnt have to its such a long story but i dont regret a thing, he works hard to pay for everything and is a very devoted father. We have been married for a year, we got married on christmas eve 2005. 

Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 23rd, 2007 11:15 AM
nice time to get married i always wanted to get married on boxing day. He is alot keener than i am but ive known him for like 10 yrs that bloke has stood buy me through everything ive been seeing him in a moreserious way for about 9 months i got with him not long after split with the kids dad i klnow badtiming but i was so scared of being on my own. Mind you he took things real slow for a while its only been the last 5 months things have really got serious. 

Name: Amy 19 | Date: Jan 23rd, 2007 3:46 PM
So do you really think hand on heart that hes the one for you, I just knew that i wanted to spend my life with marcos the first minute i saw him. Do you know what your answer is going to be? I was with marcos for 3 months when i fell pregnant and I asked him to marry me, it took me ages to get the words out of my mouth but i did. I take it that your name is mel by the way. I've saterted to feel the baby kick, its so exciting i cant wait until the babys here the only thing i'm dreading is giving birth. Did you have natural birth with your two girls? 

Name: mel211985 | Date: Jan 23rd, 2007 11:03 PM
i feel like he is im gonna test the waters abit before i say anything he said he will wait as long as it takes but i think ive taken it abit far watch this space im gonna give him an answer tomorrow, ill more than likely say yes. Well my names michelle but everyone kinda called me mel so it sorta stuck i had natural births with both my girls although i was induced with them both my oldest was 2 weeks late and my 6 month old stopped moving right at the end of the pregnancy so i spent 5 days in hospital being hooked up to heart monitors. I loved it when my girls kicked it made the pregnancy so real pity the blokes cant sharethat its a special bond between mother and child. Are you starting to get ready now? 

Name: Amy 19 | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 7:28 PM
That's funny i had to be induced with my daughter and she was 2 weeks early as well. so you could be a Mrs sooner than you think then, i found although i got married nothing changed really. i hope it works out. There's not alot i need for the baby really i have everything from my first, might need to get a double buggy though but i dont really want to have one though there just so big and you cant get into shops. Although my daughter is very good on her feet she started walking at 10 months. i'll see. I got married in Norwich registry office, do you think you will have a church wedding if you get married or registry? 

Name: Amy 19 | Date: Jan 24th, 2007 7:40 PM
Oh and by the way my name is Michelle aswell, I had jet black curly hair when i was born like my mum so my dad wanted to call me after my mum but mum wanted to call me Amy so they both got there own way, birth certificate says Michelle Amy, but everyone calls me Amy. 

Name: malki | Date: Mar 2nd, 2007 7:46 PM
hi amy
i dont know if your still responding to this message since it is like old but im 19 aswell and i have a little girl who is 16 months im married for a little over two years now and always looking for moms my age to chat with so if you want to reply back and we can chat some mom

Name: tiffym | Date: Mar 7th, 2007 12:55 AM
Hello Amy,
My names Tiffany I am 20 and about 14 weeks pregnant. I don't get to go out much and socialize either. for about 2 months I have been struggling with hypermesis gravidarium some severe nausia thing pregnant women get . it bites..... my husband wasn't so happy to hear the news but is getting better. I just dont know how to talk to him , 

Name: missy 26 | Date: Mar 7th, 2007 9:48 AM
hi im 18 with a 2 year old and i from new zealand 

Name: MrsRedd18 | Date: Mar 18th, 2007 7:25 AM
Hi Amy and all the other young mothers. Im also a young mother and wife. Im 19 years old and I have a 10 month old son and I am 25 weeks pregnant with another little boy. My husband is 27 with an 8 year old daughter and a 2 year old daughter. Needless to say my life is very hard. Im always so sad. I often find my self jusy crying and wishing what life would be like if I had waited. If any of you ever just want to talk im always on the web you can Yahoo IM me at Michelei_Redd or email me at [email protected]! Always Looking for a new friend. 

Name: MrsRedd18 | Date: Mar 18th, 2007 7:28 AM
hey tiffym i also had hyperemis gravidurm and it sometimes mean you have twins its common in multiple birth pregnancy. I just took benadryl and plenty of water and it soothes it. im now in my 6 month and still have it but it definetly has calmed down. my husband hated it to and looked at me in pure disgust. 

Name: bundy_mum | Date: Mar 18th, 2007 1:38 PM
hey amy, mynameis sarah i am 20 in june with a 20 month old and i am 23 weeks pregnant. So i knowhow you feel. Ihad heaps of friends and when they found out i was pregnant they didnt want to know me any more. Nowi have moved to a different town over a year ago and hardly know anyone besides the people i work with and my partners family that i dont like. I have no family here so i find it even more harder. if you wanna talk more about anything email me on [email protected] 

Name: Martin1 | Date: Oct 27th, 2007 5:57 PM
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For right now though i just want to worship at the sacred altar of Your beautiful breasts. They could be pert and perky or pendulous it really doesn't matter, i just want to drink in Your l8ife giving/life sustaining breast milk, i can be reached at [email protected]

If You want your feet worshipped as well i would be more that willing to accomadate that wish as well, I'm not looking for sex just to worship at a superior Goddess's altar

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Name: kevy | Date: Oct 28th, 2007 10:08 AM
hey...like 2 chat? 

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Name: mikey | Date: Dec 9th, 2007 10:46 AM
luv the dialog 

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